Must a gf let her bf touch her ?
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hehehehehOriginally posted by davewill:i concur yr statement, n yr candour is appreciated my dear. it proves tat the sexual objects flown in for us is up to our discrepency to engage or not. err...u hv most right to reject others intimate action towards u but not me huh....kekeke.
exceptionally
davewill
forgiven lio ah? 
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nah...i wun nitpick on such triva matters...moreover u r my dear dear u noe..heheheOriginally posted by wendy81:heheheheh forgiven lio ah?
the power of love
davewill -
hehehehe!!!Originally posted by davewill:nah...i wun nitpick on such triva matters...moreover u r my dear dear u noe..hehehe
the power of love
davewill dear dear ah... can u love me more tonite? -
its my pleasureOriginally posted by wendy81:hehehehe!!! dear dear ah... can u love me more tonite? not oni tonite, every nite oso can ah hehe..
love u deep deep
davewill -
that depends.
if she pays her own way then, okay.
but if she depends on him for everything and makes him pay all the time, she better put out! -
flying off lio.. so many days no love lio..Originally posted by davewill:its my pleasure not oni tonite, every nite oso can ah hehe..
love u deep deep
davewill
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Originally posted by AzRaeL:that depends.
if she pays her own way then, okay.
but if she depends on him for everything and makes him pay all the time, she better put out!
pay wat? -
don't know about you guys, but i'm too sensitive. any part of my body you touch feels tickerish.
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i will feel funny even if it's jus a tickle on the waist, or a slight hold on the waist when crossing the road
hmm me too conservative?
because he's not even my bf.. but i think soon lo -
yup.. gals haf e rite to reject petting.. but if e "mood" comes.. oso v difficult to reject lorOriginally posted by jasmine17:Some girls seemed obliged to let their boyfriend touch them even though they have known each other for a very short period of time.
Does a girl have the right to reject petting ? -
More often than not, the guy expects something in return for the gifts,treats he paid. So the return is to have a go on his girlfriend
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Originally posted by jasmine17:Some girls seemed obliged to let their boyfriend touch them even though they have known each other for a very short period of time.
Does a girl have the right to reject petting ? of course..girls oso humans..have their rights.. -
WEll said!!! some just wanna have fun that all.. simple as that..Originally posted by wendy81:i did came across many of such men.... even my ex they are such men.... it takes time.. and chance too.. and one thing to highlight.. men who are matured are not restricted to non-clubbers. many men who clubs are mistaken for being men who sleeps ard... but there are men who dun.
like me... hee...
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i presume u guys are talking abt petting liaoz and into sexual acts. not just holding hands or hugging.
holding hands hugging, quite common lor, every human being wishes to be loved and wishes for love to be shown to them. we all want our loved ones to hold us, and we all desire to hold them too. even children loves a pat on their head holding hands, being carried around. touching is very impt in love, whether its touching ppl's lives, or just a friendly pat on the back makes us all feel good. petting sexually i tink is just an extreme side to it lor. any views pls pm me. cuz i most probably will lose this thread and wun be able to find it back again...
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yes i agree.. but i am more extreme.. i am very sure that couples who wait until the right time to make love, the relationship always survives. and the couple are very close together. statisically proven. yea yea, all those horny ppl out there will probably say "i dun believe in statisics, and i am not going to be just a statistic." blah blah... its as good as saying "i'm going to make sure the sun dun rise from the east 2molo" whether or not u want to be a statsic. u are. and most couples who happily humped the bed usually dun hv a happy ending. proven by the records of short term relationships. studies shown that ppl who wait often turn out to be better ppl, with better relationships.Originally posted by GIJOE:Touch only gets u two closer together which makes it more intimate. Its e words that u say, e things that u do that make her feel loved. Definitely not sex although it might help a little. Relationship without sex will survived and might even be better for some. To know how much a person loves u comes from understanding that person, not touch or by just saying many times that 3 words.
