Your Girlfriends

• downboy

  2 Jul 03, 17:07

  Do you worry about your gf's safety alot these days? i see the rape and molest and whatever shit cases like alot these days.
  Actually i dun have the habit of sending my gf home. its only when its early around 8pm tt i send her home. she scold me sial. she say 8+pm i send her home, 11+pm (when its more dangerous) i dun send. we are having a little tiff now. she say i sending her home for the sake of it. cos the main purpose is to ensure her safety yet the later the time is, i wont send her back.
  You people think i should send her home whether its early or late, whether im free or not?
• edel

  2 Jul 03, 17:08

  send her home esp. when it's late. dun me farny lah. quite obvious right? try your best but she oso canot expect 100% mah.
• leexiancikevin

  2 Jul 03, 17:10

  i always sent her home.. no matter its early or late... but i will try to sent her home earlier lahhh so i have more time at home for myself and familiar
• the Bear

  2 Jul 03, 17:10

  you don't "send" someone home.. that's a wrong use of the word "send"
  
  you accompany, you escort, you bring her home... you do not "send her home".. sending someone home is what you have done... telling her to go home without accompanying her...
  
  and for the question... escort her home.. it is the gentlemanly and correct thing to do...
• leexiancikevin

  2 Jul 03, 17:18

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  you don't "send" someone home.. that's a wrong use of the word "send"
  
  you accompany, you escort, you bring her home... you do not "send her home".. sending someone home is what you have done... telling her to go home without accompanying her...
  
  and for the question... escort her home.. it is the gentlemanly and correct thing to do...

  ok lah.. escort escort loh...
• Fanatical_Knight

  2 Jul 03, 17:25

  Trouble is whenever you offer to be an escort when its late, the girls will always refuse... sometimes i wonder if they really don't want you to or if they are just shy or what. Girls what are your views?
• wendy81

  2 Jul 03, 17:38

  Originally posted by Fanatical_Knight:

  Trouble is whenever you offer to be an escort when its late, the girls will always refuse... sometimes i wonder if they really don't want you to or if they are just shy or what. Girls what are your views?

  maybe they wanna meet somebody else after parting wif u? tts at least wat i do last time...
• downboy

  2 Jul 03, 17:44

  Originally posted by Fanatical_Knight:

  Trouble is whenever you offer to be an escort when its late, the girls will always refuse... sometimes i wonder if they really don't want you to or if they are just shy or what. Girls what are your views?

  i think its either you are not the bf.
  you not yandao
  or the most possible one is..
  they dun wan to trouble you to take them home
  but there are so many cases whereby the girls tell you not to send them home, but they are yearning for it inside
• the Bear

  2 Jul 03, 17:46

  uhh.. this is his girl...
  
  i would... her safety is paramount at that time..
  
  

  Originally posted by wendy81:

  maybe they wanna meet somebody else after parting wif u? tts at least wat i do last time...

• fyre_pixie

  2 Jul 03, 17:53

  Originally posted by Fanatical_Knight:

  Trouble is whenever you offer to be an escort when its late, the girls will always refuse... sometimes i wonder if they really don't want you to or if they are just shy or what. Girls what are your views?

  we just dun wanna rtouble our boyfriends. and if it's late, the guy will hafta take a cab home. so ex leh.
• downboy

  2 Jul 03, 17:54

  Originally posted by wendy81:

  maybe they wanna meet somebody else after parting wif u? tts at least wat i do last time...

  if lidat den explain to the guy i think the guy would be happy to leave you with frenz too
  at least its safe with frenz
• leexiancikevin

  2 Jul 03, 17:55

  Originally posted by fyre_pixie:

  we just dun wanna rtouble our boyfriends. and if it's late, the guy will hafta take a cab home. so ex leh.

  i rather pay $20 then put my gf in danger... u dunno those bian tais.... they can do anything one..
• wendy81

  2 Jul 03, 17:57

  Originally posted by downboy:

  if lidat den explain to the guy i think the guy would be happy to leave you with frenz too
  at least its safe with frenz

  ehhhh... i was supposed to meet guy fren... and depending on ur type of bf lah.. if he was to noe that his gf is meeting a guy fren so late think SOME bf would make a big fuss or feel sour.
• leexiancikevin

  2 Jul 03, 17:58

  Originally posted by wendy81:

  ehhhh... i was supposed to meet guy fren... and depending on ur type of bf lah.. if he was to noe that his gf is meeting a guy fren so late think SOME bf would make a big fuss or feel sour.

  ya ya not only feel sour.. i will feel like killing tat guy fren too...
• the Bear

  2 Jul 03, 17:59

  it's okay... your guy will want to.. your safety is more important than numbers in the bank
  
  

  Originally posted by fyre_pixie:

  we just dun wanna rtouble our boyfriends. and if it's late, the guy will hafta take a cab home. so ex leh.

