Taking advantage of a tipsy/drunk ladyfriend?

• sgboy2004

  27 Jan 03, 16:43

  Originally posted by MoJo|MoJo:

  when u r sober of coz every1 will say no.......
  but when 1 is dead drunk, or both r drunk, anything can happen......
  its not bout we guys..... the gers oso have a part to play... i oso kena 1 incident b4... got 1 lady suddenly comes n chap into my group dancin on the floor... she seems quite high but looks sober nevertheless... she den started gettin real close to us n started provokin us by dancin lewdly n den to the extent of removin her spaghet straps... my fren tried to stop her but she kissed my fren instead, french kisss........ after which she went to another group of guys bside us n the rest is history...................
  try to make sure dat at least haf a group of frens dat u reali trust b4 gettin drunk urself, at least there will b someone to look after u once u r drunk or else everything will b GONE....
  there r lots of hungry wolf ou there.......

  i totally agree wif u.
  
  
• sgboy2004

  27 Jan 03, 16:43

  Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:

  heng i nv drink nv go cheong
  
  
  
  or else the girls all give me touch till finish liaoz

  i will bring u down 2nite.
  
  
• Xiao Long Nu

  27 Jan 03, 16:45

  actualy thise kind of tings aso mus see wat kinda frens u had
  
  if ur frens all bo chap u then u better dn go ...lor...arbo kana kiong kang...then regret no use....
  
  sometimes aso becos some girls r too horny wear little yin lang ru zui
  
  sometimes is becos there r many bad guys around....
• shaunlaw

  27 Jan 03, 16:47

  Originally posted by Christy:

  Wiil you take advantage of a lady friend who is tipsy/drunk?

  To take advantage of a lady no matter in what case is deeply condemned by me!!!
  So the ans is no......
• Master -_-

  27 Jan 03, 16:58

  Anyone of u go LightFire Saturday at about 2am????????? there was this girl outside who was damn freaking drunk that she cant even walk properly.. and guess wat...she was holding her damn bra.. omg.. wat had happened.. i wanted to help her but my gf ask me to ignore her.. knn..
• sgboy2004

  27 Jan 03, 17:00

  Originally posted by Master -_-:

  Anyone of u go LightFire Saturday at about 2am????????? there was this girl outside who was damn freaking drunk that she cant even walk properly.. and guess wat...she was holding her damn bra.. omg.. wat had happened.. i wanted to help her but my gf ask me to ignore her.. knn..

  u should hav giv mi a call, then i pia down and "help" her and she will be in safe "hands" (claw)
  
  
  
• WinBoi84

  27 Jan 03, 17:00

  Haiz, saw alots of these cases liao...
  Pity those poor girls...
  Damn those guys...
• sgboy2004

  27 Jan 03, 17:00

  Originally posted by shaunlaw:

  To take advantage of a lady no matter in what case is deeply condemned by me!!!
  So the ans is no......

  u are one hell of a good guy.
  
  Mi like u. Good.
  
  
• zacken99

  27 Jan 03, 17:01

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  u should hav giv mi a call, then i pia down and "help" her and she will be in safe "hands" (claw)
  
  
  

  song yang ru hu kou.........
• Master -_-

  27 Jan 03, 17:01

  Originally posted by shaunlaw:

  To take advantage of a lady no matter in what case is deeply condemned by me!!!
  So the ans is no......

  
• Syphonics

  27 Jan 03, 17:13

  cases like this very common sometimes the girl is also at fault. I remember once my ex gf also was dead drunk in one of the clubs at MS. Then her friend call me up on my phone to fetch her. Lucky i was there to send her to her house, she can't even walk. But of cos i did nothing to her except to send her home. At that moment of time she was an easy prey to those preverts.
  
  I dun understand girls, knowing that sure things might just happens then why y get yourself so drunk.
  Even if u are going out with a group of friends with guys and girls its still the same. Can you be very certain that all the guys in the group are very well behave no one can be acertain of that.
  
  There once at Centro I saw a lady very high on drinks and she went to different groups of guys and hug, french kisses.
  Then suddenly a guy i assume she did not know who he is was went over to her and hug with her and french kis on the sofa sits, out of nowhere this guy just grab her on her breast and kiss her as if they are starting a love session. Everyone around that area was looking at them. After sometime this guy drag this girl away to the lobby. After that i have no idea what happens, but when i was about to go off, this girl was with the security guards at he entrance and she was vomitting. But that guy was nowhere to be found.
  
  So girls if you dun want to be a victim then dun present yourself as an easy prey to the others.
  
• FoRsAkEn

  27 Jan 03, 19:22

  in the 1st place, y must gals get drunk?
  one should noe ur own limit....if u think u cant take it anymore, should hv stop drinking.
  I noe some gals r juz attention seeker n purposely drink alot to get drunk.....but these kinda gals r minority.
  
  Cannot blame the guys totally oso.....gals should learn to protect urself n not giving a chance for the guys to take advantage of u
  
  I drink but i know my limit n wun get myself drunk...
  coz gals can look beri ugly n horrible when they r drunk...so i dun wanna it happened to me
  
  
• Devil1976

  27 Jan 03, 20:00

  Originally posted by Christy:

  Wiil you take advantage of a lady friend who is tipsy/drunk?

