if ur gf is being rape before
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/me chop all rapist into 99 pieces bbq
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I would not have said this out, but just wish to share my experience..
"this" has happened to me before and tat is 3 years ago.
I just want to let you know that a worst thing that can happen to a woman is being raped...
Just imagine.. I poll for all guys to understand not to say that you all are cold blooded.. but normally many cannot accept it just because it's a disgrace.
It' s a very bad experience. I can't never forget the day that happened. so please do not mind about it..
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I bet your gf is suffering pyschologically...
Do not despise her...
Before I was with my bf, I didn;t hide from him and tell him that "it' had happened to me..I was mentally prepared that he will turned around and walked away, but he didn;t... yet he told me this:" I mind not for your past, but what I can give you in the future. Cos I love you for what you are to me, not who you are, not what you are to others.... If you love me too please let me take care of you.... I want you to forget about "it" every moment you are with me and be sure I will stand by you no matter what happens to you. Cos you are you..."
and this is what he told me almost 3 yrs ago, till now we are still as loving....
what your gf needs is you to support her not to despise her...
I believe she will give you support too when it comes to the moment you need her most....
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I just wished to ask does this happen lately or what?
if it's lately, perhaps you should accompany her more..
At that time, I suffered from a moment of depression, I even tortured myself physically, and even mentally at times...
It's not easy to get over... even now nightmares still haunt me, and I freaked when I'm alone.....
So another please...... take gd care of her.... -
than u get hanged in ChangiOriginally posted by Xiao Long Nu:/me chop all rapist into 99 pieces bbq -
Think about this: at least the bf you are getting, YOU KNOW, that he truely loves you for who you are. Look at many others who stayed in a relation not knowing whether their partner truely loves them, appreciate them for who their are, etc.Originally posted by IamAngeline:I would not have said this out, but just wish to share my experience..
"this" has happened to me before and tat is 3 years ago.
I just want to let you know that a worst thing that can happen to a woman is being raped...
Just imagine.. I poll for all guys to understand not to say that you all are cold blooded.. but normally many cannot accept it just because it's a disgrace.
It' s a very bad experience. I can't never forget the day that happened. so please do not mind about it.. .
I bet your gf is suffering pyschologically...
Do not despise her...
Before I was with my bf, I didn;t hide from him and tell him that "it' had happened to me..I was mentally prepared that he will turned around and walked away, but he didn;t... yet he told me this:" I mind not for your past, but what I can give you in the future. Cos I love you for what you are to me, not who you are, not what you are to others.... If you love me too please let me take care of you.... I want you to forget about "it" every moment you are with me and be sure I will stand by you no matter what happens to you. Cos you are you..."
and this is what he told me almost 3 yrs ago, till now we are still as loving....
what your gf needs is you to support her not to despise her...
I believe she will give you support too when it comes to the moment you need her most....
Please..... think about it... 
You are a brave soul and have come this far, although with a sorry plight, but God is fair - he let you found a guy whom will deeply treasure you after that hell incident.
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Geez thanks.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Think about this: at least the bf you are getting, YOU KNOW, that he truely loves you for who you are. Look at many others who stayed in a relation not knowing whether their partner truely loves them, appreciate them for who their are, etc.
You are a brave soul and have come this far, although with a sorry plight, but God is fair - he let you found a guy whom will deeply treasure you after that hell incident.
Cheers
Yah I really believe that compare to maybe a lot more outside, I'm now a much more lucky to have my bf right now...
that's y I would choose to tell my own experience. It's initally hard to get through.. no matter in terms of psychologically nor physically, especially the moment when you are always going donw to the police station, for DNA, for recognisin those suspects... it's terrible. Till now the one that did "it" to me, I do not even know who he is, nor is being caught. When I went down to the police station, I would cry out and my officer could not do anything at all to help except to nab the one as fast as possible
It's torturing when there's someone who might give you a second look and that will really freak me out...
I really hope xiao wee can realise this if he really loves his gf... -
i'll spend whatever it takes to find out who is the rapist n spend whatever it takes to hire a professional killer
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Even as a stranger or a causal friend - I will not look at you in another light and neither will other good people around - its the way and the your own unique character that shaped people's impression. However, it's your mental preception that is hindering and haunting you. Learn to release yourself from it and you can soar to greater heights.Originally posted by IamAngeline:Geez thanks.
Yah I really believe that compare to maybe a lot more outside, I'm now a much more lucky to have my bf right now...
that's y I would choose to tell my own experience. It's initally hard to get through.. no matter in terms of psychologically nor physically, especially the moment when you are always going donw to the police station, for DNA, for recognisin those suspects... it's terrible. Till now the one that did "it" to me, I do not even know who he is, nor is being caught. When I went down to the police station, I would cry out and my officer could not do anything at all to help except to nab the one as fast as possible
It's torturing when there's someone who might give you a second look and that will really freak me out...
I really hope xiao wee can realise this if he really loves his gf...
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it mus b hard on u.....u r so brave to stand up again...gd luck to u n ur bf.Originally posted by IamAngeline:Geez thanks.
Yah I really believe that compare to maybe a lot more outside, I'm now a much more lucky to have my bf right now...
that's y I would choose to tell my own experience. It's initally hard to get through.. no matter in terms of psychologically nor physically, especially the moment when you are always going donw to the police station, for DNA, for recognisin those suspects... it's terrible. Till now the one that did "it" to me, I do not even know who he is, nor is being caught. When I went down to the police station, I would cry out and my officer could not do anything at all to help except to nab the one as fast as possible
It's torturing when there's someone who might give you a second look and that will really freak me out...
