sigh wat to do? to go on or to give up
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gal slpt wif someone else
now pleading for 4giveness
hoW?
would u go on like this?
right now i just feel its just too much to ask -
omg...your gf slept wif someone else...is that someone a ger or a guy?
If it is a guy, is it a baby?
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Two Words.. Break up
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maybe she slept wif a baby boy leh???Originally posted by Master -_-:Two Words.. Break up
Let's wait 4 him to reply
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guys normally cannot swallow them pride to take them back .
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What's the reason behind it? If a gal tell U tis, it ==> she may feel guilty with U. It all depend on U, whether U wanna forgive her.Originally posted by iloveprettygirls:long story cut short
gal slpt wif someone else
now pleading for 4giveness
hoW?
would u go on like this?
right now i just feel its just too much to ask -
true, it all depends on you to forgive or not..
i have 2 frens who were couples for 2 years plus.. thn the girl caught her bf slping with another girl on his bed... and, they broke up. But, after a few days they got back together.. the girl forgave him, but, things were not the same as in...
the guy was totally controlled by the girl.... BUT, they are still together happily ( but quarrels a lot )
anyway, it is the both of you who are together, why cares abt wat others say ?
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if you really love her and is she's serious abt repenting, then give her another chance! whu is the guy whu zzz wif her? izzit ur best friend or someone u noe? but even u take her back, u still haf 2 control her more than b4, then she will not flirt again liaoz. make sure she has no more contact wif tat guy anymore. coz since they had sex once, there is bound 2 be the 2nd time. the guy tinking tat he can haf free sex, will go find d ger again! be careful!
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Poorthing .. i understand how u feel,Originally posted by iloveprettygirls:long story cut short
gal slpt wif someone else
now pleading for 4giveness
hoW?
would u go on like this?
right now i just feel its just too much to ask
when it happen to mi, i oso ask myself wat u r asking,
in the end my friend tell mi to follow my heart,
it jus depends how much u love her, how long u been with her,
a very simple question to u,
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and another qns if you think you do not wanna let her go>> R u able to live with the fact that your gf has slept with another guy while still going steady with you?Originally posted by Hitakogi:Poorthing .. i understand how u feel,
when it happen to mi, i oso ask myself wat u r asking,
in the end my friend tell mi to follow my heart,
it jus depends how much u love her, how long u been with her,
a very simple question to u,
R u able to live without her? -
the question is how much u care for her ??????????
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1 word. slut.Originally posted by iloveprettygirls:long story cut short
gal slpt wif someone else
now pleading for 4giveness
hoW?
would u go on like this?
right now i just feel its just too much to ask
dishonest. unfaithful. not loyal. -
I think you can try to find out why she slept with tht guy first.
Hear her out first. ?
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do u like her heart or her body?
if her heart is gone with her body then give her up, no use in continue, both of u will b miserable.
if she now did smthg dui bu qi you and is asking for your 4giveness dat means her heart is still with you, n if so give her a chance, everyone makes mistakes...
thk bout the happy moments you've had with her... were you happy?
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What do u mean?
If the girl has slept wif other guys b4 she was wif u...its understandable....Shes willing to tell u the truth which is good...SO its good tat u will accept her as she is now...U fall in love wif her becos of her and not abt her passed bfs...
If she sleep wif other guys when u two r together...pls...tell the girl tat u cant accept this..tell her u understand and will forgive her but also tell her that u guys can only be frens from then on...I mean...Ask her back...if she is willing to accpet that u sleep wif other girls when u r togther?
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Your name reali suit u very well....how can u accept a girl who slept wif someone else when shes wif u...U r incredible....Good name....Yang guo...Originally posted by Yang^Guo:do u like her heart or her body?
if her heart is gone with her body then give her up, no use in continue, both of u will b miserable.
if she now did smthg dui bu qi you and is asking for your 4giveness dat means her heart is still with you, n if so give her a chance, everyone makes mistakes...
thk bout the happy moments you've had with her... were you happy?
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like i said..... do u like her heart or her body?Originally posted by evererin:Your name reali suit u very well....how can u accept a girl who slept wif someone else when shes wif u...U r incredible....Good name....Yang guo...
if the girl b4 hav u as bf sleep wif her ex-bf ard now having you as bf but slp wif other man... wad difference is dat? -
I wouldn't take back my guy if he slept with someone else. THere's no respect for me. If he's in his correct state of mind, he shld noe the consequences. Give it up dude. You deserve someone better, unless u did this to her before..
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It happen b4, in the end, we r still together, but we broke up a couple of months later becoz of other problems,Originally posted by SaDie`Do||:and another qns if you think you do not wanna let her go>> R u able to live with the fact that your gf has slept with another guy while still going steady with you?
A lady friend of mine say this to mi,
There r many guys that got gf still go out to "eat",
their gf later know abt it,but most of them still agreed to forgive them.... 
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IF the answer is that she was drunk and she was feeling high that nite, very bei tahan one lay ..Originally posted by schrodcat:I think you can try to find out why she slept with tht guy first.
Hear her out first. ?
all the best!
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If you say this, that means you are fedup with her. Rite?Originally posted by iloveprettygirls:long story cut short
gal slpt wif someone else
now pleading for 4giveness
hoW?
would u go on like this?
right now i just feel its just too much to ask
Then go on have a sexual relationship with her but at the same time, find another girlfriend who may not do that to you. You no lugi then. -
okie.. think u go and pop her tt qns instead....... ask her if she would forgive u and forget this incident if u were the one who went out to sleep wif another guy no matter who and no matter u were sober or not.
if ans is yes... den u ask urself if u really love her and cannot do wifout her? will u be able to remove tt dent in ur pride? will u not be thinking and oways suspicious she will do it again if shes out wif her frens? will the trust be the same again? theres oways something like once bitten twice shy.. but den if u can oways be bitten u go ahead since its not the first time right? but den how many times can u tahan such a thing? wats tt abt her tt can keep u wif her?
if ans is no.. den juz the same ans as u will give her... no and break off den.. betcha there many other better gals out there...
its juz an opinion.. i oways think no matter how flirtatious u are.. when u haf a bf or gf u muz be tamed... dun tell me ur partner dun give wat u want nowadays? its the modern era.. if u want sex usually ur partner will give and some of them will try to spice up the sex life even coz its something personal both of u share... think shes only out for fun.. and u muz be sure that u are clean of ur records when u are wif her b4 u can ask her tt qns. -
iloveprettygirl..so, whats ur decision at last ?
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Originally posted by wendy81:
sorry tt underlined part is not relevant to u.. paiseh
okie.. think u go and pop her tt qns instead....... ask her if she would forgive u and forget this incident if u were the one who went out to sleep wif another guy no matter who and no matter u were sober or not.
if ans is yes... den u ask urself if u really love her and cannot do wifout her? will u be able to remove tt dent in ur pride? will u not be thinking and oways suspicious she will do it again if shes out wif her frens? will the trust be the same again? theres oways something like once bitten twice shy.. but den if u can oways be bitten u go ahead [b]since its not the first time right? but den how many times can u tahan such a thing? wats tt abt her tt can keep u wif her?
if ans is no.. den juz the same ans as u will give her... no and break off den.. betcha there many other better gals out there...
its juz an opinion.. i oways think no matter how flirtatious u are.. when u haf a bf or gf u muz be tamed... dun tell me ur partner dun give wat u want nowadays? its the modern era.. if u want sex usually ur partner will give and some of them will try to spice up the sex life even coz its something personal both of u share... think shes only out for fun.. and u muz be sure that u are clean of ur records when u are wif her b4 u can ask her tt qns.
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