Cheated on BF with his good friend last night...
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boka, i'll put this bluntly. You need to grow up.Originally posted by ordinaryguy32:Having said that, my point is that one should be compassionate towards others, and not condemn them for their past mistakes. You may rightfully say that "they never change, they don't learn", but who are we to judge their level of remorse?
I am not sure if the above thinking is acceptable to guys your age yet.
You do not know how to put yourself in other people's shoes.
You have not experienced the feeling of remorse and regret and or failed to understand them.
You see others doing what you morally cannot accept and you condemn them because you fail to understand how people feel.
The world is not only black and white. It's not always about the righteous and honorable Holy Paladin v.s the dark and heinous Undead hordes.
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For what i have said,am i even judging?Originally posted by Sagara:boka, i'll put this bluntly. You need to grow up.
You do not know how to put yourself in other people's shoes.
You have not experienced the feeling of remorse and regret and or failed to understand them.
You see others doing what you morally cannot accept and you condemn them because you fail to understand how people feel.
The world is not only black and white. It's not always about the righteous and honorable Holy Paladin v.s the dark and heinous Undead hordes.
Last but not least, who are you to judge ?
do i even have to?
Her actions have been spelled out black and white and she herself have judged herself. -
And if the world does not live under the fear of justice and it's right hand punishner,how will a perfect world come to be?Originally posted by Sagara:boka, i'll put this bluntly. You need to grow up.
You do not know how to put yourself in other people's shoes.
You have not experienced the feeling of remorse and regret and or failed to understand them.
You see others doing what you morally cannot accept and you condemn them because you fail to understand how people feel.
The world is not only black and white. It's not always about the righteous and honorable Holy Paladin v.s the dark and heinous Undead hordes.
Last but not least, who are you to judge ? -
Actually, Boka, I pretty much agree with what was said about you earlier on this page. Lighten up and stop condemning people for being human. It's good that you want to look towards a perfect world, but the world just isn't. Doesn't mean we shouldn't try to improve, but total perfection?
Lighten up, really. Besides, the things you do are hardly helping towards the 'perfect' ideology. -
It saddens me thinking how humans have come to be..Originally posted by SumOne:Actually, Boka, I pretty much agree with what was said about you earlier on this page. Lighten up and stop condemning people for being human. It's good that you want to look towards a perfect world, but the world just isn't. Doesn't mean we shouldn't try to improve, but total perfection?
Lighten up, really. Besides, if all unnecessarily drive negative feelings around, you're making the world 'less perfect'.
The trafficking of women into vice,human slavery...drugs and firearm smuggling...
I've seen and experience it too much from the media.
That is why,with an iron fist,i swear to erdicate these criminals when i one day be able to slaughter these animals by the necks,hanging their love ones by the sharp hooks that run dry their blood.
Doing so,pleasure course through my veins -
And how does that relate here? Pretty different. You can't use the same method and approach to solve every problem.Originally posted by boka:It saddens me thinking how humans have come to be..
The trafficking of women into vice,human slavery...drugs and firearm smuggling...
I've seen and experience it too much from the media.That is why,with an iron fist,i swear to erdicate these criminals when i one day be able to slaughter these animals by the necks,hanging their love ones by the sharp hooks that run dry their blood.
You sound more like a tyrant than someone genuinely trying to improve the wellbeing of people.
Doing so,pleasure course through my veins
But anyway, this post of yours makes me suspect you've just been joking all the while and playing around. Are you trying to tell me not to take you too seriously? Well, I guess I and Sagara were just telling you to lighten up as well.
Well have fun playing tyrant.
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To animals,no comprimises is needed.Originally posted by SumOne:
You sound more like a tyrant than someone genuinely trying to improve the wellbeing of people.
But anyway, this post of yours makes me suspect you've just been joking all the while and playing around. Are you trying to tell me not to take you too seriously? Well, I guess I and Sagara were just telling you to lighten up as well.
Well have fun playing tyrant.
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That part in red... you sound like a sadistic and insane person.Originally posted by boka:It saddens me thinking how humans have come to be..
The trafficking of women into vice,human slavery...drugs and firearm smuggling...
I've seen and experience it too much from the media.
That is why,with an iron fist,i swear to erdicate these criminals when i one day be able to slaughter these animals by the necks, hanging their love ones by the sharp hooks that run dry their blood.
Doing so, pleasure course through my veins -
Criminals strike fears into the hearts of the innocent so the natural way of doign so would be for justice to feed on the fear and weakness of these evil doers.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:That part in red... you sound like a sadistic and insane person.
Afterall,these criminals are humans,not impervious to death and sufferings.
These criminal justice system have along been ineffective and undermine because of the corruptions within and as well as the mercy given to these criminals.
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He will not be able to achieve what he wants, because before he done that, he will have been "killed off".Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:That part in red... you sound like a sadistic and insane person.
Let him live in his idealised world and suffer more later... Such a person will not have true friends at all, and thus will not survive for long...
Either that or he's a clone trying to disrupt the thread... Perhaps he's a clone of those in AA that u told me will never be caught dead surfing bar forums... -
Clone?
i have better things than living between 2 faces.
