if ur gf is being rape before
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Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:
crocodile = sgboy2004???
*hugs....tats y i say u realy brave .......u mus have suffer alot....bt dn worry those r over....bt those rapist realy bastard...farking idiots...! best is catch them then chop off their lanjiao bbq..!!! give [b]crocodile eat!...curse them nex life be pig.!!! u r brave to testify against them to put them behind the bars ....or else more victims if no catch the rapist...most girls dn wana report........anyway..dn tink abt it............maybe tink of hw many children u and ur bf goin to have nex time when u marry
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let mi eat...hmmm... will help mi to nurture mi love-stick
btw,, to hell wif rapists..
To maintain Law & Order is my duty
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hmm how come you don't know who is the beast who rape you?Originally posted by IamAngeline:Geez thanks.
Yah I really believe that compare to maybe a lot more outside, I'm now a much more lucky to have my bf right now...
that's y I would choose to tell my own experience. It's initally hard to get through.. no matter in terms of psychologically nor physically, especially the moment when you are always going donw to the police station, for DNA, for recognisin those suspects... it's terrible. Till now the one that did "it" to me, I do not even know who he is, nor is being caught. When I went down to the police station, I would cry out and my officer could not do anything at all to help except to nab the one as fast as possible
It's torturing when there's someone who might give you a second look and that will really freak me out...
I really hope xiao wee can realise this if he really loves his gf...
you are unconcious or wat?
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that bastard should be struck by lightingOriginally posted by IamAngeline:Hmm ya, but a bit sad to say that the rapist is not caught..
Cause he actually covered my face and I was beaten and far too freaked out to be 'conscious'.. 
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i don mind her past n it's not her fault.....
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actually if it's in e distance past...u can just pretend nuthing happened....but if it's recent than ya might have a hard time with a sucidial gal....
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ya but i'll still be wif her no matter wad...Originally posted by harryryan:actually if it's in e distance past...u can just pretend nuthing happened....but if it's recent than ya might have a hard time with a sucidial gal....
cos that wad love is abt -
Take her as she is.....
I know it's hard to accept.. -
easy to say....imagine cry whole day...cling onto u as u are her security blanket....call ya every hour....track ya...easy to say but hard to do.....call try butsome guys dun even bother.Originally posted by dark_slayer79:ya but i'll still be wif her no matter wad...
cos that wad love is abt -
it is not easy to bulid up a relationship bro cos there alway harsh time as well as good time.....Originally posted by harryryan:easy to say....imagine cry whole day...cling onto u as u are her security blanket....call ya every hour....track ya...easy to say but hard to do.....call try butsome guys dun even bother.
think of her think of the happy time u all share it worth
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after that your relationship with her will be stronger but men often take gals like her as easy prey so u gotta prove ur sincerity first bro.Originally posted by dark_slayer79:it is not easy to bulid up a relationship bro cos there alway harsh time as well as good time.....
think of her think of the happy time u all share it worth -
easy prey?Originally posted by harryryan:after that your relationship with her will be stronger but men often take gals like her as easy prey so u gotta prove ur sincerity first bro. -
cos they are mentally unstable after e rape so it renders them incapable of making sound decisions...any guy who shows concern to them will be taken as e saviour but not all guys are good u see....some are devils n they will further destroy their lives....Originally posted by dark_slayer79:easy prey? -
must have trust......Originally posted by harryryan:cos they are mentally unstable after e rape so it renders them incapable of making sound decisions...any guy who shows concern to them will be taken as e saviour but not all guys are good u see....some are devils n they will further destroy their lives....
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Well.. I dun reallie noe how to console ppl, but what I really wanna say is that you are indeed brave to stand out. I may not be really understand what you have gone through, but I really wanna wish u all the best in ur pursuit of happiness. Remember to live ur lives to ur fullest.
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Err.......you need to work a little on your english i nearly thought your question was :
What would you do if your gf is being raped. -
Ehh? Miscom...i'm just adding on to what you said.Originally posted by anfuni:i am juz giving my 5 cent worth of thots.... cos i do hv frens whom both experiance this kind of unwanted encounters.... and they are suffering.... *sigh*
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Yup, it's usually the female who wants to withdraw....Originally posted by Yunhaier:So there is nothing to with her whether she is a virgin, non-virgin, raped, etc. And since he has nothing to with that - you MUST accept her for who she is and love & treasure her more because of her sorry plight. If you were to mind and get bothered over it - you are NO better than the guy who raped her because YOU are the one who reminded her about her past and actually make her feel that she is worthless because of it.
My tudi (Disciple)'s ex was a victim of such case. She was inferior and deep within her, she suffered psychological problem as she feels that she wasn't worthy of him. My tudi didn't mind, but the shadow kept haunting her, until eventually, she made the decision to leave him - which of course causes much distress and sorrow to both parties.
A rape victim is needs more than just love in generally - a victim themselves, their image of men & love is tanished. If you truly love her - You must:
I) Guide her, lead her and enlighten her that past experience will serve to build her.
II) Treasure and love her equal or more - she is no lesser than any of your ex.
You must prepare to run that extra mile in the relationship and as always, are you willing to make that extra mile?
Cheers
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Originally posted by harryryan:some are devils n they will further destroy their lives....
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u one of them too?Originally posted by Devil1976: