Originally posted by Shantelle:
coz huh.. almost every one of my bf always somehow get to the point whereby they want sex.. and i seriously dun like the idea.. coz it makes me wonder if they truly love me.. or they just simply wanna fuk.. which really sux.. and i understand that some guy would SAY "its ok to live wifout sex.." but at the end of the day.. when they wait too long.. they would give up THINKING.."WTF manz.. wait for this girl so long.. till now still cannot satisfy my lust..kns".. Then againz.. IF i were to tell them.. go satisfy urself wif another girl.. they'll think that i dun love them enough tts why i told them to find another to bed wif.. But i simply love to be in love and haf a proper CLEAN relationship.. why so difficult to SEE and HAVE such a guy ANYMORE!? Almost every guy out there is just out there for SEX! daNNNmmmNNnn IT!~
Since its this case... just that you haf not met the 'Mr Right' yet... You had juz earned my respect for you... I cannot see how come a gal can withstand 'sexless' for a long long time till marriage.. I always tot my cousin will remain a virgin till marriage but after 2yrs... she still gave to him...because... kissing will lead to petting... petting will lead to heavy petting and so on and so forth.... can tahan meh when you get to almost climax? [ok ok... out of point]
Anyway... wat you told those men who wanted sex frm you were right... Go find someone else who can satisfy his lust if he doesn't want a clean and proper relationship. But again... dun stereotype all men lah... not all want sex is juz to satisfy themselves... they wanna make love wif you because they love you too, not necessary for lust. I noe a guy who only make love wif gf when she allows... or she feels that its time they need to get noe each other physically with emotions too.. other than that he wun force himself on her though he needs to release.. he will only tahan till she wants it... and mostly its once a mth.
