Oh no!!! argh.. my new gf confess to me...

• crescent

  1 Oct 05, 15:01

  Just had a heart to heart talk with my new gf of 2 months over dinner... and we mention her ex bf, and somehow we touch on the topic of how far they had progress sexually... Good news is that she's still a virgin... but sad news is that in the past 5, 6 months or so they are together, he has seen and touch most parts of her body... ARGGGG!!! The worst part is that they had reach the stage whereby she has started masturbating for him... arggg!!!!! wa!!!! cant take it ah!!!!!!
  
  Even though i know i shouldnt be feeling as disturbed as i should be, but my male ego just cant take it ah!!!!!!!! Just cant imagine her in bed in another man doing those things... argh!!! I had my own past relationships... and had progress to almost the same extent , if not more... So, you might say its fair... but then again, ah!!!!!!!! Anyone know how im feeling right now? Im still serious about her though...
  
  Anyone had similar experiences? ladies? gentlemen? Please... serious replies only... please dont flame...
• show-stopper

  1 Oct 05, 15:06

  Boi , dun think so much lah , No doubt that it is may disturbing , but what is it is in the past , dun let that image that you have destroy your relationship . As you say that you did to the extent right , so it is rather fair . The most important thing is that dun think so much !!
• aRcTiC_sTaR

  1 Oct 05, 15:08

  If you're serious 'bout her, you just have to accept her past. Don't probe if you're not ready to accept the truth. But hey, at least she was truthful to you right?
• mistyblue

  1 Oct 05, 15:21

  In your past relationship ... you might also have touched or had sexual relations with other gals. If you tell her, you expect her to accept you isn't it?
  Then you are exercising double standards
• crescent

  1 Oct 05, 15:30

  im probably venting my fustration here in a moment of harshness... i guess i will be fine in a few days time.... cause i really want us to work out... its a bad experience knowing her past relationships with her ex though... Now... looking forward to being with her... YEH!!!
• silv3rgal

  1 Oct 05, 15:44

  At least she's honest with you....
• BrUtUs

  1 Oct 05, 16:14

  u should be hapi he havent taken her virginity... still hiam this hiam tat... be hapi with wat u have...
• stellazio

  1 Oct 05, 16:16

  WTF you want her or you want her body?
• kAdEn

  1 Oct 05, 16:17

  Ask and you shall be given....do not ask questions you don't want the answers to...sometimes it's best to just leave it as it is then to open up a can of worms
• jay_rocks

  1 Oct 05, 16:24

  u cb. u got go to the same extent, why bother? then shouldnt it be ur girl ditch u then?
• i_luv_clit04

  1 Oct 05, 17:18

  Like wat the other memebers have all mentioned, she is still a VIRGIN so u should not be making a big fuss about it here. Furthermore u have done the same if not more so u should try to understand. Does she mind tat u have done the same? Did u even tell her how far u and all ur ex progress?
  
  Though u can say it is hard for ur own ego, u just have to let it go. If u can't then u should not have asked in the first place. By asking u should be prepared to accept watever answer she gives u and not fault her for it. She was frank wif u ok.
  
  Forget about the past and start masturbating each other lah!
• vincentchean

  1 Oct 05, 17:30

  screw her will make u feel better
• zheshi

  1 Oct 05, 18:01

  Originally posted by crescent:

  Just had a heart to heart talk with my new gf of 2 months over dinner... and we mention her ex bf, and somehow we touch on the topic of how far they had progress sexually... Good news is that she's still a virgin... but sad news is that in the past 5, 6 months or so they are together, he has seen and touch most parts of her body... ARGGGG!!! The worst part is that they had reach the stage whereby she has started masturbating for him... arggg!!!!! wa!!!! cant take it ah!!!!!!
  
  Even though i know i shouldnt be feeling as disturbed as i should be, but my male ego just cant take it ah!!!!!!!! Just cant imagine her in bed in another man doing those things... argh!!! I had my own past relationships... and had progress to almost the same extent , if not more... So, you might say its fair... but then again, ah!!!!!!!! Anyone know how im feeling right now? Im still serious about her though...
  
