is oral sex "essential" during secual intercourse?
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ive read n heard abt people having oral sex to stimulate the guy... is it really necessary?
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for me its not neccessary... but if she does.. it will be a bonus...Originally posted by fyre_pixie:ive read n heard abt people having oral sex to stimulate the guy... is it really necessary? -
simple answer...
just ask ur self if u need to drinl water when u eating...
some pple do....some dun...it's a matter of choice....some can just eat without drinking
some cannot
u can drink without eating also mah...
u get wat i trying to say? -
let me answer honestly for MOST men, YES!!!Originally posted by fyre_pixie:ive read n heard abt people having oral sex to stimulate the guy... is it really necessary? 
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quite cheem but i think i understand. just that sometimes stumble acroos porn. then it'll always show people having oral sex... -.-Originally posted by harryryan:simple answer...
just ask ur self if u need to drinl water when u eating...
some pple do....some dun...it's a matter of choice....some can just eat without drinking
some cannot
u can drink without eating also mah...
u get wat i trying to say? -
HUH... wahlau sure anot. coz seriously i find it disgusting. i cant imagine myself putting a dick in my mouth. *pukes*Originally posted by keisha:let me answer honestly for MOST men, YES!!! 
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Originally posted by fyre_pixie:ive read n heard abt people having oral sex to stimulate the guy... is it really necessary?
no choice loh..who teach them everyday pah4 chiu2 ceng3?..cannot RISE to the occasion. -
Originally posted by fyre_pixie:HUH... wahlau sure anot. coz seriously i find it disgusting. i cant imagine myself putting a dick in my mouth. *pukes* bite the sicko! he will do anything for you to let go.
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ger, practise makes perfect..heheOriginally posted by fyre_pixie:HUH... wahlau sure anot. coz seriously i find it disgusting. i cant imagine myself putting a dick in my mouth. *pukes*
well, i take tis as a way of showing affection for the man u love lor, really..it should not be disgusting cos u love the guy mah. of cos i'm not saying every guy u are with also gets the benefit of you doing for them lah. cheers
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LOL. lame leh u. bite. hahahahahOriginally posted by boy in blues: bite the sicko! he will do anything for you to let go. -
sex...no matter oral or e normal way is between 2 consenting individuals....emphasis on consenting.... if u force than it's rape liao lor...even if not...it means u dun respect ur partner...no good also....
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Originally posted by fyre_pixie:LOL. lame leh u. bite. hahahahah got lamerer than the guy who needs help to 'STAND' meh?
but seriously..my point is simply this..no decent guy would make his girl do something against her wishes. -
yea i agree.Originally posted by boy in blues: got lamerer than the guy who needs help to 'STAND' meh? but seriously..my point is simply this..no decent guy would make his girl do something against her wishes. 
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if u can't imagine urself doing it then dun... no one say muz do tat... dun care wat the guys say abt showing ur affection for him or watever... if u dun wanna do it dun do it... if he force u to do it then u should reconsider the position of ur relationship...Originally posted by fyre_pixie:HUH... wahlau sure anot. coz seriously i find it disgusting. i cant imagine myself putting a dick in my mouth. *pukes* -
true, my gf dun wan i wont push her down to do it for me alsoOriginally posted by boy in blues: got lamerer than the guy who needs help to 'STAND' meh? but seriously..my point is simply this..no decent guy would make his girl do something against her wishes. -
rubbish. doing it for him doesnt mean he will appreciate you love you more! dun be dumb girls. at least for me, i think its 2 different issues.
guys if you are still pushing your girls down to do it for you, please ask yourself whether she likes it anot. i can tell you 90% of girls wont like doing it. they are doing it just to please you, unwillingly. -
yah true coz for me i realy cant stand the thought abt it being in my mouth and wad if he suddenly shoots and all the sperms starts to swim inside my mouth. yucks gross!Originally posted by downboy:rubbish. doing it for him doesnt mean he will appreciate you love you more! dun be dumb girls. at least for me, i think its 2 different issues.
guys if you are still pushing your girls down to do it for you, please ask yourself whether she likes it anot. i can tell you 90% of girls wont like doing it. they are doing it just to please you, unwillingly. -
ohhhhhhhhh!!! BJ!!Originally posted by downboy:rubbish. doing it for him doesnt mean he will appreciate you love you more! dun be dumb girls. at least for me, i think its 2 different issues.
guys if you are still pushing your girls down to do it for you, please ask yourself whether she likes it anot. i can tell you 90% of girls wont like doing it. they are doing it just to please you, unwillingly.
turns my guy on more than ever wif fellatio job and both enjoy better in bed
different positions to doing a BJ
http://www.blowjobs-oral-sex-positions-tips.com/oral_sex_positions.html -
wow wendy81 is here! lol. anyway how to do a bj? just suck?Originally posted by wendy81:ohhhhhhhhh!!! BJ!! turns my guy on more than ever wif fulloptous (dunno how to spell) job and both enjoy better in bed -
If it pleases u to please him then its ok.... however, if he truly loves u & respects u, he wun make u do a BJ for him if U dun wish to..Originally posted by fyre_pixie:HUH... wahlau sure anot. coz seriously i find it disgusting. i cant imagine myself putting a dick in my mouth. *pukes* -
hahahaha!!!!Originally posted by fyre_pixie:wow wendy81 is here! lol. anyway how to do a bj? just suck?
