My wife do not like sex.
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mayb i can help ur wife to like sex...
call her to my hse tonite!?@
kekeke -
seriously, see a counsellor.
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no fark no son....
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Baby sgboy2004 -
why u dun try massaging her naked? surely screw her up...Originally posted by Anza Andy:Yes, she is stress. Abit thing also stress. I alway try to relex her, but v difficult. What should I do?
i tried doing that b4 for my hubby 
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Perhaps u do not satisfy her enough durring sex?
Go learn more about it through books or even professionals... -
Maybe she got a past that you don't know? Or maybe the last 10 times wasn't good for her. You have to respect her body first before she is willing to let go and let you.
Communication is the best tool. And be candid and truthful during the chat. Ask she exactly which part does she hate it? Or maybe you are too pressurising?
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try to promote "making love" instead of just "sex".
does she fear intimacy as well as hating sex? if it's intimacy that she's avoiding then u have serious problems as a married couple. u might wanna really sit down to talk about her, but not to resolve the issue of "why wouldn't u fu[/i]ck me" but rather "why aren't we intimately close as a married couple" or why the "distance" between the two of u. after that, you might wanna seek professional help, since there are pple out there who are "touch-phobic" (dunno wat the word is).
if she doesn't mind kissing and hugging and even mild petting but totally refuses love-making after that, then of course ask her why too. she obviously doesn't mind getting intimate with u, but penetration turns her off. maybe it hurts, maybe she's not on contraception and doesn't want a baby yet, etc etc. u are her husband, how can u not know?!??! u wanna find out, ask. if she's hiding things from u and not wanting to tell u, then now we'd be seriously questioning the basis of this marraige.
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3 years and less thAn 10 times...
that sounds bad.
Why look for help on at this time?
Think first of all, don't guess... ask yr wife why she no like sex.
She sure to have her reasons like:
She is really no in the mood
She got some fear of sex
She got some dark secrets about having sex
She don't like the approach you used....
talk to her.. if all fails, try look for professional help.
Sex is not everything but I think it's important in a marriage -
one solution only: divorce. Or you figured the story.
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err...can i ask...1 time last how long har.... if 1 time last 2 months...then ok lorOriginally posted by Anza Andy:Married for 3 years but only have sex less then 10 times. What should I do? Please help.
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Baby sgboy2004 -
i think hes busy f**king his wife now...
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by right should be at least 200 times... maybe you should ask her who did to her the 190 times..Originally posted by Anza Andy:Married for 3 years but only have sex less then 10 times. What should I do? Please help. -
I have lot of experience and sex partner before i got married. I know how to mak a women go to sky high. But my wif just do not like sex.
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dua kang lar you sky high then try breaking this ice queen of yours larOriginally posted by Anza Andy:I have lot of experience and sex partner before i got married. I know how to mak a women go to sky high. But my wif just do not like sex.
three years still cannot succeeded haiz.........
zekku....
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Sex don't just come along like its a routine. U hafta try to do things to get her in e mood for love. Try diming e lights.. burn some incense to calm her down... make dinner for her..create some romantic scenerio for her. Get her in e mood... a sensual massage (remember sensual) with some massage oil. Do it right and she will feel very relaxed and sensual too then slowly proceed to some intimacy and foreplay and so on....If all these doesnt work on her, she might be having some mental block on sex. Try finding out whats wrong... its not healthy for a married couple to have a dissatisfying sex life.
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Good Endurance!!!~
10 times in 3 yrs~
No longer a problem with creating the rite atmosphere etc.
Definitely need professional help though
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Time to consider outsourcing, my boy... cheersOriginally posted by Anza Andy:I have lot of experience and sex partner before i got married. I know how to mak a women go to sky high. But my wif just do not like sex. -
I really think you have a problem here, and it may not be about sex. Some couples have sex infrequently, but 10 times in 3 years is way out on the bell curve.
I do not want to guess what the reason is, but you should really see a counsellor. If she's unwilling, you can go yourself first, and bring her in later. Best if two of you to together.
Actually, if she doesn't want to see a counsellor, you should try to find out why - start talking. The answer may come out in the process of talking. -
force her..what can she do..
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how come u all neber mention about the result ?
children ... baby .... so cute ..
ur wife dun wan meh ??
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Sure whe like to have baby but she don't like to have sex. I am sure that after we got baby, she will never have sex again.
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we called such woman 'stone girl' in chinese...Originally posted by Anza Andy:Sure whe like to have baby but she don't like to have sex. I am sure that after we got baby, she will never have sex again. -
will u turn on ONS or something no sring attached liao?Originally posted by Anza Andy:Sure whe like to have baby but she don't like to have sex. I am sure that after we got baby, she will never have sex again.
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maybe linux ? mac ?Originally posted by reallieRAW:well....gals dun like "Microsoft" -
I certainly hope you consider Professional Help instead of the forum people.
3 Years and 10 times might look "absurd" but some people managed to stay in love and not have sex. But if you are BOTHERED by it (since you posted in here), i suggest you talk to your wife first, and if she agrees, go for those "Professional Help"
Peace out, and take care, worst to worst...go surf the net and self-release.