Do women their hide sexual history?
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Do women hide their sexual history when they get together in a proper relationship? Like one-night stands, group sex, phone sex, etc?
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they keep secret most things although when in the relationship they may find chance to reveal some
though not all =)
some things better left unsaid -
they wan to act virgin
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does her past matters that much? anyways there're some stuff i would rather not know...
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i think its nuthing to be shy about...
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if she's ur gf...she most probably won't want to u 2 know that she has been sleeping around....total human logic.
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Ha... better to be in the dark then know everything. Then every single time you are free, then you will think of the stuff she did with other guys and whether she will do again behind you.............. hee
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it's gross to know your gf had slept ard like a slut. Worse is when your guy family or relatives had also slept with her many times whether flings or ONS.. See if you guys really open minded or not on this matter..well for me, I cant tolerate such openness.
Well you lot really brag alot...but when the same situation really falls on you, hahah..i want to see your reaction..!! To be told by someone one..ie. friends or family or relatives that she used to sleep around..wow..u feel the heat man....
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I dun mind anything.... If I love her, I wont mind....
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what the f*ck did you just say?Originally posted by cguy:it's gross to know your gf had slept ard like a slut. Worse is when your guy family or relatives had also slept with her many times whether flings or ONS.. See if you guys really open minded or not on this matter..well for me, I cant tolerate such openness.
Well you lot really brag alot...but when the same situation really falls on you, hahah..i want to see your reaction..!! To be told by someone one..ie. friends or family or relatives that she used to sleep around..wow..u feel the heat man....
hey man you gotta go for some grammar lessons i think... -
Heh, maybe you dun really love ur gf that much afterall if you MIND soooooo MUCH abt her past... Maybe she was "young" and was ignorant enough to make some mistakes in her past... Cant u just let go if she has decided to be YOUR gf and only yours?Originally posted by cguy:it's gross to know your gf had slept ard like a slut. Worse is when your guy family or relatives had also slept with her many times whether flings or ONS.. See if you guys really open minded or not on this matter..well for me, I cant tolerate such openness.
Well you lot really brag alot...but when the same situation really falls on you, hahah..i want to see your reaction..!! To be told by someone one..ie. friends or family or relatives that she used to sleep around..wow..u feel the heat man....
Hmmmm dun mean to offend but u sound like a shallow guy....
and by the way u kept saying USED to sleep ard and everything else in past tense... hmmm.... if u mind so much... y be together with her???!!!!! -
I agree very much....Originally posted by Arena:I dun mind anything.... If I love her, I wont mind....
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i'm sure everyone have their own history dat they will want to keep to themselves, including urself... if she wants to say, she will tell u...
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hei... if he said "this was my case!"...Originally posted by burt:what the f*ck did you just say?
hey man you gotta go for some grammar lessons i think...
tsk tsk tks..... u just sadden a sad soul... -
Seriously I will mind her past.I'm not so heroic as some of ya to be able to accept her cos I really love her and all that bullshit.
If she has been sleeping around then she's just not the girl I'm looking for.Simple as that.
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well said.....Agree with u....well....the other half might not wanna to know either...Originally posted by Imposter:they keep secret most things although when in the relationship they may find chance to reveal some
though not all =)
some things better left unsaid
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Do you mind sleeping with gfs before u marry her???Originally posted by cguy:it's gross to know your gf had slept ard like a slut. Worse is when your guy family or relatives had also slept with her many times whether flings or ONS.. See if you guys really open minded or not on this matter..well for me, I cant tolerate such openness.
Well you lot really brag alot...but when the same situation really falls on you, hahah..i want to see your reaction..!! To be told by someone one..ie. friends or family or relatives that she used to sleep around..wow..u feel the heat man.... -
hmm.. actually any normal guy would mind. you won't want a indecent girlfriend right. imagine she bed how many guys before.but if the girl confides in u n tell you all those things she did.. guys look. this takes up real courage ok..
i think if you really like her you should try to help her get over all these. cuz' she must be so hurt once. she really love you then will tell you mah. if not u think wat. go around tell people meh. if you really love her build up her confidence again lar! -
i dun blame the gal
cos somethings u jus wana put behind u
but then like i have said b4
u love the gal
not her history
so there -
Everyone has a past, and there is nothing to be ashame about.
Loving a person ain't juz worrying about his/her past but should be worrying about things in current and future...
Com'on....who dun make mistakes, we are afterall humans and not saints...What matters most between two person is being able to be frank and communicate with their heart. Everyone has their little secrets, telling it or not to ur partner is a choice of individual. But bear in mind, "paper cannot wrap a fire"...It is worst to discover it thru someone else than to him/her personally. -
History is part of her dude!Originally posted by whiteillum:i dun blame the gal
cos somethings u jus wana put behind u
but then like i have said b4
u love the gal
not her history
so there
Contradiction! -
I think most gals will not tell everything (it's natural. Who wants to go around telling sexual historys)
For me, if my gf wants to tell me...I listen and believe. Don't want to tell me so be it. Percentage of love will still remains. -
best is dont ask, cause if she dont tell u, u anyhow imagine, tell u, u baysong, worse is u know her ex!! wa lah... best dont ask and pretend nothing happen. dont think she'll say if u dont probe into it..
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yes, Yes and YES we hide almost everything my friend not just sexual history! didn't you know that women are the best liars we even lie to ourself!Originally posted by swallowed:Do women hide their sexual history when they get together in a proper relationship? Like one-night stands, group sex, phone sex, etc? -
Dun mind if a ger replies over here ya?
Actuali when i was wif my bf i oso wanted v much 2 ask him, but didnt haf e courage 2... Until a few wks ago i msg him n ask him if he's a virgin b4 we did tat thing together. His ans was NO. Maybe he's open or wat loh, but i felt disappointed somehow... He stil said he oso dun mind if im not a virgin. But b4 i gave it 2 him he knew tat i was loh... Den stil sound like i lied 2 him or wat.
But i nv regret givin my 1st time 2 him coz i reali love him alot. Wat i regret is askin him tat ques... I agree itz better not 2 noe loh. But i reali reali felt disappointed loh. Now itz oso hard 2 find a guy who's a virgin lah... Haiz... Suan le... Im tryin 2 4get it n try not 2 let it reflect on our current relationship. As u ppl said, everyone's got a past, but wat matters most is e present loh...