If a girl have sex with you....
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u answered that you noe you both like each other in one post. SO why are you asking us when you've answered your own question?
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hope i am not too dated with my postingOriginally posted by coolfox:if a girl you have been dating (but she hasnt agreed to be your gf), have sex with you, do u think she loves you?
Okay, this is about me. I have been dating this pretty girl for a few months, and things have been very good initially. But a lack of commitement is making me confused and i just don;t know what to make of this relationship.
And she is a nice innocent girl, who dun club or smoke. So is she insecure about me, and that's why she is not ready for a relationship? or is it because she is waiting for someone better? I really don;t know anymore.
Or maybe it is my reputation, cos i have attracted quite a number of girls in school, and among my social circle, but gosh, i have always been devoted to her. And i am sure i showed it thru my words and actions.
So what then is wrong? I think only girls can help me to really understand a woman's mind. ...
No. Not necessary. Some may just treat sex casually. Some have sex wif u because u could be the one. end of the day, u must know the person. u shld be able to tell.
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I had the same experience before but jus that i am in the girl's shoe while my ex was in your shoe. I had mixed feelings about her initially, and especially after sex which i feel was detrimental to our relationship later on but her persistance and patient with me moved me.
I dunno whether i pitied her or i really loved her but throughout the time with her, i was enjoying every min of it. She made me fulfill all my childhood dreams as a couple. We did the childish-est of things as well as the loviest of things. I sang her the silliest of songs yet she totally appreciates it, hows that for confidence boasting.
But, how secure would u feel when ur gf is someone whom is willingly to be in a sexual r/s before a r/s is even there yeT. Just this thot terrifies me. It made me feel that if she can go to bed with me that easily, she could go to bed with anyone. Pardon my ignorance but i really regret feeling that way that time. My lack of confidence then cost me someone whom i truely thinks can be my one and only gf now.
If i can go back time, i would not hesitate to love her more than i did. Now that i heard that she is doing pretty well, i feel good for her.
How foolish now when we think back what we did in the past. So to coolfox, i hope that you must love this someone whole heartedly before going on to the next level (sexual). If not, this r/s may just be build on lust and not respect, which is truely the bedrock to a successful r/s.
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You are feeling insecure.
You don't even know whether she feels secure with you.
Let her make the first move.
Just be patient.
It's all in confidence.
We never know you might be needy and persistent towards her.
You don't even know she loves you even with sex.
What the hell is wrong with you?
Damn you are a guy and yet she's making you confused.
Boy you need to do your homework in this dating game.
Got this gut feeling you are a doormat.LOLOriginally posted by coolfox:
if a girl you have been dating (but she hasnt agreed to be your gf), have sex with you, [b]do u think she loves you?
Okay, this is about me. I have been dating this pretty girl for a few months, and things have been very good initially. But a lack of commitement is making me confused and i just don;t know what to make of this relationship.
And she is a nice innocent girl, who dun club or smoke. So is she insecure about me, and that's why she is not ready for a relationship? or is it because she is waiting for someone better? I really don;t know anymore.
Or maybe it is my reputation, cos i have attracted quite a number of girls in school, and among my social circle, but gosh, i have always been devoted to her. And i am sure i showed it thru my words and actions.
So what then is wrong? I think only girls can help me to really understand a woman's mind. ...
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I think the girl is rather horny and in need of getting laid. I tell you, she may behave innocently or look like it to you. But she's just acting out her fantasy.
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it means she HATES you and she have AIDS.
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