Originally posted by lv_gal:
neither i say abort the child. it's hard decision. like u said, Its not fair if you don't even give the child a chance to prove himself but what if the child reali had the thought of what i mention above? arent his/her life will be more miserable? so no one can predict what will happen in future. and whatever we said, it's no point. let the victim to decide whether to give birth or nt. cos it is their responsibities to all. n whatever guilt, they r the one to suffer. we r nt in their shoes, we wont feel the hard decision n consequences they might facing. maybe when it ur turn, u might think n act differently from what u said now.....
You are right. I might not know what i will do if i were him. I think i will be very confused. I just want to share my life here:
My mother is adopted. I don't have any real maternal grandparents. She had a hard time trying to raise the 4 of us (me and my siblings) us. Now all my siblings are happily married. If my mum had given up hope on herself knowng that her real parents dumped her away, i would not be here now. Just want to testify that this is not an impossible problem to face for the unwanted child. I am the living testimony and the fruit of someone who has been able to overcome her problems in life.
Ultimately Hopelite is the one who makes the decision, whatever we say, its kinda useless against a defensive mind like his. So i'll just wish Hoplite the best and try not to think with his dick again.