Oh no!!! argh.. my new gf confess to me...

• I-like-flings(m)

  1 Oct 05, 22:12

  my personal view:
  u love her or her body?
  
  my expected answer due to my nick:
  she still virgin what, then bear with it first lah.. screw her then dump her lor, let the next guy to post another "Oh no!!! argh.. my new gf confess to me... >" thread here lor...
• CX

  1 Oct 05, 22:39

  is there such a thing as a person without a past?
  
  
• Griffie

  1 Oct 05, 22:41

  Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):

  she still virgin what, then bear with it first lah.. screw her then dump her lor, let the next guy to post another "Oh no!!! argh.. my new gf confess to me... >" thread here lor...

  Nice one
• renorenal

  1 Oct 05, 22:59

  Originally posted by CX:

  is there such a thing as a person without a past?
  
  

  I will have to go with CX on this point. There is no one in this world who does not have a pass, unless of course he lives for a few seconds in this world (heck, he may even have his life when he is in the womb). In considering this fact, the next question to pump is the weightage of the past, whether how bad it is or how good it is.
  
  Sometimes it is easier said than done to forget something that can be quite hurtful, yet it is a challenge that will make the relationship stronger.
  
  "Let bygones be bygones" and "Bury the hatchet"
• princez_81

  3 Oct 05, 02:23

  You should be happy that she is still a VIRGIN
  Even if she is not, there is nothing wrong.
  Nowadays you cannot expect a gal still be a virgin.. pple are more open-minded.
  If you really love her, you should not mind about her past.
  What matters is the present and the future.
• boy in blues

  3 Oct 05, 02:30

  Originally posted by crescent:

  Just had a heart to heart talk with my new gf of 2 months over dinner... and we mention her ex bf, and somehow we touch on the topic of how far they had progress sexually... Good news is that she's still a virgin... but sad news is that in the past 5, 6 months or so they are together, he has seen and touch most parts of her body... ARGGGG!!! The worst part is that they had reach the stage whereby she has started masturbating for him... arggg!!!!! wa!!!! cant take it ah!!!!!!
  
  Even though i know i shouldnt be feeling as disturbed as i should be, but my male ego just cant take it ah!!!!!!!! Just cant imagine her in bed in another man doing those things... argh!!! I had my own past relationships... and had progress to almost the same extent , if not more... So, you might say its fair... but then again, ah!!!!!!!! Anyone know how im feeling right now? Im still serious about her though...
  
  Anyone had similar experiences? ladies? gentlemen? Please... serious replies only... please dont flame...

  my 2 cents, if i love a girl, i'd marry her if she got gang-raped before. no shiit
• kikq

  3 Oct 05, 02:56

  some guys here mentioned that as long as she's still a virgin everything's ok...is being a virgin really so important?
• i_luv_clit04

  3 Oct 05, 08:07

  Originally posted by kikq:

  some guys here mentioned that as long as she's still a virgin everything's ok...is being a virgin really so important?

  There will always be guys who wan VIRGIN brides. Either coz they genuinely are VIRGINS themselves or they juz wanna play around outside and then finally marry a "pure" one.
• rainee

  3 Oct 05, 08:10

  wats wif guys and virginity? So it is alrite for guys to not be virgin before marriage but if they know their gfs are not virgins, they will feel disturbed?
• shandower

  3 Oct 05, 08:23

  If you can't handle the truth, find another girl.
• hansiong

  5 Oct 05, 00:44

  Hey. come on...
  she is a nice gal as she told u everything. she was trying to be fair and honest to you...
  if she kept this serectly to you and one day you find out, how?
  think twice seriously...
  to find a gal like yours is HARD...
  
  treasure it.. you can do it...
  
• mancha

  5 Oct 05, 00:54

  Originally posted by shandower:

  If you can't handle the truth, find another girl.

  .........who lies.
• Ogbunwezeh

  5 Oct 05, 01:45

  Originally posted by crescent:

  Just had a heart to heart talk with my new gf of 2 months over dinner... and we mention her ex bf, and somehow we touch on the topic of how far they had progress sexually... Good news is that she's still a virgin... but sad news is that in the past 5, 6 months or so they are together, he has seen and touch most parts of her body... ARGGGG!!! The worst part is that they had reach the stage whereby she has started masturbating for him... arggg!!!!! wa!!!! cant take it ah!!!!!!
  