It might seem like one person is getting all the pleasure as the other gives it-this is not true; each gives to the other and to himself: one gives his penis, the other his mouth; one gives his trust, the other his care; one feels the warm, caressing mouth, the other feels the strong, warm penis-and all are pleasing. It's true that the fellator doesn't always know what to do at first; he might be confused by old habits, cultural fears, or just inexperience-prolonged fellatio, like all human sex acts, must be learned, and learning anything takes time and patience.
There are lots of things to do with your mouth on his penis, like licking it all over, sucking on it, flicking your tongue tip rapidly across the top. One of the simplest and nicest actions is to move your mouth up and down on his penis. This is called sliding. Make a ring with your lips around the shaft. You'll need a thick padding of saliva to avoid irritation and give the richest, warmest sensations-don't be afraid of it, it's in the spirit of mud pies when you were a kid, and just a fun.You can slide slow or fast, and take as much penis into your mouth as you like. One neat action is to slide down as far as you can, and then draw his penis out slowly while sucking on it, like a peppermint stick.
For a more intense activity, you can slide faster and/or go deeper with your strokes. And for an even warmer closeness, you can also fondle and cup his balls in your hand, and add postillioning.
If you and he decide to bring him to orgasm, sliding is a nice way. If so, he'll probably appreciate stroking as fast and full as you can.
His experience will get more energetic and intense as he approaches orgasm. Your sliding will cause the most stimulation if you encircle your lips firmly around his penis and over the tips of your teeth. This makes a smooth, snug embrace, and helps avoid nips and amputations. Move your head up and down as if it were saying "yes," from just below the top of the penis to as far down as you like. Meanwhile, keep all the other parts of your mouth as relaxed as possible (actual "sucking" is not important here). As you go faster and deeper, get into a regular rhythm. If things start to get very excited, you can move from your shoulders and upper back instead of your neck, so that you're bouncing up and down with your whole upper body. By using these muscles you give more energy to your strokes and avoid fatigue better.
If you're wary of gagging, you can wrap one hand around the bottom half of the penis and slide on the top part. If so, it's nice to move your hand up and down too, doing it so that as your lips move up to the fraenum, your hand moves down to strike against the bone just above the penis (called the mons pubis) and also because your hand pulls the skin tight, which increases sensation. In fact, even if you don't use your hand too much, you can hold it at the base to pull the skin tight.
If you're really into giving every inch of goodness possible, you can add simultaneous sideways motions of your head. First, learn to do the sliding so it comes easily. Then, as you move up and down, rotate your head from side to side as if saying "no." The two motions need to be coordinated, so, for example, as you come up, turn your head from the center to the right, at the top turn your head to the left, and as you go down, back to the center. -
rite on!Originally posted by *evanesence*:If it pleases u to please him then its ok.... however, if he truly loves u & respects u, he wun make u do a BJ for him if U dun wish to.. -
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A good blow job includes lots of licking, mouthing and using your hands through out the whole act.With your hand lift his cock towards your mouth and hover your mouth over his cock. Breathe on it and then blow lightly on it. Lick him from his ass hole up towards to the tip of his cock. Keep your tongue wet. Lick from the head of his cock down to his ass hole. This will send him rocking and reeling in ecstasy.
Press your lips to his cock letting them slide down over the head of his cock. Place your tongue on the head and lick down to the corona. Flick your tongue all around the rim, paying special attention to the back of the penis. Cup his balls in your hand fondling them gently working back and forth between his ass hole and his balls. Use your tongue to flick, lick and flutter around the corona licking and lapping it from the base of the corona to the tip of his slit dragging your tongue while your lips are pressed firmly around his cock. Slowly repeat up and down motions over his head and corona with both your lips and tongue. Then with your lips sitting on the head and your hand around his cock, begin stroking his cock up and down from your lips to the base of his shaft. Repeat these techniques until he thrusts his penis into your mouth. These licking techniques can be done rapidly, slowly and vary in intensity, depending on how much pressure you want to apply with your tongue -
wa suddenly bj seems like some Uni sub. so "in depth"
