What if your wife is a "dead fish" in bed?
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hMz....dude there...you find your wife a "dead fish" becoz she can't perform in bed with you...therefore, you're wondering if it gives you the right to find other women outside to satisfy your sex desire...yea?
Why not put it this way....
If the problem lies that your wife's a "dead fish" on bed when engaging sex intercourse with you, so...........
Could it becoz you can't perform, and that's why she's a "dead fish"? Who knows, she could be a "wild dragoness" when she's doing with someone else?
If your thoughts of finding other women to fulfill your sex desire is alright, well...it does gives your wife the rights to find other guys out there whom can bring her sexual desire to "wild fire"...
You want your wife to be fcuked by other guys out there and she love sex with other guys rather than with you? Imagine~~~~ Imagine she enjoying sex (NOT WITH YOU) with pleasure to the max....but NOT WITH YOU....
Can endure with such scenario? If can't, better don't try to find other women to fulfill your sexual desires...coz..the world's round and you know what's retribution?
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See lah, now you're stucked, *evil laughter *, who ask you to get married in the first place... *evil laughter *... I shall cherish my bachelorhood while I still can, otherwise next time go out with male friends cannot, watch soccer cannot, play pool cannot, watch movies with friends until late also cannot, everything cannot... can only follow wife to shopping and pay for her everything and carry all her bags.Originally posted by dotaro:No kids allowed.
How will guys feel if you finally marry you loved one but finds out eventually that your wifey is a "dead fish" in bed?
Does that mean you'll eventually lose interest in you love and wander outside to seek for satisfaction?
Is the wife to blame if the husband wanders out of bed for another woman cos he cant satisfy him emotionally and sexually?
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lick her to no man's land.
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and u wonder why ppl pay so much to go eat sashimi..........hahahahaha
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There could be many reasons.Originally posted by browniebaobao:does sex mean so much?
could it be man's ego?
i also heard that men nowadays cannot perform as well as before.. lol.. so the prob might not be on the wife only.
wat if it's the man that could not give her the satisfaction, that's why she became a dead fish?
Firstly, one have to check himself to see if he's at fault or he did something wrong. If there is, seek to resolve.
Second, be sensitive to respond from spouse, communication, gesture and expressions.
Then the difficult part will be Sexual disorder and bad experience that led to psychological phobia.
Most of the time. It's the concept of intercourse that is warped or wrong that leds to 'dead fish' syndrome.
Because, if a couple have no problem communicating will successfully respond positively and voice out whatever gives them pleasure.
dead fish syndrome could also mean deteriorating relationship.
All in all...
it's more than skin deep. -
Originally posted by FireIce:and u wonder why ppl pay so much to go eat sashimi..........hahahahaha
i tot oyster helps?
sashimi also can? -
In red, I agree with u.Originally posted by M©+square:There could be many reasons.
Firstly, one have to check himself to see if he's at fault or he did something wrong. If there is, seek to resolve.
Second, be sensitive to respond from spouse, communication, gesture and expressions.
Then the difficult part will be Sexual disorder and bad experience that led to psychological phobia.
Most of the time. It's the concept of intercourse that is warped or wrong that leds to 'dead fish' syndrome.
Because, if a couple have no problem communicating will successfully respond positively and voice out whatever gives them pleasure.
dead fish syndrome could also mean deteriorating relationship.
All in all...
it's more than skin deep.
so if it's a bad experience, i think the man should not blame the woman and use it as an excuse to find other woman ba? -
sashimi is raw... raw vs dead. get it?Originally posted by browniebaobao:
i tot oyster helps?
sashimi also can? -
dead fish or not, using this as excuse to go out and find tigress is oredi bad enuf....
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oh.. now i get it.Originally posted by Camellias4me:sashimi is raw... raw vs dead. get it? -
In this case.Originally posted by browniebaobao:In red, I agree with u.
so if it's a bad experience, i think the man should not blame the woman and use it as an excuse to find other woman ba?
I only could agree to a extend.
Because if Open Communication is not engaged.
There are consequences which the couple have to bear.
