Sg gerls r having higher standards?
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Another endless discussion...
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Thumbs upOriginally posted by 022615:They are becoming more materialistic, and better looks though. Are they getting higher standards? In fact it's the opposite, their standards dropped.
Which girl really care about your welfare from the bottom of her heart, none I have seen. Your mum scores much better in truthfully loving you, always worrying about your hunger, and wishing to have you live more comfortably. Girls I have seen always care about their own feelings, their body, dress, shoes, etc., your mum loves you most, forget about serious relationship nowadays.
Lest to mention going clubbing, pub, dancing, knowing different guys for different nights just to forget their problems.
The worst is they say they are going to stop all of these and find a handsome, rich BF, find a good job and start a family, but they are already not virgin. -
Is that all that matters to you? Virginity? Does being a virgin make a girl a wonderful, loving, caring wife? Why cant you say that a girl who marries when she is virgin gets tempted to "try out" different men?Originally posted by 022615:The worst is they say they are going to stop all of these and find a handsome, rich BF, find a good job and start a family, but they are already not virgin.Which girl really care about your welfare from the bottom of her heart, none I have seen. Your mum scores much better in truthfully loving you, always worrying about your hunger, and wishing to have you live more comfortably. Girls I have seen always care about their own feelings, their body, dress, shoes, etc., your mum loves you most, forget about serious relationship nowadays.
HAHA you are crazy. You're talking about a different kind of love, boy. That kind of love has no expectations, no strings attached. Relationship love is all about give and take, you cant expect to be selfish like you are with your mom's love and take for granted that it'll surive no matter what shit you put her through.
Oh my gawd the level of intelligence of boys on this forum is frightening. -
I was once queuing up behind this woman at an atm machine, probably wife of an expat, after she drew her money, she went off, and i saw her account had about 60k plus left. then i look at mine... $60 plus left. no wonder i have no gf.
I think it's normal that girls tend to at least go for guys who are wealthier... i mean even their parents advise them to find bf that are rich lor!
even my dad also joking ask me find a girl from a rich family... but too bad he didn't know his son is a loser to hangs out at sgforums.. haha! -
Thank I goodness I'm getting married to a lady like that, not like one of you. Guys, I advise you to longer just get a girl based on a looks but one that is long suffering.Originally posted by CaramelCrab:HAHA you are crazy. You're talking about a different kind of love, boy. That kind of love has no expectations, no strings attached. Relationship love is all about give and take, you cant expect to be selfish like you are with your mom's love and take for granted that it'll surive no matter what shit you put her through.
Oh my gawd the level of intelligence of boys on this forum is frightening.
Love is long-suffering. You have fallen short of the definition if you fail to understand this. Love isn't a feeling or a momentary sensation, but one that perseveres despite all difficulty.
I can honestly say that my fiancee is one like that. I have been with a her for about 8 years, and when I was younger and more immature, I really was troublesome. Thank goodness she loved me more than the nonsense I gave her, giving us the opportunity to live a better life together now. -
Girl from rich family doesn't always mean that you will get to enjoy her family's money. In fact, she might expect you to provide for her a similar lifestyle to what you are used to. I've seen a number of such relationships, and I can tell you honestly, its ain't pretty sight at all.Originally posted by leddy:even my dad also joking ask me find a girl from a rich family... but too bad he didn't know his son is a loser to hangs out at sgforums.. haha!
I always like to hear these rich ladies saying that they could have a simple lifestyle without fancy cars and shopping sprees and live in a HDB flat. But when presented with the true reality of it, they tend to freak out. -
Mus be u no virgin liaoOriginally posted by CaramelCrab:HAHA you are crazy. You're talking about a different kind of love, boy. That kind of love has no expectations, no strings attached. Relationship love is all about give and take, you cant expect to be selfish like you are with your mom's love and take for granted that it'll surive no matter what shit you put her through.
Oh my gawd the level of intelligence of boys on this forum is frightening.
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another example of talk big... if u love someone you wun feel the shit and if u married someone who loves he wun put u thru shit... only ppl who constantly think abt wat they will get in return will end up with shitOriginally posted by CaramelCrab:HAHA you are crazy. You're talking about a different kind of love, boy. That kind of love has no expectations, no strings attached. Relationship love is all about give and take, you cant expect to be selfish like you are with your mom's love and take for granted that it'll surive no matter what shit you put her through.
Oh my gawd the level of intelligence of boys on this forum is frightening. -
Theres 3 types of gal who losed their virginity...
those who got con by bf...
SLUTTY....
last one is when they meet ppl lyk DILIP KUMAR N FORUMDUDE -
1 thing is for sure lah
gals confirm will look into whether the guy can support her or not, or at least have a stable, respectable job, income, for their future.
if u have car even better, got car, gals will sure sit, but too bad cars in SG sooo ex.
just imagine if u gal, u think u wanna marry a poor guy who has nothing and struggle in life meh? Pls la, wake up.
so to all the single guys out there now, dnt worry too much, go work super hard now make ALOT ALOT money, or strike Toto, got $$ sure got gal or gals.
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Yah i understand. I feel girls who have it easy in life, like those from wealthy family, they tend to have higher standards for guys. they at least want to be as comfortable as b4 after they get married. it's very hard to take a step down when you have been on the top. of coz there are always exceptional girls who are not like that.Originally posted by pwnz0r:Girl from rich family doesn't always mean that you will get to enjoy her family's money. In fact, she might expect you to provide for her a similar lifestyle to what you are used to. I've seen a number of such relationships, and I can tell you honestly, its ain't pretty sight at all.
I always like to hear these rich ladies saying that they could have a simple lifestyle without fancy cars and shopping sprees and live in a HDB flat. But when presented with the true reality of it, they tend to freak out.
it's easier to be with a girl who comes from similar background as you. coz the prob is that sometimes the girls parents will also judge you on the family background you come from. such is the fact of life. -
Eh what world you living in? Must be the psuedo perfect world of your fantasy. No such thing, that "love conquers all". You think two people who love each other dont need to put in effort, work on their relationship at all?!Originally posted by troyer:another example of talk big... if u love someone you wun feel the $#!$ and if u married someone who loves he wun put u thru $#!$... only ppl who constantly think abt wat they will get in return will end up with $#!$
pwnz0r, i dont get your point... You're saying that yes, your wife works hard at the relationship. But are you saying that you do too? That its all give and take and compromise? -
not in a world of fantasy but simple logic...Originally posted by CaramelCrab:Eh what world you living in? Must be the psuedo perfect world of your fantasy. No such thing, that "love conquers all". You think two people who love each other dont need to put in effort, work on their relationship at all?!
pwnz0r, i dont get your point... You're saying that yes, your wife works hard at the relationship. But are you saying that you do too? That its all give and take and compromise?
1)Both want to give -- Both get
2)Both want to give only if the other give -- Both end up looking at one another
when you go in with huge expectations, end up in scenario 2 and u can keep workin and still end up in 2... well its hard but realistic expectations help... i speak for both genders..so pui pui caramel -
gals have always look to higher standards, just as guys also want their gfs to be beautiful. part of the mating process. surely you have with someone either handsome, rich or both.Originally posted by Medicated Oil:Nothing wrong with having higher standards.
But, having unrealistic standards without considering their own standards is the mass problems.
Ending - Kana conned by some fat and ugly ang mohs.
Nothing wrong with angmohs. but their are more attentive and certainly they are more loving in bed. though i must say, they are quite horny. expect to do almost everynight. -
my friends most of them are angmoh.. due to my company...Originally posted by jaimeyeo:gals have always look to higher standards, just as guys also want their gfs to be beautiful. part of the mating process. surely you have with someone either handsome, rich or both.
Nothing wrong with angmohs. but their are more attentive and certainly they are more loving in bed. though i must say, they are quite horny. expect to do almost everynight.
