Must a gf let her bf touch her ?
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but it is quite difficult to ascertain if the bf is truely loving the gf or just wan her body .........Originally posted by GIJOE:Hold on to your own rights. To give or not is all dependent on yourself. A guy who just have sex on their mind is one who does not commit. To make someone feel loved.. there are lotsa things that we can do other than sex. Love is mental..physical only helps in certain way.
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wad abt u?Originally posted by jasmine17:actually not all the girls engage in pre-martial sex -
me yet to engage in sexOriginally posted by dark_slayer79:wad abt u? -
Dear Jasmine17,
Firstly, i do think that girls have the right to reject guys where they may have gone morally wrong.A girl should not feel pressured to go further with her boyfriend if she does not feel comfortable. People may say that they do things with their boyfriends but most of it isn't true. You don't need to please them and I am sure, if the guy really cares about the girl,he will not mind taking things slow.
Secondly, I know how awkward it is to start a rather touchy feely relationship with a guy which started as a really good friendship.
I think you just need more time to adjust because feelings and emotions can get mixed up. Your best way to deal with this is to be honest with him about how you feel. Take things slower and don't
move faster then with what you are comfortable with. I am sure what you think about yourself no one else does. It you feel self conscious just remember that everyone has things they don't like about themselves. Just don't rush things and with time everything will work out.
If he really tells you that if you don't give me what i want to your body then i suggest to get rid of him. You don't deserve to be treated like that and you shouldn't wait your precious time on a guy that doesn't deserve someone like you. But if you feel strongly for him then tell him how you feel and try to make the relationship work. If he doesn't try then he's not ready for a relationship.
Make Yourself Happy First! If he's not making you happy then find someone that does...don't waste your time on someone who can't handle a relationship and the responsibility that comes along with it. Find someone that can give you everything you ever wanted in a relationship and go for it.
Talk to him first and if nothing happens then get rid of him...then find someone that will make you happy...Good Luck
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There is a word called "communication"... & more than often we kinda misused it... Simply put: tough luck. I dun tink I shld sae more... no right to sae it anywae...Originally posted by jasmine17:but it is quite difficult to ascertain if the bf is truely loving the gf or just wan her body ......... -
Originally posted by Master -_-:Dear Jasmine17,
Firstly, i do think that girls have the right to reject guys where they may have gone morally wrong.A girl should not feel pressured to go further with her boyfriend if she does not feel comfortable. People may say that they do things with their boyfriends but most of it isn't true. You don't need to please them and I am sure, if the guy really cares about the girl,he will not mind taking things slow.
Secondly, I know how awkward it is to start a rather touchy feely relationship with a guy which started as a really good friendship.
Thanks for the kind advice
I think you just need more time to adjust because feelings and emotions can get mixed up. Your best way to deal with this is to be honest with him about how you feel. Take things slower and don't
move faster then with what you are comfortable with. I am sure what you think about yourself no one else does. It you feel self conscious just remember that everyone has things they don't like about themselves. Just don't rush things and with time everything will work out.
If he really tells you that if you don't give me what i want to your body then i suggest to get rid of him. You don't deserve to be treated like that and you shouldn't wait your precious time on a guy that doesn't deserve someone like you. But if you feel strongly for him then tell him how you feel and try to make the relationship work. If he doesn't try then he's not ready for a relationship.
Make Yourself Happy First! If he's not making you happy then find someone that does...don't waste your time on someone who can't handle a relationship and the responsibility that comes along with it. Find someone that can give you everything you ever wanted in a relationship and go for it.
Talk to him first and if nothing happens then get rid of him...then find someone that will make you happy...Good Luck
Cheers -
Originally posted by jasmine17:
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If u are not certain whether his feelings are true for u.. mind if i ask..how long have u been with him? Do u think u have understand him enough before thinking about any intimacy with him? Cause youngsters are game for anything but when trouble comes.. everybody run away. I advise if u are not certain of his feelings and if u don't understand him well enough.. dont get too intimate with him...this is something u don't wanna start on the wrong foot.
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But when u feel that he can be trusted and understands that a man will have his needs right ? so a girlfriend should understand that and allow such action ? ........
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dat really gotta c if the gal is willin in the 1st place... these acts shld only be done when 2 have reach a certain stage, & not to try improve the existing relationship. Dun be foolish & go head in into doing it for the sake of satisfying him.Originally posted by jasmine17:But when u feel that he can be trusted and understands that a man will have his needs right ? so a girlfriend should understand that and allow such action ? ........ -
Well since you are that understanding, then i shall speak from guy's point of view.Originally posted by jasmine17:But when u feel that he can be trusted and understands that a man will have his needs right ? so a girlfriend should understand that and allow such action ? ........
Here goes...
Simply because you understand and therefore allow some action.
Then i can safely tell you most guys when they have a inch, they'll want a yard.
Some guys will appreciate that you see they're needs.
All in all, everyone has their own viewpoints in certain decisions whether moral or immoral. Some strict, some were open to these issues.
You should have your own stand and stand by it.
Just take care of yourself, don't be a easy target.
Take Good Care -
Oh before i end.
This is the last.
It always always takes two hands to clap.
Nope....no blaming, no finger pointing. Foolishness and regrets? Yes.....at times. -
so true........Originally posted by M©+square:Oh before i end.
This is the last.
It always always takes two hands to clap.
Nope....no blaming, no finger pointing. Foolishness and regrets? Yes.....at times. -
Originally posted by jasmine17:But when u feel that he can be trusted and understands that a man will have his needs right ? so a girlfriend should understand that and allow such action ? ........ most beloved child..no man who proposes pre-marital sex can be trusted..i wish never to read your post on Aunt Agony's.
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You do............ BUT do you ??????????????????Originally posted by jasmine17:Some girls seemed obliged to let their boyfriend touch them even though they have known each other for a very short period of time.
Does a girl have the right to reject petting ?
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Originally posted by jasmine17:Some girls seemed obliged to let their boyfriend touch them even though they have known each other for a very short period of time.
Does a girl have the right to reject petting ? yup..u hav every right..tho heres not da home of da brave n land of da free.. wait a second..u r only 17yrs old? u shud not b readin from da bar, let alone start a thread, young lady.. -
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of course...Originally posted by jasmine17:Some girls seemed obliged to let their boyfriend touch them even though they have known each other for a very short period of time.
Does a girl have the right to reject petting ?
gals are human too -
Originally posted by boy in blues: most beloved child..no man who proposes pre-marital sex can be trusted..
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Originally posted by BoYisHbOy:of course...
gals are human too
thats obvious hee 
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So majority of the ppl here says that a girl does have the right to reject petting ?
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Yes. agree! especially the part, we should treasure our girls. not use them as sex tools or what to ease your own desire. guys who are with their girl now for sex, should wake up. You think your girl really can do these to anyone? only to you. Start treasuring.Originally posted by M©+square:When your boyfriend learns to respect ladies, including his mom. then he'll know how to treat a girl as a treasure, not an object.
However it's a mural consent when it comes to should i? must i? all those questions should come in agreement. Not to be taken advantage of. Physical contact isn't the only way to intimate r/s.
Take note and cheers.
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whether or not the majority of ppl here say a girl has the rite or not, it is a fact tat a girl has the rite to reject any advances of anyone, not juz restricted to bf...Originally posted by jasmine17:So majority of the ppl here says that a girl does have the right to reject petting ? -
i tink it alrite if u dun wanna let him touch...but at least kissing is still acceptable but no more advance than tat heh... i tink some hugging or some kissing is to show affection not sex..
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of coz must let her bf touch nahz..
if nt wan her for wad... lolz..