Would you break up wif ur GF who dun gif u sex?
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last time i had to wait a whole year for my gf to finish her A lvl before she was willing to do it with me.... after that was a few years of much fun, sometimes she even initiated sex.
sometime after i got into army, she broke of with me for another guy. sometime later, i got back in contact with her as a friend. occasionally she talked about her new r/s, how she regret started having sex and promised herself she wont let her new bf do anything to her. appearently the furthest they got to was kissing and hugging nothing more.
half a year later they broke up. reasons unknown, she wont tell. last we spoke, her bf likes hooking up gals online -
both ways of looking at it... if u dont want sex with BF then he force you. might as well forget it.
some gals want to express by having sex with BF.
some would trade sex to secure themselve with BF.
some gals wants to have sex coz they feels it a pleassure for themselve, but gals feeling does get involved more than men.
most guys r branded "playboy" for those who trade 'love' for sex, but some gal too juz have sex w/o string attached as they view sex like kissing. no big deal.
some guys want to express by having sex with GF. Some would trade sex to secure themselve with GF. But less feel involve when break-up. men are less mature on what they want in relationship beside sex....
so depend on yourselve. if u get my idea. -
if you start hating men because now you cant find the Right One, you'll nvr be able to commit yourself into a r/s fully ever again.
be patient...... i personally know of several friends who had been with thier gfs for almost 2-3 years now and still no sex.
ie, there are still those kinda guys around -
Just ignore those who encrouage you to have sex, they are just bullshitting. They are just saboing you. Desire you to give up what they doesn't have anymore.
You must know how we men feels. Just by having sex doesn't garrantee you a trump card to control us you be an idiot if you think that way. Instead you are bound by your bf. He holds the trump card not you. Although we are pretty much liberated compared to the past but after all we are still an asian country. There are still alot of nice guys who still value virginity. Think about what you'll feel after you break up with your bf. You'll feel that you no longer able to give the best of yourself to the true right one right?
If he really loves you he will be ready to wait for you. If its just about your body then just get him out of your life. He don't deserve you. You deserve someone better.
An UK Studies had shown the divorce rates are relative to having sex before marriage or living together before marriage in particular even if he is the only person whom you first gave him yourself. It may be as simple as an desire and act but it has deep impact more than just a relationship. -
Once u pop.. u cant stop..
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how can a girl become your girlfriend if u haven't had sex first ?
man needs sex, if she don't give it then get it somewhere else. -
ha ha ? that is a very childish n immature way of justifying urself. U should sayOriginally posted by Kavorka:how can a girl become your girlfriend if u haven't had sex first ?
man needs sex, if she don't give it then get it somewhere else.
How does ur girlfriend prove her love by not giving her most sacred... her body to u ? N if she doenst show the love.. i guess i have to give the love to someone who will give it back
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At the end of the day i still wonder if Singapore men would wait till after marriage or not.. sianz.. i haven't seem to meet anyone who is decent.. hows that? gosh! horrible man!~
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i dont see why anyone would restrain from havin sex before marriage, is it becuz of parents? or is it becuz ppl will think that you are 'loose'? or some other psychological thing???
making love is a natural thing for any loving couples to do...infact its the closest that u 2 can get. but to each his own, i guess -
dun know, but one thing if i dun give her sex she will break with me
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its just how different ppl tihnk differently la.... like i started another thread, not understanding why a gal would knowingly become a third party, some tell me sometimes things just happens, others tell me they shouldnt do it. Like i felt young gals nowadays lack self preservation, i have ppl tell me that i'm just too conservative. irony is... i have flings too every once in a while...(not so of a chiongster, make it once in a long while)
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What do u mean by decent? That does not mean those who wants sex is someone who is indecent. Moreover, like what Wendy81 says, Sex doesn't really means something that is negative. Well, it can be more than just a body language rather that what u assume 'LUST'. However, man should still respect any decision made by the girl as such thing only involve both party and not just one sided.Originally posted by Shantelle:At the end of the day i still wonder if Singapore men would wait till after marriage or not.. sianz.. i haven't seem to meet anyone who is decent.. hows that? gosh! horrible man!~ -
u still only young... VERY young.. if u cant wait for the rite guy to turn up.. im sure u can understand why some guys cant wait to.....Originally posted by Shantelle:At the end of the day i still wonder if Singapore men would wait till after marriage or not.. sianz.. i haven't seem to meet anyone who is decent.. hows that? gosh! horrible man!~
anyway.. maybe its just not time yet.. -
ya, you still very young, if you can get a bf once, you can another one again.... but for the right one to turn up, it ll take patience.