I really hope xiao wee can realise this if he really loves his gf... -
You do have your own unqiue character too like everyone else in the world. Yes, I have tried released myself from the shadow and I should say I am doing quite all right.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Even as a stranger or a causal friend - I will not look at you in another light and neither will other good people around - its the way and the your own unique character that shaped people's impression. However, it's your mental preception that is hindering and haunting you. Learn to release yourself from it and you can soar to greater heights.
Cheers
I am quite surprised when I saw this topic listed here..
But there's something perhaps I would put it this way that
I would describe myself as "timid" if ever one day my officer called and tell me that they have nabbed the one.
Because I do not know if I have that courage to face him in the court or in the police station. -
Thanks a lot Xiao Long Nu.. I would really like to see Xiao Wee would be just like my bf....Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:it mus b hard on u.....u r so brave to stand up again...gd luck to u n ur bf.
I would not say that I'm brave but I just do not wish to stop my life just because of what happened... the bravest is actually my bf..
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You will have to learn to face your own fear one day: Someday, everyone of us have to.Originally posted by IamAngeline:You do have your own unqiue character too like everyone else in the world. Yes, I have tried released myself from the shadow and I should say I am doing quite all right.
I am quite surprised when I saw this topic listed here..
But there's something perhaps I would put it this way that
I would describe myself as "timid" if ever one day my officer called and tell me that they have nabbed the one.
Because I do not know if I have that courage to face him in the court or in the police station.
Maybe at that point of time - I will be the first to give you moral and spiritual support. Don't worry! You will be fine!
Cheers -
REALLY, thanks a millionOriginally posted by Yunhaier:You will have to learn to face your own fear one day: Someday, everyone of us have to.
Maybe at that point of time - I will be the first to give you moral and spiritual support. Don't worry! You will be fine!
Cheers -
u realy brave...bcos i believe alot of victims dn even dare go police station...i tink to make them stand up again is realy hard...Originally posted by IamAngeline:Thanks a lot Xiao Long Nu.. I would really like to see Xiao Wee would be just like my bf....
I would not say that I'm brave but I just do not wish to stop my life just because of what happened... the bravest is actually my bf..
correct?
yah u r rite....to stop ur life bcos of tat is no use....forgt abt the past..most impt is nw and future...
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It's easy to say that you won't mind but if it really happened then it might not be so easy.
Sometimes it might not be the guy who mind but the gal who feel bad and not able to get over it.
Rape can be of many different kind, gang rape, rape by someone you know, rape by unknow ppl who was never caught, rape can also be counted if it's not consented sex.
If unconsented sex counts, my ex was a victim but I love her much more when I knew about it. I did not leave her, she left me -
Ya like what you said, many didn;t even dare to go the police.. I would say that going to them would be a better choice than to keep it...Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:u realy brave...bcos i believe alot of victims dn even dare go police station...i tink to make them stand up again is realy hard...
yah u r rite....to stop ur life bcos of tat is no use....forgt abt the past..most impt is nw and future...
It is quite scary lah. imagine you are like a criminal when you are not actually but you just have to stay there. And when you go the hospital, the way the doc does checkup for you is extremely painful.. cannot imagine lah... then you have to go for blood test for AIDS, do DNA... counselling.... -
*hugs....tats y i say u realy brave .......u mus have suffer alot....bt dn worry those r over....bt those rapist realy bastard...farking idiots...! best is catch them then chop off their lanjiao bbq..!!! give crocodile eat!...curse them nex life be pig.!!! u r brave to testify against them to put them behind the bars ....or else more victims if no catch the rapist...most girls dn wana report........anyway..dn tink abt it............maybe tink of hw many children u and ur bf goin to have nex time when u marryOriginally posted by IamAngeline:Ya like what you said, many didn;t even dare to go the police.. I would say that going to them would be a better choice than to keep it...
It is quite scary lah. imagine you are like a criminal when you are not actually but you just have to stay there. And when you go the hospital, the way the doc does checkup for you is extremely painful.. cannot imagine lah... then you have to go for blood test for AIDS, do DNA... counselling.... -
Hmm ya, but a bit sad to say that the rapist is not caught..Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:*hugs....tats y i say u realy brave .......u mus have suffer alot....bt dn worry those r over....bt those rapist realy bastard...farking idiots...! best is catch them then chop off their lanjiao bbq..!!! give crocodile eat!...curse them nex life be pig.!!! u r brave to testify against them to put them behind the bars ....or else more victims if no catch the rapist...most girls dn wana report........anyway..dn tink abt it............maybe tink of hw many children u and ur bf goin to have nex time when u marry
Cause he actually covered my face and I was beaten and far too freaked out to be 'conscious'.. -
yea not many go to the police... i know 1 such girl....haiz~Originally posted by IamAngeline:Ya like what you said, many didn;t even dare to go the police.. I would say that going to them would be a better choice than to keep it...
It is quite scary lah. imagine you are like a criminal when you are not actually but you just have to stay there. And when you go the hospital, the way the doc does checkup for you is extremely painful.. cannot imagine lah... then you have to go for blood test for AIDS, do DNA... counselling.... -
HE SHALL BURN IN HELLFIRE! GOD BLESS HIS SOUL!Originally posted by IamAngeline:Hmm ya, but a bit sad to say that the rapist is not caught..
Cause he actually covered my face and I was beaten and far too freaked out to be 'conscious'..
/me cast fireball and charred Mr X until there is zero trance behind. -
I believe in retribution... -
yes!! retribution exists!!! make sure he gt raped by macurry !!african ppl !!!Originally posted by WinBoi84: I believe in retribution... -
Originally posted by IamAngeline:Hmm ya, but a bit sad to say that the rapist is not caught..
Cause he actually covered my face and I was beaten and far too freaked out to be 'conscious'.. dn tink abt it....u dn wan tat to happen aso....u had done wat u need...forgt abt the past...time will heel -
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