Most of the angmohs will dump the girls after a period of time... e.g. 6 monthys, 1 years etc. most of the cited reasons when buddy talks is "sian liao", "no feeling" , "she is no longer hot on bed"...
however, their girlfriends expected to have long term relationship with these angmohs...at the end, they have culture shock.
two cases:
one angmoh already divorced 6 times in singapore.
another one divorced 2 times.
of coz, there are angmoh having long term relationship (e.g. longest so far 5 years and married)... but it's a very rare case. Only 1 currently who i know of. -
No need to discuss.
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Eh i just read through the older posts. We're talking about the same thing lah. I'm saying relationship both need to give and receive in more or less equal amounts and you're saying the same thing that "both wanna give". Read my post properly leh. Still spit at me asshole.Originally posted by troyer:not in a world of fantasy but simple logic...
1)Both want to give -- Both get
2)Both want to give only if the other give -- Both end up looking at one another
when you go in with huge expectations, end up in scenario 2 and u can keep workin and still end up in 2... well its hard but realistic expectations help... i speak for both genders..so pui pui caramel
Dont you think the "I LOVE MY MUMMY" guy seems to give the idea that he wants a girl like his mom (he says so), and just sit back - let her do all the work, look after all his needs, expect unfailable love - whilst he does absolutely nothing at all?!?! He is AIMING insults at girls only, he keeps harping on how we need to work more to fufil his needs, his love, his bullshit. BUT WHAT DOES HE SAY ABOUT WOMEN? Even his mom??? NOTICE: he never even says how much he appreciates his mom, or how he actually RETURNS all that she has done for him. He just complains. Typical sheltered boy. i bet he has never done his own (and his family's) laundry before. Its all one-sided. He expects to receive, but never mentioned anything on his part.
i wont be surprised if all the girls that you have met are like that, mummy-guy. Because i bet you never showed them more than an ounce of affection like what your mom has showered you all your life, yet you EXPECT the same amount from a girl that doesnt owe you anything. You'll never find a girl. -
choose a dog -
Better not, he'll expect the dog to wash his clothes, iron and do the dishes. Who knows what else more...
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Originally posted by CaramelCrab:
sore.... wats that all about buster
Eh i just read through the older posts. We're talking about the same thing lah. I'm saying relationship both need to give and receive in more or less equal amounts and you're saying the same thing that "both wanna give". Read my post properly leh. Still spit at me asshole.
Dont you think the "I LOVE MY MUMMY" guy seems to give the idea that he wants a girl like his mom (he says so), and just sit back - let her do all the work, look after all his needs, expect unfailable love - whilst he does absolutely nothing at all?!?! He is AIMING insults at girls only, he keeps harping on how we need to work more to fufil his needs, his love, his bullshit. BUT WHAT DOES HE SAY ABOUT WOMEN? Even his mom??? NOTICE: [b]he never even says how much he appreciates his mom, or how he actually RETURNS all that she has done for him. He just complains. Typical sheltered boy. i bet he has never done his own (and his family's) laundry before. Its all one-sided. He expects to receive, but never mentioned anything on his part.
i wont be surprised if all the girls that you have met are like that, mummy-guy. Because i bet you never showed them more than an ounce of affection like what your mom has showered you all your life, yet you EXPECT the same amount from a girl that doesnt owe you anything. You'll never find a girl.[/b] -
To get thread back on track
shld b clearer..
what im trying to point is that have gals in our societ begining to concentrate abt what material possesion the guy has instead of being more conern abt the inner value n depth?
looks fade n fortune n b wiped out in a night but charecter stands strong -
this is true.Originally posted by olala:To get thread back on track
shld b clearer..
what im trying to point is that have gals in our societ begining to concentrate abt what material possesion the guy has instead of being more conern abt the inner value n depth?
looks fade n fortune n b wiped out in a night but charecter stands strong
girl will choose a guy with landed corner house over a HDB guy.....
if the rich guy 's inner value is not good, can improve one....
however, with rich guy, immediately, your relative & your friends will admire u...
an outstanding character doesn't guarantee he will be rich. -
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