  Probably not....
• Devil1976

  27 Jan 03, 20:01

  Originally posted by e|mo:

  a friend told me this incident:
  
  a grp of friends went to a pub at boat quay, then this gal got drunk and this grp of guys just surrounded her and grab/caress her breast.
  but i don't understand there are other gals in the grp also, why didn't they help that poor gal

  ..... Could be there were too many guys and outnumbered..? Or they were afraid that they might get themselves into trouble..?
  
  
• Devil1976

  27 Jan 03, 20:03

  ......
• sgboy2004

  27 Jan 03, 20:04

  Originally posted by FoRsAkEn:

  in the 1st place, y must gals get drunk?
  one should noe ur own limit....if u think u cant take it anymore, should hv stop drinking.
  I noe some gals r juz attention seeker n purposely drink alot to get drunk.....but these kinda gals r minority.
  
  Cannot blame the guys totally oso.....gals should learn to protect urself n not giving a chance for the guys to take advantage of u
  
  I drink but i know my limit n wun get myself drunk...
  coz gals can look beri ugly n horrible when they r drunk...so i dun wanna it happened to me
  
  

  maybe they heartbroken or their drinks got spiked
  
  
• beetle bailey

  27 Jan 03, 20:32

  but the qn is - when all this grabbing nonsense is happening, where's the group of frens tat are supposed to be w the girl?
  if u're a fren, wouldn't u stop her from drinking too much, or worse, go grab some strange bloke?
• sgboy2004

  27 Jan 03, 20:34

  Originally posted by zacken99:

  song yang ru hu kou.........

  who is the harimau? (harimau=tiger)
  
  
• JLennon

  27 Jan 03, 21:01

  Originally posted by FoRsAkEn:

  Cannot blame the guys totally oso.....gals should learn to protect urself n not giving a chance for the guys to take advantage of u
  

  how can u not blame the guys? they are the ones who are taking advantage of the girl!! intoxication should not reduce their culpability. honestly, these guys are not as drunk or high as others perceive, they are all too aware of whats happening around the club and woe betide the docile lambs...
  
  prevention is the best protection. so advice to girls is don't get too liberal on ur drinks, exercise some restraints. try not to place absolute trust on ur guy frens cos u may cause misunderstanding unintentionally when u r high.
• kim_hwoarang

  27 Jan 03, 21:46

  remem. be a real gentleman not 2 do tat !
• Beary

  27 Jan 03, 22:02

  i saw such cases before too... those were during my chiong'ing days
  and most of these gals are very chio one ok...
  
  i think these chio bo(s) wanted
  1) the attention from all the guys around her,
  2) acceptance into the group of guys
  3) wanted the group to think she can drink (hao lian)....
  
  so whoever asked the chio bo to bottom-up, she will....
  wat happened in the end? the chio bo is semi or dead drunk, den kanna hug, kiss, molested by the guys ard her...
  
  I agree with most of you that it will depend on the group of friends she is with...
  however, if the chio bo does not noe how to control herself or will do watever to be popular among the group of frds, i will say she asked for it....
  
  "Respect yourself and others will respect you."
  
• sgboy2004

  27 Jan 03, 22:05

  Originally posted by Beary:
  i saw such cases before too... those were during my chiong'ing days
  and most of these gals are very chio one ok...
  
  i think these chio bo(s) wanted
  1) the attention from all the guys around her,
  2) acceptance into the group of guys
  3) wanted the group to think she can drink (hao lian)....
  
  so whoever asked the chio bo to bottom-up, she will....
  wat happened in the end? the chio bo is semi or dead drunk, den kanna hug, kiss, molested by the guys ard her...
  
  I agree with most of you that it will depend on the group of friends she is with...
  however, if the chio bo does not noe how to control herself or will do watever to be popular among the group of frds, i will say she asked for it....
  
  [b]"Respect yourself and others will respect you."
  [/b]

  last sentence, well said...
  
  
• dark_slayer79

  27 Jan 03, 22:07

  Originally posted by Beary:

  i saw such cases before too... those were during my chiong'ing days
  and most of these gals are very chio one ok...
  
  i think these chio bo(s) wanted
  1) the attention from all the guys around her,
  2) acceptance into the group of guys
  3) wanted the group to think she can drink (hao lian)....
  
  so whoever asked the chio bo to bottom-up, she will....
  wat happened in the end? the chio bo is semi or dead drunk, den kanna hug, kiss, molested by the guys ard her...
  
  I agree with most of you that it will depend on the group of friends she is with...
  however, if the chio bo does not noe how to control herself or will do watever to be popular among the group of frds, i will say she asked for it....
  
  "Respect yourself and others will respect you."
  

  Agree Can't put all blame on the guy
• dark_slayer79

  27 Jan 03, 22:09

  sgboy2004 great mind think alike
• No_Problemo

  27 Jan 03, 22:16

  Originally posted by Beary:

  i saw such cases before too... those were during my chiong'ing days
  and most of these gals are very chio one ok...
  
  i think these chio bo(s) wanted
  1) the attention from all the guys around her,
  2) acceptance into the group of guys
  3) wanted the group to think she can drink (hao lian)....
  
  so whoever asked the chio bo to bottom-up, she will....
  wat happened in the end? the chio bo is semi or dead drunk, den kanna hug, kiss, molested by the guys ard her...
  
  I agree with most of you that it will depend on the group of friends she is with...
  however, if the chio bo does not noe how to control herself or will do watever to be popular among the group of frds, i will say she asked for it....
  
  "Respect yourself and others will respect you."
  

  wat is this, secret society recruiting new member ritual ha.
  if the group hav this type of practice, I wonder where is their future.