I'm tired of this little island that is so safe that everyone takes everything for granted,losing sleep over minor issue like relationships.
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Originally posted by boka:To animals,no comprimises is needed.
No matter what is done to the criminals,i see it as right because animals deserve no treatment.
Self contradictoryOriginally posted by boka:Afterall,these criminals are humans,not impervious to death and sufferings.
Furthermore, your point is out of context here, simply because TS has done nothing against the law, as long as she is unmarried. Don't digress. -
Unfortunately, yes, you are judging.Originally posted by boka:For what i have said,am i even judging?
do i even have to?
Her actions have been spelled out black and white and she herself have judged herself.
People often judge other people, without even realising it.
Teachers judge students, parents judge children, and vice versa.
As I am writing this, I am judging you.
TS is right to judge herself, and peace comes from understanding oneself. -
I hope you understand this:Originally posted by boka:Clone?
i have better things than living between 2 faces.
I'm tired of this little island that is so safe that everyone takes everything for granted,losing sleep over minor issue like relationships.
I want to go out and do the society a justice.
what you are doing is not doing society a justice at all. You are just venting your fustrations and trying to change everyone's mindset to your twisted view of justice without any success.
If you seriously want to do society justice, get real. Understand the world, the society, and learn from the experiences of others who has gone past the same track. And NOT trying to maintain your own set of beliefs which will only bring u nothing but disaster in your future -
I wonder if he is a terrorist in the making....Originally posted by eagle:He will not be able to achieve what he wants, because before he done that, he will have been "killed off".
Let him live in his idealised world and suffer more later... Such a person will not have true friends at all, and thus will not survive for long...
Either that or he's a clone trying to disrupt the thread... Perhaps he's a clone of those in AA that u told me will never be caught dead surfing bar forums... -
Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:I wonder if he is a terrorist in the making....
I can imagine the only job for him: being a Priest.
Yet he were to sit in the confession room, no one will come to confess to him -
The moral principles that guide one's lives are pretty much fixed, e.g. principles such as fairness, and compassion.Originally posted by boka:And if the world does not live under the fear of justice and it's right hand punishner,how will a perfect world come to be?
But one should not dish out rough justice to others, in the name of "fixing" them.
If I say that we should all dish out rough justice to the "infidels" in the name of weeding out "bad" elements from this world, what difference am I from the insurgents in Iraq/borders of Afghanistan, who kills coalition forces, and labels the loss of civilians (many of them innocent children) as unfortunate. -
Osama also acts to "dish out justice"... Now I see Andrew's point...Originally posted by ordinaryguy32:The moral principles that guide one's lives are pretty much fixed, e.g. principles such as fairness, and compassion.
But one should not dish out rough justice to others, in the name of "fixing" them.
If I say that we should all dish out rough justice to the "infidels" in the name of weeding out "bad" elements from this world, what difference am I from the insurgents in Iraq/borders of Afghanistan, who kills coalition forces, and labels the loss of civilians (many of them innocent children) as unfortunate. -
Yup, he wanted to avenge the loss of human lives, many of them innocent children, when the U.S bombed Lebanon in the 1980s to weed out the PLO.Originally posted by eagle:Osama also acts to "dish out justice"... Now I see Andrew's point... -
i seriously doubt so, he doesn't seem to have love for humans needless to say animalsOriginally posted by eagle:
I can imagine the only job for him: being a Priest.
Yet he were to sit in the confession room, no one will come to confess to him
how to follow Jesus's commandment "love one another as i have loved you" -
boka, take it easy.Originally posted by boka:It saddens me thinking how humans have come to be..
The trafficking of women into vice,human slavery...drugs and firearm smuggling...
I've seen and experience it too much from the media.
That is why,with an iron fist,i swear to erdicate these criminals when i one day be able to slaughter these animals by the necks,hanging their love ones by the sharp hooks that run dry their blood.
Doing so,pleasure course through my veins
We all feel sad at the vices in the world.
But can we all not learn from Mahatma Gandhi, or Mother Teresa who sought to heal and love the world, instead of going down the route of killing others and their loved ones in the name of eradicating the evil.
Born in another place, you might belong to the Hamas organization, who sought to kill Israeli commonfolk, women and children, because according to Hamas ideology, all Israelis deserve to die.
Remove the hatred and sense of injustice from the heart, and you would do the world a lot of good, which is what I believe you want. -
If Boka truly means the things he is saying, then he has yet learnt to have a more mature perspective on life. Otherwise, I think he's just clowning around.
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Her actions are wrong,clearly.Originally posted by eagle:Self contradictory
Furthermore, your point is out of context here, simply because TS has done nothing against the law, as long as she is unmarried. Don't digress.
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While my actions may seem destructive if i were to be on the thinking side of the terrorist,unfortunately i'm not on their side.Originally posted by ordinaryguy32:Yup, he wanted to avenge the loss of human lives, many of them innocent children, when the U.S bombed Lebanon in the 1980s to weed out the PLO.
I do not see how subjecting criminals to pain is deem wrong.
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Your actions are also wrong, clearly.Originally posted by boka:Her actions are wrong,clearly.
No need for judging.
No need for judging.