do you all think tat it is my fault??
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sibei fierce sia... den u baby come to me can ??Originally posted by Otakbun:mai lan jiao, she gd, gd my foot! neh big nia doesn't mean gd. i nv regretted to leave her.
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thanks wendy, i should say i am always impress by ur post. hahhaa, i alreadi forget abt it le.Originally posted by wendy81:
Now Now Now, i can summarise and say that theres no right and wrong in many of the things u mentioned and also in r.s i dun think either party should put the blame on each other or themselves. its juz being mutual at times. theres bound to haf ups and downs and i noe many of us only wanna see the ups. but many dun understand that the downs could be a turning point in our life. it helps one to improve alot and actually make us a better person in handling any situations but sad to say majority sees the down as something demoralising and many turns to depression, suicide or even dumping away their future ahead of them. In ur case, i cannot give u 100% guarantee that ur gal is already thinking of leaving u and gave u all the possible ugly reasons but no other more sensible reasons (maybe she did tell u more sensible reasons but u din tell us here though). And u din say she told u she dun love u anymore. We cannot rule out the possibility shes fallen in love wif another men whos more practical in life and is more matured in thinking and further can provide her a better life, STILL we cannot rule out the possibility she wanna u to change and hopefully for the better and shes keeping herself for u till u had shown changes finally she will come back to ya? of coz by the end of the day maybe u had found a better gal we shall leave tt aside yeah? for now u juz look ahead of ya see wats to be changed and try again to reconstruct ur life. I understand its not easy to get a job now but at least a PT job can get u some money for survivor. unlike me i am on NPL and yet i cannot get a job outside coz not many ppl would dare to employ workers wifout CPF. GOod luck to ya and hopefully in ur next post u could post something much more positively dude! (i noe abit too long winded but suddenly i tot of ur situation the same as a fren of mine) -
wat i say is true, nei big doesn't mean anything. relationship is the hearts tat count. if u think there is nt else to hold u back wat for still cling onto it.Originally posted by wendy81:sibei fierce sia... den u baby come to me can ?? wendy i am single le, got chance boh? -
im not single but im still availble LOL
otakbun u choose me lah.. dun choose wendy... hahaha -
eh brudder.. sian her back lah.. tell her to give u last chance.. but u must really prove urself to her.. dun buay swee... or u change for a period of them then u convert bad to old self.. dun do tat k.. if u change change for the good and change forever...
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My opinion is no one is at fault. What i think is that the chemistry just fizzled between you two that's all. When something is over, just let it be, no point trying to get to it again and if it doesn't work out, maybe have to go through the whole process all over again. I say that's not worth it. Time to move on, get to socializing again and maybe you can find someone who would accept you for who you are and stop trying to change you.
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Sorry ah leexiancikevin, my post kinda contradicting yoursOriginally posted by leexiancikevin:eh brudder.. sian her back lah.. tell her to give u last chance.. but u must really prove urself to her.. dun buay swee... or u change for a period of them then u convert bad to old self.. dun do tat k.. if u change change for the good and change forever...
but it's only my opinion lah so don't get offended yah? hehehhee -
haha no prob man.. we are just advisors... he is the ruler... lol he make his own decision after reading.. and thinking(hopefully)
i think im in love with otakbun... -
dots..............u think i wanna sian back then can get meh. i wanna sian she act dao, i also lan lan. if u r a gal i would consider but if i am not wrong u r not one. i am straight!!Originally posted by leexiancikevin:haha no prob man.. we are just advisors... he is the ruler... lol he make his own decision after reading.. and thinking(hopefully) i think im in love with otakbun... -
mai lan jiao? i dun sell lan jiao lei...haha~~Originally posted by Otakbun:mai lan jiao, she gd, gd my foot! neh big nia doesn't mean gd. i nv regretted to leave her.
haiz...dunnoe u lar...u made the choices...i oso nv say u regret mah...haiz.....wei he?
try to change urself lor....for her...for ur future?
but i dun understand lei...bball is a sport mah...den those games and stuffs u r invovled wif r not bad things mah....haiz...girls nowadays...
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hmmm...dun try to sian her back...sian is not a good word to use..Originally posted by Otakbun:dots..............u think i wanna sian back then can get meh. i wanna sian she act dao, i also lan lan. if u r a gal i would consider but if i am not wrong u r not one. i am straight!!
perhaps win her heart back is a better phrase to use...
otakbun...jia you! -
Cos girls want their bfs all by themselves.. they selfish ma.. cannot share out..Originally posted by aHGer^83:mai lan jiao? i dun sell lan jiao lei...haha~~
haiz...dunnoe u lar...u made the choices...i oso nv say u regret mah...haiz.....wei he?
try to change urself lor....for her...for ur future?
but i dun understand lei...bball is a sport mah...den those games and stuffs u r invovled wif r not bad things mah....haiz...girls nowadays... 
<-- example -
share your girlfriend among your friends then...
turnaround is fair play...Originally posted by leexiancikevin:Cos girls want their bfs all by themselves.. they selfish ma.. cannot share out.. <-- example -
cannot share out in terms of time.. not frens...Originally posted by the Bear:share your girlfriend among your friends then...
turnaround is fair play... -
share? eh...i din say anything abt sharing bf and gf lei...Originally posted by leexiancikevin:Cos girls want their bfs all by themselves.. they selfish ma.. cannot share out.. <-- example
he play bbal oso not play wif gers arz...play wif guys some more...
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u play game, she not say dun like..juz prefer u spend more time on serious things or accompany her when u free.. she so late home, instead of showing concern to her, u nag at her.. how she feel.. my gf oso work until late.. when i can, i go take her home.. or when she finished her work, i give her a call or sms her to see is she ok or not.. small little things lidat help.. well, dun brood over it liao brother, move on with life and try not to be so temper.. dun quarrel over small things, gers dun really like it i think.. becoz from wat i hear from u and my gf.. she broke up with her ex becoz her ex is like u, pick fights from small matters.. so i deduced its related.. i oso am a gamer and she dun really like it sometimes, becoz she wants some company.. so its something abt control and noe when to play ur game lor.. well, this is my view.. but like the others say.. no rite and no wrong, but since its over, u move on..
juz to encourage u, all the best to ur future and ur love life.. -
ai si ah! gen wo qiang nan ren!Originally posted by leexiancikevin:im not single but im still availble LOL otakbun u choose me lah.. dun choose wendy... hahaha
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see who got ben si lah..Originally posted by wendy81:ai si ah! gen wo qiang nan ren! 
*dig nose*
where is root beer cum btw... lol -
yucks u are so digusting to dig nose in public!!Originally posted by leexiancikevin:see who got ben si lah.. *dig nose* where is root beer cum btw... lol
ur root beer cum also muz wait for u to produce leh -
woah anything leh.. im the sole provider for ROOT BEER CUM..leh.. k lah i go off liao.. bye guysOriginally posted by wendy81:yucks u are so digusting to dig nose in public!!
ur root beer cum also muz wait for u to produce leh