To guys....
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Would you mind if your gf is a prositute before?
(before she knows you) But already stop doing that now...
Will you have a different view towards her?
Will you treat her differently? -
To say I wun mind is crap. But I will need to noe her reason . Guess nobody is born to be a prostitute.Originally posted by floppy_zee:Would you mind if your gf is a prositute before?
(before she knows you) But already stop doing that now...
Will you have a different view towards her?
Will you treat her differently? -
Gee... that's almost as bad as asking if anyone would mind if your partner was an agent working for the government as a hired assassin. I'm not sure if you'll get genuine replies but I don't see myself doing that for now. But love does make people blind, doesn't it? Chuckle...
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the truth is guy do mine...especially if u keep it from them...they do not want to be the last to know
but not all guys can accept that cos most singaporeans are brought up with an oriental mind set so they onli want "pure" gals to be their gf or wives....
Which is dumb cos guys fool around outside too.
i can accept out but just dun let me find out by myself ....
i hate pple keeping secerts from me
the past is what used to be so it does not matter.
i wanna concentrate on creating a future with her as my core...the centre of my world. -
I agree wif Xian here... but there r 2 sides of a story... maybe MORE sides?Originally posted by floppy_zee:Would you mind if your gf is a prositute before?
(before she knows you) But already stop doing that now...
Will you have a different view towards her?
Will you treat her differently?
Still need to see her side of da story... Y ask da question?
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i will not ask y...if she is ready than she will tell me....if she believes that i love her deep enuff...than she will be confident to tell me the truth n not some sugar coated stories.... it will in one way or another influence the relationship,but if u really love the gal...u will be glad that she choose to tell u aout her past as she does not want u to regret loving her.Originally posted by loneryu00:I agree wif Xian here... but there r 2 sides of a story... maybe MORE sides?
Still need to see her side of da story... Y ask da question?
to love someone...is to take the entire package,the past,the present,the bad habits,the good points n make it work.
everyone has a past n somethings they do not want pple to know n when she thrust u with such a major secert,it means u really mean alot to her.i will only love her more for her honesty as it's so easy to make up stories to make urself look good..... but as times goes by....everything will be revealed.... pretending to be someone u are not is not the best thing to do in a relationship. -
Excellent quote. There would be a reason for her to be one.Originally posted by xian89:Guess nobody is born to be a prostitute. -
I will not mind if she tells me the truth..If I really like the Gal very much...But I muz admit that I need some time to accept the fact that she was a Pro. loh.
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To say that I don't mind at all would be a lie but it would still depends.
Can you imagine that one of her former customer is someone you know? If she is tricked or forced into such service and have stopped long ago and only in the business for a short while then I think I can still try to work things out.
But then if I'm truely... deeply... madly in love with her... I will still treat as who she is when I know her... and love her just as much.. or even more. -
Totally agree...the thoughts of ur gf sleeping and having sex with other guys is torturing but everyone have a past.if u love ur gf,u will accept her past.we have our past and i'm sure she may mind us having diferent sex partnerbefore.if she is brave enough to confess abt her past,we should help her get over her past.More over,they are more experience and more safety concious(wun get pregnent easily).one stone kill two birdOriginally posted by harryryan:the truth is guy do mine...especially if u keep it from them...they do not want to be the last to know
but not all guys can accept that cos most singaporeans are brought up with an oriental mind set so they onli want "pure" gals to be their gf or wives....
Which is dumb cos guys fool around outside too.
i can accept out but just dun let me find out by myself ....
i hate pple keeping secerts from me
the past is what used to be so it does not matter.
i wanna concentrate on creating a future with her as my core...the centre of my world. -
i dun think i can accept this part of ur thinking....she was a pro does not necessarary mean she needs to have sex w u....remember she's ur gf....not ur wife.Originally posted by turbo79:More over,they are more experience and more safety concious(wun get pregnent easily).one stone kill two bird
i lived overseas for acouple of years n i have seen the weirdest things... father bringing kid to take drugs together.... brither having sex with sister..... so maybe i am abit westernised in my thinking....
but truth is i cannot stand pple who used the past to get what they want.it's despeciable....
sorry if i misunderstood ya in any way but girl friends are meant to be pampered n not only looked upon as safe n personalised sex objects....doesn't work that way for me. -
the question is a difficult one to answer..
frankly, you wouldn't know the answer until you are really faced with the situation..
it also depends on how her experience working as a prostitute has changed her mindset about life..
so it's easy say, "if she is truthful, i'll accept".. it's another story when the truth stares right into your face when she reveals her past.. i.e. it's easy to talk the walk, it's harder to walk the talk -
Hmm.. guys nowadays are still sensible after all...