It shouldn't be a blame and shame thing, there are reasons why husbands go find other women; namely paid sex. And reasons why wives didn't want to give their spouse pleasure
Too many underlying issues.
Extra Marital affair is a more complicated issue. -
she is tired from all those wild "duck" chases la. gif her some rest.
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Yeap.Originally posted by FireIce:dead fish or not, using this as excuse to go out and find tigress is oredi bad enuf....
It's a very bad excuse. -
just do we what we all do with dead fishes. eat it.
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Prepare for the funeral lor....
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..... Or turned the "dead fish" into '"salted fish"'
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We're talking about wife...Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:..... Or turned the "dead fish" into '"salted fish"'
Lets not degrade them any further...
p.s. i know you're joking. -
enough about fish, lets go vegetarian.
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u by far my dear is a man who knows his women,Originally posted by Fatum:tsk ! ... aiyah ... this sort of things doesn't come naturally to everyone mah ...
eh bro .... perhaps you can be more "pro-active" also ... maybe ermmm ... she got "bored" too ? ...
give her a massage before hand .... prep her .... and focus on her first ... go down on her or something ... use some creativity, use your tongue ... most women will respond positively when it's your "turn" ....
fore play is so much better than wham bam thank u maam,
get a life dude , take some life lessons from Fatum, he knows the art. -
Wife is a dead fish? You go fishing for your wife but nv put her in a bowl of water so shes dead now...Originally posted by dotaro:No kids allowed.
How will guys feel if you finally marry you loved one but finds out eventually that your wifey is a "dead fish" in bed?
Does that mean you'll eventually lose interest in you love and wander outside to seek for satisfaction?
Is the wife to blame if the husband wanders out of bed for another woman cos he cant satisfy him emotionally and sexually? -
Maybe hor, tik in another way lah :-
what if she is a tigeress in bed?? you not scare that she is SOOOO experience and can even lead you meh?? Such a pro, should have tried and tested many times liao
...you not scare???
Dead Fish : maybe need you to guide and lead her on mah, both ways learn and satisfy each other, watch dvd together and learn, good !! -
agree with u fully. gals enjoy sex. need to improve on his foreplay. if aroused, how dead can we be.... also need to check whether his one is too big or too small. reasons are obvious. pain level need to get used to. once when with an angmoh, his one so big, initially felt stimulated, but when inside, so pain, need to breathe and get used to his size. told him not to go all the way inside. men like to see us moan in pain when they pump us. the louder the moan, the harder he becomes, by then, already wet, not pain anymore. enjoy your sex. if not now, then when.Originally posted by mochou:as ppl said, before you claim that she's a dead fish, check if the problem lies in you. We cant confirm it's your problem, only you know yourself, if you think you are ok in terms of time, in terms of quality of foreplay(you dun just take off her pants and start banging, rite?), in terms of others elements.
Girls do enjoy sex, but maybe not the way you think, try something romantic with her, light some candles, play some soft music, kiss her touch her for a long time before the real "action", she may like it. And try to do differnt things with her, or else both of you will feel boring doing same thing everytime.
ok, if it's not your problem, you have big little brother, you can do many times, you give her good foreplay, you take the trouble to set up romantic atmosphere, but she is still a dead fish....... Then you should ask her what's the problem, she dun enjoy sex at all or what. If you really have a very jialet sex life with your wife, maybe you can seek help from doctors, many ppl feel paiseh to seek help from doctor when comes to this kind of thing.
"wife is dead fish" is not an excuse to find girls outside. -
Hmmm....before you buy a car....always test drive???? haha...not to be crude or disrespectful to women, just that i feel marriage is a very very big decision, and sex is an important part of marriage too...so before marriage i think couples should try out first.....not just in sex but in normal day to day living as well, so that there wont be any surprises that come only after marriage.
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yeh i bet your mom and dad did that too...pity...now they have a bast art for a sonOriginally posted by enginboi:Hmmm....before you buy a car....always test drive???? haha...not to be crude or disrespectful to women, just that i feel marriage is a very very big decision, and sex is an important part of marriage too...so before marriage i think couples should try out first.....not just in sex but in normal day to day living as well, so that there wont be any surprises that come only after marriage. -
i go catch crocs