No man r perfect. that r human nature. There will forever a needle in your heart!Originally posted by soulness:then if u gf kena raped then u ask her go and die loh
Don't have that 'past' for which you are refering to, hence would mind her past. I think one should get into relationships with the hope that it will lead to marriage one day and not just for kicks. In that view that person with whom you are going out with would one day become your wife. There's no way I can tolerate the thought of her with other men for a lifetime.Originally posted by Xander:do u expect her to mind ur past then... hmm... enuff said...
But wouldn't that contradict the fact that a relationship should be based on trust. If a person were to lie about his/her past and the other party were to find out about it, wouldn't that make things worse? If such a situation were to befall me one day (cross my fingers and pray real hard that it won't), I would appreciate it if the girl just tell me and let me decide whether to continue the relationship or not.Originally posted by Xander:well.. if we do mind... its either we carry on da relationship n spend da rest of da lifetime tryin to get over with it.. or we move on.. n stil spend da rest of our life lookin for 1 without a past...
so best thing is.. keep ur lips tight.. if ur other party is a not-so-forgivable type![]()
Only yes to 2 & 3... how loose can she get?! If she can any how have sex wif a guy, how can I trust her? Be realistic ppl, if U have a stead (guy OR gal) who can have sex wif any1 B4 meeting U, can U guarantee he/she/it WONT have it when U 2 r together? Theres no trust or faith in dis R/S!!!Originally posted by Christy:If a guy find out his gf past, like the following:
1) His gf lost her virgin at a young age
2) His gf had sexual relationships with all her past bfs
3) His gf had ONS before
4) His gf was molested or raped
Does he mind all these? Will he treat her the same as before he knows her past? Will he have a sexual relationship with her just because he thinks she is loose?
Originally posted by Christy:If a guy find out his gf past, like the following:
1) His gf lost her virgin at a young age
2) His gf had sexual relationships with all her past bfs
3) His gf had ONS before
4) His gf was molested or raped
Does he mind all these? Will he treat her the same as before he knows her past? Will he have a sexual relationship with her just because he thinks she is loose?
hmm i think the norm is guys wan to have sex with their gfs yet want a virgin wife sighzzOriginally posted by Christy:Looks liket to that guys wants to have sex with their gfs yet want their gf to be virgins.
Agree! Ask the guys to dreamzzz on then...Originally posted by Berlinda:hmm i think the norm is guys wan to have sex with their gfs yet want a virgin wife sighzz![]()