Heart broken.....

• yongkiat

  9 Jul 03, 01:05

  today is our one year anniversary ..........
  yesterday.. we broke up...
  
  
• johyl

  9 Jul 03, 01:09

  Originally posted by yongkiat:

  today is our one year anniversary ..........
  yesterday.. we broke up...
  
  

  sorry to hear that but.. life still haf to go on no matter wat...
  
• Lynette80

  9 Jul 03, 01:54

  Originally posted by yongkiat:

  today is our one year anniversary ..........
  yesterday.. we broke up...
  
  

  *pat* *pat*
  dun be sad..... get on with ur life.. perhaps u may find someone even better?
• Transmission

  9 Jul 03, 02:18

  Originally posted by Lynette80:

  *pat* *pat*
  dun be sad..... get on with ur life.. perhaps u may find someone even better?

  wahhaa...
  u hinting to him izzit???
  
  
  hey dude...dun so sad ...
  
• hata

  9 Jul 03, 02:21

  Originally posted by yongkiat:

  today is our one year anniversary ..........
  yesterday.. we broke up...
  
  

  cheer up.. u'll find someone new...
  
  
• Lynette80

  9 Jul 03, 02:24

  Originally posted by Transmission:

  wahhaa...
  u hinting to him izzit???
  
  
  hey dude...dun so sad ...
  

  hint wat
• newb

  9 Jul 03, 02:59

  i also same as you
  broke up a few days later after one year...
  now she's got a new guy....
  
  
• wendy81

  9 Jul 03, 03:07

  Originally posted by yongkiat:

  today is our one year anniversary ..........
  yesterday.. we broke up...
  
  

  come on.. life goes on.. u've still got frens and most importantly u've got me dun be so sad... its juz part and parcel of life
• newb

  9 Jul 03, 03:15

  i'm still dwelling over it
  
  very
  
  kinda hard to let go at the moment.....
• wendy81

  9 Jul 03, 03:19

  Originally posted by newb:

  i'm still dwelling over it
  
  very
  
  kinda hard to let go at the moment.....

  i noe..its juz the initial stage of a breakup and definitely when u meet someone better u would look back and think to urself tt u were so silly to be dwelling on something which was not worth it at all
• yongkiat

  9 Jul 03, 16:42

  Originally posted by wendy81:

  come on.. life goes on.. u've still got frens and most importantly u've got me dun be so sad... its juz part and parcel of life

  thanks everyone for ur advises or comments...
  to me.. i dun hav true friends..... no real friends.. no one really cares.. dun u all feel the same? very hard to find or get a true friend..
  she was all i got....
  she was the closest person to me...
  i'm really heartbroken...
  
  to:wendy81
  i got u meh? how come i don't recall? anyway.. thanks
• PaulSmith

  9 Jul 03, 16:47

  dun be sad lah... "bu yao wei le yi ke shu, fang qi zhen ge shen lin"
  
  Life still have to go on rite..... *SMILE*
• pineapple_pie

  9 Jul 03, 16:55

  Originally posted by yongkiat:

  today is our one year anniversary ..........
  yesterday.. we broke up...
  
  

  don be sad. she is the one who should be sad loh... cos she had given up on someone (which is YOU) who loves her so much loh...
• cHeR|sH^LoVe

  9 Jul 03, 16:57

  cheer up.. i know wad i say may be useless.. it may not get into ur mind. coz i experienced the same thing recently too.. its hard.. it was hard for me.. i tried hard.. now still sad..
  but i believe time heals all wounds.. hope one day..u will find someone better.. n try cheering up..
• johyl

  9 Jul 03, 17:34

  Originally posted by yongkiat:

  thanks everyone for ur advises or comments...
  to me.. i dun hav true friends..... no real friends.. no one really cares.. dun u all feel the same? very hard to find or get a true friend..
  she was all i got....
  she was the closest person to me...
  i'm really heartbroken...
  