• birdbird

  2 Jul 03, 18:06

  for me is a must lor.no IF n BUT from the ladies cos safety is more impt.touch wood anything happen,i will be cursing myself for the rest of my life.
• downboy

  2 Jul 03, 18:28

  Originally posted by birdbird:

  for me is a must lor.no IF n BUT from the ladies cos safety is more impt.touch wood anything happen,i will be cursing myself for the rest of my life.

  ur gf is a lucky girl haha. But what if tmr i gotta wake up earli. late liao still send her home? but if it so happen that something happens to her on this nite just cos of this, will it be my fault?
• wendy81

  2 Jul 03, 18:35

  Originally posted by leexiancikevin:

  ya ya not only feel sour.. i will feel like killing tat guy fren too...

  
• wendy81

  2 Jul 03, 18:36

  Originally posted by downboy:

  ur gf is a lucky girl haha. But what if tmr i gotta wake up earli. late liao still send her home? but if it so happen that something happens to her on this nite just cos of this, will it be my fault?

  seems like u are really a new birdie in r/s ah... of coz it will be ur fault partially and to others maybe totally ur fault... u will be cursing urself for the rest of ur life if anything bad is gonna befall on her.
• FiRe_BLaDe

  2 Jul 03, 18:42

  i used to walk her to her hm or at least to the floor she live.tink its more gentleman too to it & its her safety loh.
  no matter wat time,i will still walk her hm unless i got something on & its still in the afternoon or evening where sun is still around.
  when we watch mid nite movies,i will do the same 2.then take another cab aft tat.
  however,if she living too far,eg.jurong
  u cant expect mi too send her dao jurong then go hm again.
  by then my pocket 1 big hole liao cos mi living somewhere central.
  bt will ask her to call mi once she's hm loh.
  haiz...however its all past.wan to do nw oso cant.
• MarkGe

  2 Jul 03, 18:53

  Originally posted by Fanatical_Knight:

  Trouble is whenever you offer to be an escort when its late, the girls will always refuse... sometimes i wonder if they really don't want you to or if they are just shy or what. Girls what are your views?

  Hey...i agree very much, whenever i wanted to escort my gf home ard 6pm-8pm, she would always ask me to go home first...unless its ard 10+ like that then she would let me escort her home...wats the difference since its only like 2 hrs apart...or so... we worry for them mah...why can't they understand???
• *evanesence*

  2 Jul 03, 18:59

  My boyfren always sends me home...
  As for guy frens... some would offer to, but I would decline since they are not my boyfren, I dun see why they are oblidged to send me home...
  However, some would insist on sending you home, so u ant really do much about that...
  But be wary, some might have an ulterior motive for sending u home...
• downboy

  2 Jul 03, 19:03

  Originally posted by FiRe_BLaDe:

  i used to walk her to her hm or at least to the floor she live.tink its more gentleman too to it & its her safety loh.
  no matter wat time,i will still walk her hm unless i got something on & its still in the afternoon or evening where sun is still around.
  when we watch mid nite movies,i will do the same 2.then take another cab aft tat.
  however,if she living too far,eg.jurong
  u cant expect mi too send her dao jurong then go hm again.
  by then my pocket 1 big hole liao cos mi living somewhere central.
  bt will ask her to call mi once she's hm loh.
  haiz...however its all past.wan to do nw oso cant.

  yah she live in batok i live in redhill. tts why i asking if im busy the next morning should i still send her home? but her house there got rape and murder case before. haizz i think i will send her home everyday liao. really bu fang xing
• edLow

  2 Jul 03, 19:10

  If i went out with private transports, I will usually send my gal frds (whether it's gf or normal gal frds) home if we party until too late. But if she had her own transportation back, I will usually request her to msg me to let me noe she reach home safely.
  
  If I'm on public transports tat day, I will usually try to end the date/outing early so I can see her home lor. And if she think it's safe for her to go back at tat hr, I will just agree with tat. But i will ask her to msg me when she reach home safely.
• edLow

  2 Jul 03, 19:12

  Originally posted by downboy:

  yah she live in batok i live in redhill. tts why i asking if im busy the next morning should i still send her home? but her house there got rape and murder case before. haizz i think i will send her home everyday liao. really bu fang xing

  redhill and batok isnt far. try experiencing it when u have a gf staying in boon lay and u stay in pasir ris.. This is then problematic!