Do guys mind if they find out their gf is no longer virgin?

• Gordonator

  4 Jun 06, 11:52

  depends on age, if u know your girlfriend at a young age, and you are his 1st boyfriend, of course she's a virgin. the older they get, and with subsequent changes of boyfriends, chances of maintaining their virginity is low.
  
  guys always have double standards, one hand they want their girlfriend to be virgin yet they keep producing non-virgins with past girlfriends.
  
• olala

  4 Jun 06, 13:23

  Originally posted by Gordonator:

  depends on age, if u know your girlfriend at a young age, and you are his 1st boyfriend, of course she's a virgin. the older they get, and with subsequent changes of boyfriends, chances of maintaining their virginity is low.
  
  guys always have double standards, one hand they want their girlfriend to be virgin yet they keep producing non-virgins with past girlfriends.
  

  yea,its a very totally selfish self centre mentality
• iSpeak

  4 Jun 06, 20:08

  Originally posted by Classyfied:

  any way i dun mind. as long as she love me
  shes cheerful
  kindhearted.
  looks do not matter presentable lar
  clever.
  thats all

  Heh. Many always say this. But when find out their current girl isn't one will always end up going one corner and brood.
• CannyOng

  4 Jun 06, 20:19

  Of cos will feel disturb in the first place but think of it? Will u give up her just becos she is not a virgin(while she fits all yr critieria?). She gives her first away,cos she once really love her ex before and think he will be the one(Husband) for her?
  
  Ain't t u all think the same when u enter a r/s that she is going to be yr wife or he is going to be yr husband in future? Losing her virginityto her ex may not neccessary means she is lose(She substitute her body for love ,not for pleasure). What happen to them kena rape one? Do u mean they r lose too?
• Pitot

  4 Jun 06, 20:21

  If she lost her virginity before we got together. I dont mind. If she lost hers to another guy while we were together. Sorry, bye bye.
• xavier1979

  4 Jun 06, 21:54

  Originally posted by Pitot:

  If she lost her virginity before we got together. I dont mind. If she lost hers to another guy while we were together. Sorry, bye bye.

  Agreed.
• olala

  4 Jun 06, 22:37

  lets juz say its an idividual choice,
  no pnt arguing,no one here is going to is going to change their mentality anyway rite
• spartan6

  4 Jun 06, 23:09

  I know i dun mind cos it happens 2 me , affected? yes i am affected but i love her more then anything then , well sad 2 say i still do
• rebound

  5 Jun 06, 00:12

  is the guy virgin ?
  if not then i c no point he complain tat his gf is not.....
• 2nd_class_citizen

  5 Jun 06, 02:12

  Well as for me, I guess that would depend on whether I'm still virgin or not lah. If yes, then I can have higher a demand, if not then I have zero bargaining power lor.
• thingy

  5 Jun 06, 04:24

  i believe that any man will definately mind it.... even though he claims not to... blah blah... love her.... wad nonsense
  
  the fact is that it's not the same anymore.
  
  It's just not the same................... not the same!!!
• shandower

  5 Jun 06, 08:40

  Virginity is overated.
• Guy23

  5 Jun 06, 10:43

  I agree! I say I dun mind, but whenever i tink of her ex n her doing, I would go crazy! It really takes time to digest the fact.....
• serenatang

  2 Aug 06, 01:42

  mmm... i find unfair if anyone says that i am SHARED!!! ermm.. having sex is a form of expressing your love... i disagree lo... wat about guys... is there any virgin guys today?
• tiggersgd

  2 Aug 06, 01:45

  Originally posted by serenatang:

  mmm... i find unfair if anyone says that i am SHARED!!! ermm.. having sex is a form of expressing your love... i disagree lo... wat about guys... is there any virgin guys today?

  erm....guys do not have "hymen" to be broken by their gfs mah.
• JuanRomanRiquelme

  2 Aug 06, 06:21

  Well, my gf is a non-virgin and she told me before we got together. Anyway what is most important is that before we got together, i tell her that i do not like to hide things and expect her to do the same too. Anyway, as long as she loves me etc...im fine with it...
  
  btw i am still a virgin.
• Bontakun

  2 Aug 06, 07:21

  Originally posted by Christy:

  Do guys mind if they find out their gf is no longer virgin? I know some do and some don't. Many who don't mind usually dump their gf after sleeping with them. So bad one.

  Is that really important when reviewing a relationship between a guy and a girl? I wun sae more words coz words means nth compared to action.
• Shigemichi Take

  2 Aug 06, 08:44

  Well, frankly i'll feel ticked off if i get to know bout it.
  It'll take quite a while for you to forget and get on with life.
  
  When you fall in love with someone be it she's a virgin or not, You shud love hr for what she is and not what she WAS.
  
  
• nanren4ever

  2 Aug 06, 09:24

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  if you're over 21, you can throw yourself down the nearest HDB block ....

  I'm over 21, and I'm a virgin. So what? I don't miss out on anything, do I? U people may think that I'm a loser, but what do I have to lose anyway? Its just sex, for goodness sake!
• soul_rage

  2 Aug 06, 09:55

  Originally posted by Christy:

  Do guys mind if they find out their gf is no longer virgin? I know some do and some don't. Many who don't mind usually dump their gf after sleeping with them. So bad one.

  Don't mind.
  After all, these days, people are getting married later and later. And becoz of that you expect a gal to remain celibate till close to 30?
  
  I think it is unfair to the gal. To be frank, sex is an enjoyable thing, so long as she doesn't sleep with just any guy she meets, I think its fine. In fact, I think it is more fun if your gf/wife is experienced to some extent.
  
  We guys, many out there are hypocrites. Go ard having 1-nite stands, then want a virgin as a wife. How come I don't hear the gals asking if they mind their guys are virgin or not?
  
  
• mrsmall

  2 Aug 06, 10:13

  I dun mind
• Beckhamagic

  2 Aug 06, 10:29

  If you really love her and she really love you then both of you have to move on in life...
  
  Life is not all about sxx... there are much more important things than that... furthermore, you don't simply spend all your time on bed right?
  
  
  
  Therefore, if you mind then you can continue to search... Happy Searching...
• aajax

  2 Aug 06, 19:12

  I don't mind becos i will F and Screw her.
  
  After that i will dump her and let other guys F and Screw her too.
• toyota-corolla

  2 Aug 06, 20:08

  Originally posted by aajax:

  I don't mind becos i will F and Screw her.
  
  After that i will dump her and let other guys F and Screw her too.

  wakao, like that confirm kena AIDS one le
• pretzel

  2 Aug 06, 22:50

  No virgin? Can have sex but no marry