  to:wendy81
  i got u meh? how come i don't recall? anyway.. thanks

  hmmz.. well i think its not that u dun haf any true frens or real frens... frens r there for u but its juz that whether haf u notice that they r always there??? i dun agree that no one really cares.. cos i still remember when my ex broke up wif mi half yr ago.. i also think the same way. but once i tell some frens that my relationship juz failed.. they surprised mi by keep keeping mi company..
  its not hard to find/get a true fren, its up to u.. if u r those type that would open up to others.. i m sure u bound to haf frens...
  well at this moment take care!~~
• birdbird

  9 Jul 03, 18:13

  its not easy to let i know n i can understd how u feel now.take care pal.....
• Father_Cuthbert

  9 Jul 03, 19:50

  THOU should seek council and solice within the tender bossum of GOD CHILD! Do not dwell on this other whom broke u... tis a SIN and it will make thee fall beyong redemption if left unchecked! THOU must not surcomb to the temptations of LUST and attractiveness to the opposite SEX!
• kopiosatu

  9 Jul 03, 19:51

  Originally posted by Father_Cuthbert:

  THOU should seek council and solice within the tender bossum of GOD CHILD! Do not dwell on this other whom broke u... tis a SIN and it will make thee fall beyong redemption if left unchecked! THOU must not surcomb to the temptations of LUST and attractiveness to the opposite SEX!

  u must read alot of shakespeare~
• sky_dew

  9 Jul 03, 21:43

  well .. there will be better gals out there for u ... go through it like a man and u will realise it had made u stronger and a better person ...
  
  cheer up pal ... at least u have wendy81
• Wala

  9 Jul 03, 21:46

  "It's not you, it's me........" sounds familiar?
  
  anywae cheer up, u will def find a better 1 down the road. at least its better to break up now, rather than break up many yrs down the road after knowing u 2 dun match up... rite?.....
• yongkiat

  9 Jul 03, 21:52

  Originally posted by sky_dew:

  well .. there will be better gals out there for u ... go through it like a man and u will realise it had made u stronger and a better person ...
  
  cheer up pal ... at least u have wendy81

  yes.. i know that "go through it like a man and u will realise it had made u stronger and a better person ... "
  but.. i had gone throught it once after my first gf left me... its a terrible process... but i had gone throught it.. i hav changed alot....
  
  now this was my second gf... i hav done everything i can to maintain our 1 year relationship... but.. in the end.. we found out out character is not suitable for each other... and broke up..
  
  i still love her as much as b4......
  i'm very lost now....
  thinking of patching up and try out again... cos i really love her..(even thought i know this type of things cannot be force and should let go when its time...)
  haiz.. dunno lah....
  
• johyl

  9 Jul 03, 21:56

  Originally posted by yongkiat:

  yes.. i know that "go through it like a man and u will realise it had made u stronger and a better person ... "
  but.. i had gone throught it once after my first gf left me... its a terrible process... but i had gone throught it.. i hav changed alot....
  
  now this was my second gf... i hav done everything i can to maintain our 1 year relationship... but.. in the end.. we found out out character is not suitable for each other... and broke up..
  
  i still love her as much as b4......
  i'm very lost now....
  thinking of patching up and try out again... cos i really love her..(even thought i know this type of things cannot be force and should let go when its time...)
  haiz.. dunno lah....
  

  hmmxz... this is wat i haf gone through half yr ago.. its very normal to feel this way..
  but do keep an open mind... juz relax now.. let her noe u better n for u to noe her better too.. sometimes.. u will realise that.. maybe till then u two r back wif better n stronger bond..
  wish u luick!!
• Souledge

  9 Jul 03, 23:50

  SOrry to hear that man... take care and life have to go on pat pat take care man....
• ugo_gal

  10 Jul 03, 02:09

  Originally posted by yongkiat:

  today is our one year anniversary ..........
  yesterday.. we broke up...
  
  

  2 friends of mine have these problems too, and their relationships were quite bad...
  well, u gotta get on with ur life,den u can only find how beautiful life is. maybe when u were with her, ur social circle shrunk. and now it's the time to get back ur friendships and make more friends. when u have more friends, no worry that u cant get a better one. sometimes, friendships could be as important as bgr..
  all the bez and
  take care,
  
• shandower

  10 Jul 03, 09:38

  Life goes on.