Do guys mind if they find out their gf is no longer virgin?
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i dun mind..
if u really love her, u wouldn't mind.. -
As long as she doesn't sleep around when she is with me it's good.
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It's subjective, different people got different views as you all can see from the previous posts.
For me:
If my gf was not a virgin, i would still accept her. I mean, you dun go around asking girls whether they are virgins or not before even going into a relationship.
Cause having a relationship means sharing of the same interest or the company of each other. Having sex is another matter all together. I would consider it as a plus.
Dun brood over the past, I know it's difficult to forget those things she has done before without you featuring in it, cause it would not change anything.
Love can be blind, that's why there are non-virgins around. It's not that their lose, they decide to lose it to the guy that she deems fit of having that part of her life.
So guys, be understanding and understand why under what circumstances that she loses her virginity, then if she has done nothing entirely wrong on her part, embrace her for telling the truth which is very difficult. Lastly, cherish and let her feel that she has not made the wrong judgement to start a relationship with you. -
When u want to be with someone, you should care about the future. Not the past.
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Many men are all high and mighty over this extremely touchy issue.
"I dun care my ger not birgin."
Do tell, in all honesty, if you are not at the very least, ticked off ever so slightly if you were to find out your partner is not exactly the innocent angel you hoped she was. It is just natural to get agitated over it initially, because men are born possessive and self-absorbed. The challenge of course is to surmount natural instinct. Now, how many of you here, truthfully, have experienced that fleeting moment of gleeful triumph when your girl had told you were the first guy she had kissed. Or been f-cked by.
How many of you here have proudly declared in the past, "So what's if she is not a virgin? I love her anyway."
But it always scratches the back of your mind, doesn't it? The thought of her being in bed with someone other than yourself. It gnaws away subconsciously. You might even start resenting her upon the revelation. Only maturity can combat this unreasonable emotion.
I would not like to insinuate that getting touchy over this issue is pure childishness, because that would mean children are having sex. But still, it is just pure adolescent nonsense. -
If you arent even a virgin. Just stfu.
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It no big deal la, my virginity was taken by a non-virgin ex gf but i like her all the same..
My wife is also a non-virgin so i dun understand what the big deal abt virginity.. you can't have everythin in its pure form as it sure will get corrupted.
Pleasures of the flesh is as long as history itself..
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If the guy jus wanna f around girls, who cares? But if the guy wants a proper gf and settle down a proper life, he will mind her not being virgin.
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how do u know ?Originally posted by lonestar86:it's hard to find virgins nowadays.. -
maybe he go around and try...
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fuck ah my gf not virgin anymore but also bo bian
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guys.. before you mind if your gf is a virgin or not a virgin.. ask yourself.. are you a virgin in the first place
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i m virign..as long as i love her..i dun really care whether she is anot...juz like everyone else haf say..as long as when she wit me..she dun anyhow can liao..lolOriginally posted by Phoebie:guys.. before you mind if your gf is a virgin or not a virgin.. ask yourself.. are you a virgin in the first place ? -
Choosing a gf based on the sole criterion of whether she's a virgin or not to the exclusion of other more important criteria is totally out of the question for me. So y will I mind if she's no longer one?
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We have no rights to look down on other ppl. They chose to do it. We chose not to. Its a matter of choice.Originally posted by olala:the society is degrading
so many multi handed goods outthere,
im virgin[guy]
allows me to look down on them
However we can all learn from their experiences. Get them to share if they willing as we share ours if we willing too. -
I suspect many juz sae coz of peer pressure. Some becoz of it even opted to do it. So... a bit sad loh.Originally posted by udontknowme:
how on earth do you know they are telling the truth anyways -
Originally posted by olala:
Now dis is one thing we all have to look carefully for wat he said is valid. What we do, we are responsible for it.
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ye..many dun mind
but whenever u tink of ur gf had sex wif her ex in the past...wun u feel that shes been shared?[/b] -
I love yr hamsters~~~Originally posted by the Bear:every few months, this question comes up...
and the same thing i would say.. you love your girl, or you love her hymen?
sheesh! -
But but... Its meant to be shared with the person you spending your life with.Originally posted by serenatang:mmm... i find unfair if anyone says that i am SHARED!!! ermm.. having sex is a form of expressing your love... i disagree lo... wat about guys... is there any virgin guys today?
Unless someone sae "Guy not virgin when loses it to his hands" den I nth to sae...... -
y yr nick is "lalaTearz"?Originally posted by lalaTearz:i m virign..as long as i love her..i dun really care whether she is anot...juz like everyone else haf say..as long as when she wit me..she dun anyhow can liao..lol -
Well Regards to these topic....
Every single individual had their own set of thinking and principle to follow.
Find a corner and sit down quietly and think without anyone disturbing. Ask yourself.
1) Do u really really mind your her is not a Virgin?
2) Did she tell you before hand before you get together?
3) Did you in the 1st place think that she is a Virgin before you actually go after her?
4) Did you ask her 1st in the 1st place before u start chasing her?
5) Who she did it with and why?
6) Are you a Virgin in the 1st place?
7) Will you tell your peer if they ask if your her is a Virgin? Will you mind if they look down on her?
9) Can you do without her in your life?
If all the above 9 questions come out to be negative in one way or another.
Please stop yourself from getting around to say you CLAIM love someone and willing to sacrifice in the name of love as you are so selfish and not fit to love as just to satisfied the ego that you are searching.
STOP hurting innocent gal out there that they once think that the person right in front of her is the one chosen by the one up there that lost on the way here.
Gal really put in 100% of their love if they agree to be with you in regards to anything the guys are. -
Exacly what I was going to ask!Originally posted by Phoebie:guys.. before you mind if your gf is a virgin or not a virgin.. ask yourself.. are you a virgin in the first place ? -
Dun mind at all! Some more easier to penetrate! Joking! So long as she is serious about me and i luv her, i dun mind. But at the parents side, i dun really tink so...
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if virgin...go tradition way custom wedding dinners on...if not virgin then tradition broken so no need spend much on wedding go ROM sign paper consider done...giv and ttake u see
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how would u feel if ur gf does oral and have sex for 5 guys? and her first time is during lower sec?
OMG la. how is the society degrading.