Kill or be Killed (an Abortion Story)
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the Unthinkable happened!
a month ago, my gf discovered that she was pregnant.
oh dear what to do? we were in a panic.
keeping the baby was NOT an option. I'm still in NS and she is in JC.
She would probably be kicked out of school if she had the baby. So little choice had we: Kill or be Killed.
We made an appointment and have the procedure slated for the end of July.
Do we ask for forgiveness? No. We did what we had to do.
Did we use a condom? Yes, but did you realize that they have a 10% failure rate?
I love her, yes I do. If we had the baby, her family would probaby Never let her see me again. Yes, there's a risk that she would have problems with future babies, but everything has a risk. Besides, She's not that crazy about kids anyway.
I wish all you anti-choice pro-lifers would pull your heads out from your collective asses and let us Make the Choices that We have to make.
Call me a Murder if it makes you happy. But i dont give a damn. -
PRO CHOICE!!!!!!
its my life,not yours to live!!!!
LIVE BRO!!! -
No Sex No Troubles
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at last! someone who thinks.
i think that they should make the pill more widely and easily available. -
its common nowadays bro.....
the only thing that is advisable now is not to hv pre-marital sex....
but it seems like : "who cares" everyone is doing it and not know the responsibilities or the actions done.....
i wish all the best of luck to u and gf...... hope to see u two ended up happily...
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well u made ur choice.... jz take gd care of her dude....
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i'm pro choice!
but wat abt the baby? did he/she have a choice?
well... yeah its a tough dilemma, u did what u had to do
get ur gf to go on the pill instead, its really not hard to acquire. they make it only available by prescription cos u don't wanna distribute it to people who may suffer from side effects. its just a simple consultation anyway.
hope this whole incident doesn't make things strained for u two. must have been pretty shaken up by it all. most importantly u gotta talk it out between u two and move on else everytime there's a slight strain in the relationship, she might take this whole incident outta the closet and start the blame game all over again. -
talk abt walking contradiction!!!Originally posted by iloveprettygirls:i'm pro choice!
but wat abt the baby? did he/she have a choice?
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So wats ur fu .cking problem? wanna showoff that u r an a.sshole who in the name of love abort a baby bcos u love ur gf? get a fuc.king life... dont give LOVE a bad name
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I find it hilarious that all you are depending on is that flimsy piece of rubber to protect your girlfriend from getting pregnant and you from your responsibilities.
In fact, if you were aware of the possibility of failure, why chicken out when the very consequences fall on your lap?
Now, I'm not trying to tell you to keep the child alive. He/She certainly won't have a good life in the hands of unresponsible parents.
Do you see that your wrong doing was not only in killing an innocent life but also making a risky decision to fuck your brains out and not thinkin of the following repercussion?
It now too late to cry over spilled milk, time moves on. I wish you all the best, but don't make the same mistake again. One human life is one life too many to be wasted. -
Look if u dun give a damn, y post ur story up here for? U dare to make ur gf preg but dun dare to take responsibility. So i guess nxt time u will say u wan to spend the life with a ger but not get married? I wonder where has the sense of responsibility gone to? Ns nvr teach u tt? Wonder how u survived without responsibility...Originally posted by Hoplite:the Unthinkable happened!
a month ago, my gf discovered that she was pregnant.
oh dear what to do? we were in a panic.
keeping the baby was NOT an option. I'm still in NS and she is in JC.
She would probably be kicked out of school if she had the baby. So little choice had we: Kill or be Killed.
We made an appointment and have the procedure slated for the end of July.
Do we ask for forgiveness? No. We did what we had to do.
Did we use a condom? Yes, but did you realize that they have a 10% failure rate?
I love her, yes I do. If we had the baby, her family would probaby Never let her see me again. Yes, there's a risk that she would have problems with future babies, but everything has a risk. Besides, She's not that crazy about kids anyway.
I wish all you anti-choice pro-lifers would pull your heads out from your collective asses and let us Make the Choices that We have to make.
Call me a Murder if it makes you happy. But i dont give a damn. -
[quote]Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:
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oh shit!!!
not THAT again! -
i'm not crying over spilled milk, i'm just giving a point of view and to support those of you having to face an abortion.Originally posted by tIfosI:I find it hilarious that all you are depending on is that flimsy piece of rubber to protect your girlfriend from getting pregnant and you from your responsibilities.
In fact, if you were aware of the possibility of failure, why chicken out when the very consequences fall on your lap?
Now, I'm not trying to tell you to keep the child alive. He/She certainly won't have a good life in the hands of unresponsible parents.