  Anyone had similar experiences? ladies? gentlemen? Please... serious replies only... please dont flame...

  my commentx.. go and die...
  U have done the same to your ex-gf .. and what do u expect? do u love your gf more or your EGO more?
  
  If u still can't stand this think.. my advice..find the tallest building and jump down
• sinicker

  1 Oct 05, 19:08

  Originally posted by crescent:

  Just had a heart to heart talk with my new gf of 2 months over dinner... and we mention her ex bf, and somehow we touch on the topic of how far they had progress sexually... Good news is that she's still a virgin... but sad news is that in the past 5, 6 months or so they are together, he has seen and touch most parts of her body... ARGGGG!!! The worst part is that they had reach the stage whereby she has started masturbating for him... arggg!!!!! wa!!!! cant take it ah!!!!!!
  
  Even though i know i shouldnt be feeling as disturbed as i should be, but my male ego just cant take it ah!!!!!!!! Just cant imagine her in bed in another man doing those things... argh!!! I had my own past relationships... and had progress to almost the same extent , if not more... So, you might say its fair... but then again, ah!!!!!!!! Anyone know how im feeling right now? Im still serious about her though...
  
  Anyone had similar experiences? ladies? gentlemen? Please... serious replies only... please dont flame...

  ur so used, and u want a genuine gf??
  pls lar, be thankful she told u abt it n not u havg to find out urself a few years down the road.
• shade343

  1 Oct 05, 19:12

  So you can finger other girls but she cant finger other guys lah?
• Crystal_Dumpling

  1 Oct 05, 19:32

  better than she lie to you and you find out on your wedding night, ain't it?
  
  please larh. if she's courageous enough to tell you about her past, you should be magnanimous enough to accept her, right?
• kawa

  1 Oct 05, 19:37

  black cat white cat, it's still a cat.
• renorenal

  1 Oct 05, 20:07

  Shouldn't this be in the Aunt Agony's Forum?
• zheshi

  1 Oct 05, 20:17

  Nah it in the right forum.. This guy care about sex more than feeling..Bar suit it
  
  
• Glen999

  1 Oct 05, 20:37

  i think she knows that you will be comfortable.
  
  so she hides the sex part. just said that she is still a virgin. this is good strategy for obvious 2 reasons:
  
  1) you could not ask for sex because she has excuse that she didn't give it to her ex and would like to keep it until married.
  2) if she sex with u, you would think that you are the first one and felt shiok!
  
  anyway, you will never know whether she is still virgin or not.
  
• alexkusu

  1 Oct 05, 20:39

  ur not worthy of her love
• xlinngx

  1 Oct 05, 20:58

  hey chap. i tink ur gf good lerr norr.. well.. who wun do anytink during a relationship?? others also say. ok? she's still a virgin. most importantly.. ishh alreadii in e past lehh~ den u sad or angryy wart? u last tym no fingerr ur ex-gf mehh? ur ex gff no masterbate ferr u mehh? iyah..~ guys ish lidats.. guy can go outsidee find extra-martial relationship.. gers kannot.. HAIS!
• 798

  1 Oct 05, 21:03

  these confession hurts... i encountered things which are much worse than this... sometime i wish i nvr knew it...
  
  but it's better than she willing to tell you the truths to show you that she care and bother of you... if you love her and not bother the past, it will be fine... otherwise, no point of being together when these issues bothering you.
• Glen999

  1 Oct 05, 22:07

  Originally posted by 798:

  these confession hurts... i encountered things which are much worse than this... sometime i wish i nvr knew it...
  
  but it's better than she willing to tell you the truths to show you that she care and bother of you... if you love her and not bother the past, it will be fine... otherwise, no point of being together when these issues bothering you.

  you never know whether she is telling the 'truth'.
• coffeeortea

  1 Oct 05, 22:09

  if you love her, live with. if not, just break up with her.