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u talking about me huh dear?Originally posted by floppy_zee:Hmm.. guys nowadays are still sensible after all... -
ops...too excited to see floppy so double posted...Originally posted by floppy_zee:Hmm.. guys nowadays are still sensible after all... -
Harry... thrusting U wif her deepest secrets DO mean U mean alot to her... but NOT necessarily "love"... I once had a "fren" who chat wif me daily in irc... she told me virtually everything abt her... as I told her mine lah... I tot like U, I "loved" her alot... it was only when I asked her "can we be together"... she denied... infact I knew she lied to me on some stuffs to... I have no idea y she lied... but since she willing to tell me wat happened to her "daily"... I supposed she could tell me y she lied... but no...Originally posted by harryryan:i will not ask y...if she is ready than she will tell me....if she believes that i love her deep enuff...than she will be confident to tell me the truth n not some sugar coated stories.... it will in one way or another influence the relationship,but if u really love the gal...u will be glad that she choose to tell u aout her past as she does not want u to regret loving her.
to love someone...is to take the entire package,the past,the present,the bad habits,the good points n make it work.
everyone has a past n somethings they do not want pple to know n when she thrust u with such a major secert,it means u really mean alot to her.i will only love her more for her honesty as it's so easy to make up stories to make urself look good..... but as times goes by....everything will be revealed.... pretending to be someone u are not is not the best thing to do in a relationship.
I have no idea on YOUR case, & I dun wanna rub in... I juz wanna tell u my story & READ MY SIGGIE BELOW...... -
i know wat u mean...there are only a few pple i thrust completely...so no worries.... i might look dumb....bu in real life...i'm ....even dumber.... lolz
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i believe trust is spelt without the letter 'h'
it makes a whole lot of difference between 'to thrust' and 'trust' -
If she's worth it, I won't mind....Originally posted by floppy_zee:Would you mind if your gf is a prositute before?
(before she knows you) But already stop doing that now...
Will you have a different view towards her?
Will you treat her differently? -
how do you dictate worth?Originally posted by Devil1976:If she's worth it, I won't mind.... -
depends on why she did it
if she did it 'cos she is paying her way thru sch or to take care of her veri sick family, then she has all my respects and i will relieve her of the burden.. provided i love her and she loves me
but if she did it cos she wants more branded stuff, or to support a drug habit.. then i will have to think twice..
guess for me its reallie a case to case basis
bottomline, we must be ready to give others a second chance, because by doing that, we are giving ourselves a chance too..
think abt it -
agreedOriginally posted by whiteillum:depends on why she did it
if she did it 'cos she is paying her way thru sch or to take care of her veri sick family, then she has all my respects and i will relieve her of the burden.. provided i love her and she loves me
but if she did it cos she wants more branded stuff, or to support a drug habit.. then i will have to think twice..
guess for me its reallie a case to case basis
bottomline, we must be ready to give others a second chance, because by doing that, we are giving ourselves a chance too..
think abt it
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Would you mind if your gf is a prositute before?
(before she knows you) But already stop doing that now...
Well I will mind but just a bit I mean she already stopped doing it after all.
Will you have a different view towards her?
As long as I like her character I doubt I would have any different view
Will you treat her differently?
Well Sex would be a no for awhile. U know serving a lot of people can make one exposed to dangerous diseases. So thats probably the only thing. -
y will u a prositute??
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-______-''''Originally posted by sillyme:i believe trust is spelt without the letter 'h'
it makes a whole lot of difference between 'to thrust' and 'trust'
U win......
As many said here... a female bcums a pros not bcoz she like it... but its under circumstances... U tink gals like to have sex wif diff guys meh? some more all kinds of WEIRD guys...?
pros r oso humans U noe? they have feelings & wanna be loved. but they r looked upon as dirty, low grade, etc, etc... any male wld wanna marry a pros meh? Unless he TRUELY loves her, dats a diff story...
Anywae... y ask dis, Floppy?