whereas it'll be more cruel for us guys.. ... ......... -
well ... depends on the individualOriginally posted by Shantelle:OR would u stay wif her coz u love her?
or does a relationship always haf to involve sex?
for me its like .... a car
before u buy one you have to go for a test run right ?? -
err.. car is car.. human is human.Originally posted by borgkilla:well ... depends on the individual
for me its like .... a car
before u buy one you have to go for a test run right ?? -
Singaporean girls are pretentious, spolit bitches caught up with their own self-deluded importance. No wonder us guys are seeking entertainment else where.
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if u really luv him u will have sex with him so he will not break off with uOriginally posted by dark_blue564:if he really luvs you. he will not force u have sex wif him. n he will not break up just becoz u dun wanna give it to him. -
if u dont let him f u c k u its cos u r not serious with him & is only a b i t c h tats making use of his $ & timeOriginally posted by nanren4ever:if ur boyfriend breaks up with u because u don't give him sex, then he is basically just a bastard who wants a shag from u. Forget all the bullshit about u not loving him if u don't f*** him, he is just a selfish idiot who wants to care only for his little brother. -
make things real simple, if u r jus a young pc of s h i t, then keep your virginity & dont try 2 act tough by giving it. if u r old enough 2 get pumped, then u jus think of whether u luv him enough 2 do it, if u do then do the ah ah ah, if not then lock it up & tell your bf u r not ready yet. luv is not all abt sex but sex plays a part in luv. the body is yours, u decide. wats important is whether u feel comfortable or not & whether u will regret it later stage of your life.
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Hmm You gf seems more like a prostitute to you. So you spend so much time and money on her just to get to her pants rather than her heart?Originally posted by MRMUSICPRODUCER:if u dont let him f u c k u its cos u r not serious with him & is only a b i t c h tats making use of his $ & time
I pity your life.
Sex is not a wrong thing but perhaps it has other implication too. So what exactly is wrong waiting for it after marriage? As if you will die from not having sex. I'm sure there are still alot of people chooses to have sex after marriage comparing to only 10% of Singaporean does that. Even in the states the younger generation are growing to value virginity before marriage on a recent studies and sex after marriage is a growing statistic, after seeing the mess up, broken families it caused in the previous generation. Afterall studies had shown that having multiple sex partners before marriage tend to lead to a higher divorce rate. Not to mention about premarriage pregnancy.
Well why not take it as a test for your bf. If he truly loves you he is willing to wait till marriage. If not his just treating you like a amendities. If he could have asked this from you I don't see why he had not been asking sex from all his ex or probably all the relationship after breaking up with you.
BTW I'm not a girl and I think no matter religious reasons or practical reasons its always good for for the girl to restraint after all the girl has to lose more than guys. -
Sex is one of the reasons that can maintain a relationship between men and women. This may be thought for as something not rational, but it's true. Of course, sex would be recommended after marriage or after the age of 18.
Think of it this way,
Without lust, there won't be any desire.
I'm not saying that sex is compulsory, but it plays a huge part. Women wants to be loved by the person whom they love. So does men, and the best method to prove it in a short term basis is sex. Long term method would include lots of time wasted, money going down for their accessories or their interests, etc. -
IMHO.. i think its how you click with your partner in a relationship.. personnally i would rather stick around with some one i can chat with all day... then some one who i can't talk to and just gave me sex all day... it really helps if she could cook well too hahahaha
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no.
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just to talk to him abt this.. u have ur stand and he should respect it...
it happens to me o.o my ex wanted it but i dun wan... lols.. its actually ur view la...