  Even though i know i shouldnt be feeling as disturbed as i should be, but my male ego just cant take it ah!!!!!!!! Just cant imagine her in bed in another man doing those things... argh!!! I had my own past relationships... and had progress to almost the same extent , if not more... So, you might say its fair... but then again, ah!!!!!!!! Anyone know how im feeling right now? Im still serious about her though...
  
  Anyone had similar experiences? ladies? gentlemen? Please... serious replies only... please dont flame...

  Haha ur first gf ah?? I think so la. Anyway nothing wrong, u lucky to find a virgin, nowadays wanna find a virgin very hard liao, count urself lucky, maybe u still young. Now my age, if wanna find a gf tat is close to my age, comfirm kena fuc k how many times by their dunno how many ex bf, suck dunno how many time of cocks etc. So be happy with wat u have.
• BIGblackMoLe

  5 Oct 05, 21:29

  get a life la... haiyo!!!!
• beavan

  5 Oct 05, 22:07

  Originally posted by Glen999:

  you never know whether she is telling the 'truth'.

  trust is a good thing
• browniebaobao

  5 Oct 05, 22:16

  If u can't accept it, then dun ask. As simple as that.
• paperbag79

  5 Oct 05, 22:47

  hey dude, think of it this way. now that u r wif her, wil u wanna touch her touch there, wil u wan her to bj, hj u? if yes, den r u thinking too much, isnt it a norm? if no, r u u sure u r a guy?
  
  if a guy wans it, who's gonna do it? do u mean that u can request sex but wan ur gf to b virgin?
  
  u shld b thankful that she's stil a virgin
  
  how much does an ego cost, i wonder?
• paperbag79

  5 Oct 05, 22:48

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  If u can't accept it, then dun ask. As simple as that.

  yalor, ask liao den buay song, den ask for wat?
• jOhO

  6 Oct 05, 03:03

  i dun do this often, becos i believe u are a guy that's not beyond hope, and u haven't done anythign to me to deserve this.. but..
  
  FUcK YOU!!!!
  
  seriously wake up ur idea.
  
  i'm screwing my good reputation on this forum by being outright and hurling insults at u but it's for a good cause, hopefully.
  
  pple trust u to accept them and come clean and this is what she gets? i mean, given, u prob didn't express all these to her, but that's not the point.
  
  u are the reason why we have "sexual inequality" and why women "hate" men. it's bad enuff now, without pple like u making it worse.
• browniebaobao

  6 Oct 05, 10:03

  Originally posted by jOhO:
  i dun do this often, becos i believe u are a guy that's not beyond hope, and u haven't done anythign to me to deserve this.. but..
  
  [b]FUcK YOU!!!!
  
  seriously wake up ur idea.
  
  i'm screwing my good reputation on this forum by being outright and hurling insults at u but it's for a good cause, hopefully.
  
  pple trust u to accept them and come clean and this is what she gets? i mean, given, u prob didn't express all these to her, but that's not the point.
  
  u are the reason why we have "sexual inequality" and why women "hate" men. it's bad enuff now, without pple like u making it worse.[/b]

  Woot!~ jOhO cool down..
  
  but I agree with u with those in red.
• guessme

  6 Oct 05, 10:19

  you have to accept her PAST!! because you cant blame her..... YOU CAN BLAME YOURSELF NOT TO GETTING KNOW HER BEFORE HER EX!!
  
  so whose fault? you or her?
  
  stop looking at the back... toward the future! that is the future between you and her. trust and be confident!
  
  btw, virgin isnt important now...... almost all the gals lost their V in age of 15-18.
  well...... haihz..................................
• megatron

  6 Oct 05, 14:03

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  WTF you want her or you want her body?

  UPZ!!
• m)phosis

  6 Oct 05, 14:13

  when u ask someone u expect the truth... if u dun wan the truth... dun ask
• AF2005

  6 Oct 05, 14:23

  is she hiding anymore from you?
  
  best is don't ask. and like her for who she is, but remember to take what she can give, don;t refuse.
  
  
• dcx

  6 Oct 05, 14:28

  seems like guys are more concerned abt their gfs's sexual experiences....So, what kinda love relationship are we toking abt???
  
  HA!