Do you see that your wrong doing was not only in killing an innocent life but also making a risky decision to fuck your brains out and not thinkin of the following repercussion?
It now too late to cry over spilled milk, time moves on. I wish you all the best, but don't make the same mistake again. One human life is one life too many to be wasted.
Just do it. it's better in the long run.
Alas, that flimsy condom is all we have. -
is that supposed to make me feel bad?Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:
well it doesn't. i went into this knowing full well the consequences.
it aint pretty but hey, you gotta do what you gotta do. -
i am responsible. I did not run away or abandon my gf.Originally posted by shaunlaw:Look if u dun give a damn, y post ur story up here for? U dare to make ur gf preg but dun dare to take responsibility. So i guess nxt time u will say u wan to spend the life with a ger but not get married? I wonder where has the sense of responsibility gone to? Ns nvr teach u tt? Wonder how u survived without responsibility...
i am responsible for the problem, so i am fixing it.
restoring the status quo.
getting rid of the unwanted life. -
both parties are to blame. she didn't want to get on the pill.Originally posted by iloveprettygirls:i'm pro choice!
but wat abt the baby? did he/she have a choice?
well... yeah its a tough dilemma, u did what u had to do
get ur gf to go on the pill instead, its really not hard to acquire. they make it only available by prescription cos u don't wanna distribute it to people who may suffer from side effects. its just a simple consultation anyway.
hope this whole incident doesn't make things strained for u two. must have been pretty shaken up by it all. most importantly u gotta talk it out between u two and move on else everytime there's a slight strain in the relationship, she might take this whole incident outta the closet and start the blame game all over again.
maybe this might convince her to go on the pill.
did the baby have a choice? hope. the baby did not have a brain. -
si bu hui gai...u beware of retribution....baby will come haunt u..
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boo hoo! like i am SOOO scared!Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:si bu hui gai...u beware of retribution....baby will come haunt u.. -
Come on..dun get all pissed up..Originally posted by Hoplite:boo hoo! like i am SOOO scared!
everyone is just giving their point of view right?
If u dun wan any replies or anything..then why post it?
Be open abt it..accept all replies..be it gd or bad..
coz no matter wad..u haf to know that u are in the wrong too..
No matter whether issit ur choice to have tt baby..
U have created it..but u choose to abort it..and i truly respect ur decision..coz if u can't bring happiness to it..why give birth to it?
But i'm also not saying that abortion is right..
It's just that..it came in a bad timing..I hope that u will be more careful in the future..ask ur gf to go on a pill..
Wanna have sex..tt's the responsibility..
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oh well..diff ppl diff view..
of coz..abortionis not a good choice..but the thingy is..they might be young..finance problems..etc etc..?
raising a kid ain't tt easy..even if u manage to hv a sum of money to keep the baby...but wat abt the future..? take a step at a time..? hmm..well..it's not tt easy..ya noe..? some kids rather they nv step into this world at all..before im a pet groomer..im a helper in counselling centre..there's all kinda ppl..all facing problems..mainly..family problems..
well..to each it's own..im not encouraging abortions..juz tt..dun see things on the surface..sometimes..when one's too vexed..he/she might juz wanna to voice it out..he/she needs listener..
hmm.....there's pro and con..and the last sentence..try not to engaged in pre-martial sex yah..?
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those anti abortionists are so predictable and boring.Originally posted by Angelz_ger:Come on..dun get all pissed up..
everyone is just giving their point of view right?
If u dun wan any replies or anything..then why post it?
yes you respect my point of view. thank you.
not everyone does.
why do i post it? seems like lately there has been a large spate of teen pregnancies and i wanna lend my support to all those out there facing it.
need an abortion? just DO it. The longer you wait the more difficult it is. -
blame your little bro down there man, you cant control a little urge and u are now going to plan a murder. heavens haf eyes.
heard that the spirit of the child will remain in the house of where his/her mother is.
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ha ha ha!!!!!Originally posted by De|usi0n:blame your little bro down there man, you cant control a little urge and u are now going to plan a murder. heavens haf eyes.
heard that the spirit of the child will remain in the house of where his/her mother is.
gd luck
good one! Spirit of the child will remain...the unborn have no spirits.
That's just GUILT hanging around.
anyway, Hoplite, you know what is best for you and your gal. Don't listen to these yammering fools ya hear! You go do what you must and yeah, get her on the pill or one of these implants. -
i dunnoe abt dat...but if for me...i wld give birth cos its my child...i dun care how and wad ppl tinks...its my baby...dun care if my bf leaves me for dat...its my baby...
bootom line?
ITS MY BABY!!!!