[b]wat do u think if ur boyfriend is younger???[/b]
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as above.......
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this question ah. erm.. actulli i wil mind loh..if his bulid n thinking mature than mi .then i think i don mind ba...but if toooooo young ah, think can 4get it.Originally posted by [out]sider:as above....... -
In the short run it doesnt really matters... but in e long run... its one factor we cannot deny... When your GF who is older than you and is reaching e age of marriage, then e guy who is younger will be stress..is he financially stable to settle down? can he afford to have a family... this happens to some of my friends now... really very headache
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young guys more childish....gt one ex 3 yrs younger than me....in the end aso no ending..
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When you all meant young do you mean as in age difference or as in the physical looks? If not age difference, I doubt financial can be a problem provided he hold on to a stable job and has been working for a few years.
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haha.... i doubt ur ex will be good looking since u ar ah ma then ur ex 3 yrs younger should be probably without teeth 1 and white hairs right?? hahaOriginally posted by Xiao Long Nu:young guys more childish....gt one ex 3 yrs younger than me....in the end aso no ending.. -
he so ugly...bt ppl say he gd looking.. later let me found out he flirt...!! then i take my chopperOriginally posted by Arena:haha.... i doubt ur ex will be good looking since u ar ah ma then ur ex 3 yrs younger should be probably without teeth 1 and white hairs right?? haha
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well age is not a matter when it comes to love. Guess more important is that you truely love one another and also understand one another. My guy is one year tounger than me...i find that there is no difference at all.
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The thing is guy needs to serve NS... and that adds 2 1/2 years wasted. In e end, e gal might be ready to settle down but e guy is not financially stable at e moment.
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Look at those drama with older gf and young bf.. how the ending usually end? Tat's how in reality lor.
If the bf is younger than the gf... but his thinking is mature enought compare to the ger.. I guess it should be pretty alright. -
Ya, agree with u...Originally posted by GIJOE:The thing is guy needs to serve NS... and that adds 2 1/2 years wasted. In e end, e gal might be ready to settle down but e guy is not financially stable at e moment. -
hey guys, thanks 4 all ur replies i will look into ur coments
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age doesn't matter. It is an intellectual and emmtional connection that matter. I was with a guy that was 12 years my younger and we got along great no problems due to age.
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One of my ex is also younger than me. Not bad I would say.
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samez... mi gf is a year older than me... work out well wor both of us... as for childish mentality, everybody guy and gal have lor.....Originally posted by Hershey:well age is not a matter when it comes to love. Guess more important is that you truely love one another and also understand one another. My guy is one year tounger than me...i find that there is no difference at all.
Age dun matter.... but if the age gap like 5 years ++ den something else... -
one of my friends had a gf about 5 years older than him, but since he was big-sized and mature for his age, they got along very well. however they broke up after some time. apparently when he got to 35, she will be 40, he will be still at his prime, she will be old liao
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but another way to look at it...
women have longer life expectancy, so usually the husband die first and the wife live for a few years more in loneliness. if they are of the same age, they die around the same time?
less pain for both? -
THen why is it called "my ex" and not my current bf or my hubby...???Originally posted by Christy:One of my ex is also younger than me. Not bad I would say. -
Originally posted by sgboy2004:
he's probably serving NS!
THen why is it called "[b]my ex" and not my current bf or my hubby...??? [/b]
SAF breaks up all relationships... -
u all say.. age doesn't matter when u love one another.. ya that possible for the first few mths.. but after that period..surely will argue due to different thinkings or wat like his thinking not mature blah blah blah... i dun like guys younger than me...
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guess u must hav an awful time b4???Originally posted by sLaYeRgEr:u all say.. age doesn't matter when u love one another.. ya that possible for the first few mths.. but after that period..surely will argue due to different thinkings or wat like his thinking not mature blah blah blah... i dun like guys younger than me...
So u like older guys...older by how much? 5 years ok? -
hahah i so far my 2 exs were young than me by less than 2 mths.. so it doesn't really bother me...Originally posted by sgboy2004:guess u must hav an awful time b4???
So u like older guys...older by how much? 5 years ok?
i din have any awful time i just say what i think of this topic...
for me as long as the guy is either same age as me or older than me by at most 5 years shld be ok w me... eheheh -
gee.. recently met a girl six years older than me and i really like her.. it may be abit strange at first but i am getting used to it...
I know that many factors are at work in creating a happy relationship.. eg. communication, like/dislikes, understanding, chemistry..etc.. but wat about age? if all else works out between us... will this factor of age be a stumbling block?.... -
Yet i like older women...Originally posted by sLaYeRgEr:u all say.. age doesn't matter when u love one another.. ya that possible for the first few mths.. but after that period..surely will argue due to different thinkings or wat like his thinking not mature blah blah blah... i dun like guys younger than me...
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Well then you have to work things out....anyway me and my guy together for 8 years liao...and just got married...i think it all boils down to understanding of one anotherOriginally posted by sLaYeRgEr:u all say.. age doesn't matter when u love one another.. ya that possible for the first few mths.. but after that period..surely will argue due to different thinkings or wat like his thinking not mature blah blah blah... i dun like guys younger than me...