an example of a study. a scientist was conducting an experiement with some children. he put a sweet in front of a child. and told the child that he is going off for awhile, and if the child would wait for him to return and not eat the sweet, he will give the child 2 sweets.
of course some children would eat the sweet while the scientist went away. but for those who did wait for the scientist to return, he kept his promise to them and rewarded them.
well, and for those children who waited, they grew up to be fun, bubbly, responsible. while those who don't, usually are self centered, insecure. -
Originally posted by dumbdumb!:yes i agree.. but i am more extreme.. i am very sure that couples who wait until the right time to make love, the relationship always survives. and the couple are very close together. statisically proven. yea yea, all those horny ppl out there will probably say "i dun believe in statisics, and i am not going to be just a statistic." blah blah... its as good as saying "i'm going to make sure the sun dun rise from the east 2molo" whether or not u want to be a statsic. u are. and most couples who happily humped the bed usually dun hv a happy ending. proven by the records of short term relationships. studies shown that ppl who wait often turn out to be better ppl, with better relationships.
Maybe singapore boys should have this test too so those with problem can be picked out to prevent further trouble.
an example of a study. a scientist was conducting an experiement with some children. he put a sweet in front of a child. and told the child that he is going off for awhile, and if the child would wait for him to return and not eat the sweet, he will give the child 2 sweets.
of course some children would eat the sweet while the scientist went away. but for those who did wait for the scientist to return, he kept his promise to them and rewarded them.
well, and for those children who waited, they grew up to be fun, bubbly, responsible. while those who don't, usually are self centered, insecure. -
hmm the study was meant to show that children who have certain qualities whilst young, like the ability to wait for something better tended to be more successful in life...Originally posted by dumbdumb!:an example of a study. a scientist was conducting an
well, and for those children who waited, they grew up to be fun, bubbly, responsible. while those who don't, usually are self centered, insecure.
not that they were more fun or bubbly.
basically there would be a difference in the amount of time the children would be willing to wait IF the sweet was IN SIGHT. if the sweet was placed in front of their noses, they tended to be more impatient.
i guess if something is dangled in front of ur nose, you tend to be more impatient.;.
every girl should have the right to say no to unwanted attentions by her bf..
i don't really agree with the "if he pays for her, then she has to put out for him"... u think its buying sexual favors?!!
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Eh, kinda late to join the thread, but anyway...
There is no MUST in any relationship lor. C'mon even husbands get sued for rape. Touching is a 2-way thing, and i dun see the need for a girl to allow her bf to touch her cos she feels she should even thou she dun like it. Dun want means dun want, if the bf can't understand that, then well, shows how much he loves her doesn't it?
Of cos, if the couple has come to a stage where they're comfortable with each other's body, i dun see any problems with them engaging in any hanky panky -
It's all come down to the confident & comfortability between the couple lah.
Frankly speaking, 101% of the guys (I mean if his body has more male hormones than female hormones) do alway being carried off by their sexual desire. I realised this when I have experienced the process. However, guys, we must acknowledge the fact that we are human not beast. If you demand people's respect, 1st you must start to respect people around you too. -
i wonder if guys will look down on girls whom have been "touched" by their ex
or insist to touch them since the girls have been "explored" -
no.... at least not meOriginally posted by jasmine17:i wonder if guys will look down on girls whom have been "touched" by their ex or insist to touch them since the girls have been "explored" -
but look at the world now...is there any virgin left?.....
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meOriginally posted by De|usi0n:but look at the world now...is there any virgin left?..... -
actually not all the girls engage in pre-martial sexOriginally posted by De|usi0n:but look at the world now...is there any virgin left?..... -
Hold on to your own rights. To give or not is all dependent on yourself. A guy who just have sex on their mind is one who does not commit. To make someone feel loved.. there are lotsa things that we can do other than sex. Love is mental..physical only helps in certain way.