u dun get wat i mean....im saying previously u say u whd nv betray ur gf.,..tat u whd nv shag another ger....Originally posted by kawa:Nope it's not childish but it only reflects the moral value, discipline and culture instilled and inculcate into u since young by ur parents, teachers and elders...
I can say that remaining faithful is a form of moral value, so far as i can c from my parents, relatives and gf parents.
Oh.....didn't noe that 99% will mind...so I rare priceless treasure lor....Oh...come come, gers....a treasure available for grabs.....Originally posted by SuN^sEt:hmm......gers dun mean to hide...but bear this in mind will guys mind..and answer is 99 % mind...even if they say they dun mind...
and wat and when is the best time to tell their partners.... noo definate asnwer.... depends alot on ur relationship and situation.....
so just say in appropriate time..... and u feel needed....
If reali got dis guy i'll b tempted lah... But most importantly, is e FEELIN there? If u got no feelins 4 tat person, no matter how gd he is oso no use... Moreover, im now v commited 2 my guy... In my eyes, nobody can b compared 2 him coz my feelins 4 him is there... So no matter watz his past, thou i'll mind, i'll try my best 2 4get. As ppl here said, u love somebody 4 wat n who he is, not his past...Originally posted by kawa:To ShanCai
That's correct Miss Shan Cai. But will u submit urself to a guy who is super good than ur bf?
What i mean that mayb ur bf has rating 6, this guy got 9. He's got money, buy u small gifts and flowers everyday, see u at work everyday as he's ur colleague, got car to send u home, go makan together where he offers to pay. He's a gentleman and dont mind that u r not a virgin.
Moroever, u feels that ur love with ur bf has died off. And he really listen to u when u confide in him and u are attracted to his good looks and good body and character(loving and caring).
Qn: Would u break off with ur current bf?
If u ask me this qn, I would be a bit moved, tempted but i yet to met this case myself, so really unable to say that i would be steadfast with the relationship of me and my gf.
y shld ger feel uneasy at guys's being not virgin lehz?! i mean is like virgin and not virgin oso not much change mahz.. but for ger is diff mahz.. the diameter of the hole tends to get bigger if she not virgn.. soo naturally guys will mind lorOriginally posted by shan_cai:Dun mind if a ger replies over here ya?
Actuali when i was wif my bf i oso wanted v much 2 ask him, but didnt haf e courage 2... Until a few wks ago i msg him n ask him if he's a virgin b4 we did tat thing together. His ans was NO. Maybe he's open or wat loh, but i felt disappointed somehow... He stil said he oso dun mind if im not a virgin. But b4 i gave it 2 him he knew tat i was loh... Den stil sound like i lied 2 him or wat.
But i nv regret givin my 1st time 2 him coz i reali love him alot. Wat i regret is askin him tat ques... I agree itz better not 2 noe loh. But i reali reali felt disappointed loh. Now itz oso hard 2 find a guy who's a virgin lah... Haiz... Suan le... Im tryin 2 4get it n try not 2 let it reflect on our current relationship. As u ppl said, everyone's got a past, but wat matters most is e present loh...
Originally posted by chaicka:WEll brudder i cant agree more...
Doing wif Pros is not [b]Making Love, it's pure Having Sex.
There is a great difference. I dun noe about other guys, but I can SWEAR the feeling of making love is never comparable with having sex...even if the ger has great tits, nice butt, good skills....nothing compares to LOVE MAKING.[/b]
Originally posted by shan_cai:Hahahaha i wish u all e best...
So my final ans...
[b]I wont break wif my bf...[/b]
Originally posted by fyre_pixie:y shld ger feel uneasy at guys's being not virgin lehz?! i mean is like virgin and not virgin oso not much change mahz.. but for ger is diff mahz.. the diameter of the hole tends to get bigger if she not virgn.. soo naturally guys will mind lor
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u are very shallow. u're only talking abt physical stuffs but not emotions. u're saying as if it's alright for guys to be NOT a virgin but WRONG for a girl to be a non-virgin. am i sensing double standards here. >=(