Why are some guys so cheapskate?

• winky

  25 Apr 03, 21:18

  some guys are so cheapskate. they can't afford to go geylang for prostitutes, so they find their ex gf for a free session of sex.
  
  how to deal with such guys if you are a girl?
• Buaya Royal

  25 Apr 03, 21:20

  if i were a girl, i would make sure i get AIDS so that he would get AIDS too
• *evanesence*

  25 Apr 03, 21:22

  Originally posted by winky:

  some guys are so cheapskate. they can't afford to go geylang for prostitutes, so they find their ex gf for a free session of sex.
  
  how to deal with such guys if you are a girl?

  Throw 20 bucks at him..and tell him maybe some "girl" at Changi might be more den happy to service him!
• MuGenPower

  25 Apr 03, 21:22

  Originally posted by winky:

  some guys are so cheapskate. they can't afford to go geylang for prostitutes, so they find their ex gf for a free session of sex.
  
  how to deal with such guys if you are a girl?

  Kick him in his balls ... this will prevent him from asking sex from other in future too
  
  
  
  
• lurker

  25 Apr 03, 21:22

  sex can be an emotional thing, not just physical lust
  sex with pros no emotional satisfaction mah
  some find their ex to satisfy their emotional needs lor
  which is worse than just to satisfy lust...
• evererin

  25 Apr 03, 21:23

  Haha,but the exs also so stupid to let them do it mah?
• winky

  25 Apr 03, 21:24

  Originally posted by lurker:

  sex can be an emotional thing, not just physical lust
  sex with pros no emotional satisfaction mah
  some find their ex to satisfy their emotional needs lor
  which is worse than just to satisfy lust...

  but they dun acknowledge their ex as anything more than a sex partner. they just treat it as a sex session.
  
  
• lurker

  25 Apr 03, 21:25

  Originally posted by evererin:

  Haha,but the exs also so stupid to let them do it mah?

  for some, it's a habit
  maybe other haven't gotten over their ex-bf and also have the emotional need
  dun forget girls have sex for love... if they still love their ex-bf, they are vulnerable to exploitation
• MuGenPower

  25 Apr 03, 21:25

  Originally posted by winky:

  but they dun acknowledge their ex as anything more than a sex partner. they just treat it as a sex session.
  
  

  The gal should turn him down mah .... why still insist of letting him have his ways
• Syusaku

  25 Apr 03, 21:25

  i've seen yer post in Agony liao..and i understand how u feel...
  
  no matter what..do not let this sad episode cloud your judgement of other guys..buck up and move on..and give a chance to those who deserve yer love
• winky

  25 Apr 03, 21:29

  Originally posted by lurker:

  for some, it's a habit
  maybe other haven't gotten over their ex-bf and also have the emotional need
  dun forget girls have sex for love... if they still love their ex-bf, they are vulnerable to exploitation

  ya. agree.
  and i'm the stupid girl who did that.
  but i dun want to be labelled as 'the stupid girl who give her ex free sex' anymore. once bitten twice shy.
• Buaya Royal

  25 Apr 03, 21:29

  Originally posted by winky:

  ya. agree.
  and i'm the stupid girl who did that.
  but i dun want to be labelled as 'the stupid girl who give her ex free sex' anymore. once bitten twice shy.

  seriously, IMHO, ur just foolish
• |-|05|

  25 Apr 03, 21:30

  tell ah ma she will tell u to chop chop!
• MuGenPower

  25 Apr 03, 21:31

  Originally posted by winky:

  ya. agree.
  and i'm the stupid girl who did that.
  but i dun want to be labelled as 'the stupid girl who give her ex free sex' anymore. once bitten twice shy.

  Clap clap... finally you are enlightened
• winky

  25 Apr 03, 21:32

  Originally posted by Syusaku:

  i've seen yer post in Agony liao..and i understand how u feel...
  
  no matter what..do not let this sad episode cloud your judgement of other guys..buck up and move on..and give a chance to those who deserve yer love

  its so miserable. i loved him, so i gave him. but all he wanted was some thirty minutes of pleasures and thats it. he knows i still love him, and made use of me, knowing that i will let him have it. what a bastard.
  
  
• evererin

  25 Apr 03, 21:33

  Originally posted by lurker:

  for some, it's a habit
  maybe other haven't gotten over their ex-bf and also have the emotional need
  dun forget girls have sex for love... if they still love their ex-bf, they are vulnerable to exploitation

  Is it?Dunno lar....I mean,if they agreed,we cant say anything de mah..rite?Its their own body lor....But girls always get disadv de..so dun do it lor....Me feel tat guys shldnt sex de lar.....after marry lor...
  
  TAMADE me very de conservative.....must change...
  
  Ok,Just Do It
• winky

  25 Apr 03, 21:34

  Originally posted by Buaya Royal:

  seriously, IMHO, ur just foolish

  yes i know i am foolish. everybody at some point of time will do foolish things. at least its not too late that i realise it at the beginning rather than i realise it only after some time.
• whiteillum

  25 Apr 03, 21:34

  Originally posted by winky:

  its so miserable. i loved him, so i gave him. but all he wanted was some thirty minutes of pleasures and thats it. he knows i still love him, and made use of me, knowing that i will let him have it. what a bastard.
  
  

  onli make a mistake once
• boy in blues

  25 Apr 03, 21:40

  Originally posted by *evanesence*:

  Throw 20 bucks at him..and tell him maybe some "girl" at Changi might be more den happy to service him!

  i don't think they want him even if they get paid...
• winky

  25 Apr 03, 21:42

  can i vent my anger here??
  damn angry. with myself and with that guy. he didn't even gave me a good one.
• bluejeans

  25 Apr 03, 21:44

  Originally posted by winky:

  some guys are so cheapskate. they can't afford to go geylang for prostitutes, so they find their ex gf for a free session of sex.
  
  how to deal with such guys if you are a girl?

  reject him, dont let a moment of weakness just because he is your ex that you make a serious and grave mistake..
  
• winky

  25 Apr 03, 21:45

  Originally posted by bluejeans:

  reject him, dont let a moment of weakness just because he is your ex that you make a serious and grave mistake..
  

  made that mistake already. now how?
• MuGenPower

  25 Apr 03, 21:45

  Originally posted by winky:

  can i vent my anger here??
  damn angry. with myself and with that guy. he didn't even gave me a good one.

  vent lor .... vent all you want ah ....
  
  but got 1 think i can't stop laughing abt .... is that u said he didn't give u a good 1 ....
  
• boy in blues

  25 Apr 03, 21:47

  Originally posted by winky:

  its so miserable. i loved him, so i gave him. but all he wanted was some thirty minutes of pleasures and thats it. he knows i still love him, and made use of me, knowing that i will let him have it. what a bastard.
  
  

  don't worry about a sad loser like him..too dumb to appreciate a girl who trust & love him..you are so lucky to lose that loser early..
• Master -_-

  25 Apr 03, 21:47

  Originally posted by winky:

  can i vent my anger here??
  damn angry. with myself and with that guy. he didn't even gave me a good one.

  eh, you want people to pity you or laught at you?
  Now, i wun take ur plight seriously