Wat does a Fling means 2 u?
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Jus wanner know how much do u mean by having a fling?
Sex with no relationship commitment?
does it really means that?
if it is so, then wats the point of going into a relationship?
anyone can enlighten me? -
perharps for pleasure and company...
cannot commit ..
know friends that are attached and yet have flings
Its diff when u have a bf and another one courting u(fling)
both jus dun treat u the same...
it feels good having some going after u -
Having a fling is like havin a realtionship with no committments...maybe just for the sake of having some company, or having someone to listen and talk to you..no necessary it has to end up with sex(although most of the time it does!!)
Anyway both parties can be either attached or be married but if really you want to consider having a fling, then must understand one concept, no committments, anytime you can back out of this fling and no ill feelings about it.... -
Originally posted by adelina:perharps for pleasure and company...
cannot commit ..
know friends that are attached and yet have flings
Its diff when u have a bf and another one courting u(fling)
both jus dun treat u the same...
it feels good having some going after u
So you're saying that you're also one attached and enjoy people flirting with you...? 
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i dun mind,Originally posted by Devil1976: So you're saying that you're also one attached and enjoy people flirting with you...?
since haing a fling seems better
why do u people still go into relatonship?
it seems u get get almost anything here, y not ? hahaa -
The BIGGEST DIFFERENCE is Love....?Originally posted by Hitakogi:i dun mind,
since haing a fling seems better
why do u people still go into relatonship?
it seems u get get almost anything here, y not ? hahaa -
fling is ....
a step for making "clash of the lovers" ....
an ecstasy for a fool who never knows how to end the affection for more and more...
a beginning of endless madness adn crying....
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well is there truth love in this world?Originally posted by Devil1976:The BIGGEST DIFFERENCE is Love....?
l rem someone told me love a person is to let go,
wat abt having a fling?
does it means totally no love?
hehe .. i dun really think so .... -
ur way of saying abit Chin lay,Originally posted by skycrawler:fling is ....
a step for making "clash of the lovers" ....
an ecstasy for a fool who never knows how to end the affection for more and more...
a beginning of endless madness adn crying....
can break dun abit more,
me last time didn't study hard ... -
no not he cheem..Originally posted by Hitakogi:ur way of saying abit Chin lay,
can break dun abit more,
me last time didn't study hard ...
it's just outright un-understandable (no such word of course.. but wat the hell.. i'm just joining the crowd)....
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Just wondering... Are you a male or a woman speaking your point of view..?Originally posted by Hitakogi:well is there truth love in this world?
l rem someone told me love a person is to let go,
wat abt having a fling?
does it means totally no love?
hehe .. i dun really think so .... Anyway, having a fling can have feeling... Quite far from Love...? Sure it doesn't mean that the fling can't develop into a LOVE... But TILL THEN, it's still a different issue altogether...?
I still think fling are more for people who just wants things INSTANT... Or are afraid to be hurt.... Who just want something for the sake of having it (some fun?) and NOT to truly seek any reason for meaning behind it...
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BTW, loving someone is not totally about to let someone go... This phrase is used to simulate the freedom and respect you should have for the other people if you love him/her... And it's also a sense of COMPLETE TRUST.....Originally posted by Hitakogi:well is there truth love in this world?
l rem someone told me love a person is to let go, -
Originally posted by skycrawler:
fling is ....
a step for making "clash of the lovers" ....
Not certain. But I think he might mean the intial step for a couple to know each other...?
an ecstasy for a fool who never knows how to end the affection for more and more...
Like a drug to a fool who don't know how to stop his/her desire for more and exercise self-control and restrain....
a beginning of endless madness adn crying....
I guess might either be talking about in the case of a development into Love, it's gonna be another sad story... OR such relationship simply won't get you nowhere...? -
ah my intrepeter.......Originally posted by Devil1976:
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i'm a guy here la,Originally posted by Devil1976:
well it seems u really study alot in the past,
haha...
anyway thx,
hmmm .... anyway, how many ladys here enjoz having a flings?
i las time oso rem last time got someone told me this,
women luv to hav sex with the man she luv,
but man jus wants lots of sex,
can tell me? -
i oso wan fling....any gal interested?
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Originally posted by skycrawler:ah my intrepeter.......
When am I getting my PAY CHEAQUE..? -
Originally posted by Hitakogi:
i'm a guy here la,
well it seems u really study alot in the past,
haha...
anyway thx,
Nay... In fact I was a BOCHAP and LAZY bum... -
Hey, you didn't leave your number behind how I call you?Originally posted by Jaws:Lonely?? Call me. -
later...which bank?Originally posted by Devil1976: When am I getting my PAY CHEAQUE..? -
it just simply mean flirt to me...
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looking ur posts..u seemed got a problem here kid..tell us yr problems with gers lah..may be some of the love life psychiaters in here could help u out....JOHO btw is my main top list...Originally posted by aHGer^83:it just simply mean flirt to me... -
im just respondin to the qns...Originally posted by skycrawler:looking ur posts..u seemed got a problem here kid..tell us yr problems with gers lah..may be some of the love life psychiaters in here could help u out....JOHO btw is my main top list...
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It's the game that is interesting. Who can flirt outrageously without commitments while the other party is head over heels over u. Simple as that.
It takes 2 experienced players in the field to really enjoy the flirting game. And u can have a fling with no commitments. It is just purely satisfaction. -
Fling means having no strings-attached relationship be it whether sex is involved or not. In this "game", I definitely won't recommend anyone to have feelings for the other party. of cos both will have feelings for each other but not to the extend of becoming BGR. It will only complicate things since both parties enjoy flinging ard, who knows they might have other partners other than you. thats why its a no obligation kinda of relationship. anyway, juz my point of view