Originally posted by Beatriz:
By the way, virginity is not only a piece of tissue.

What I was trying to emphasize is self-worth, self respect and dignity.
This isn't about being judgemental of those who chose to engage in premarital sex...we learn from them in fact. Believe me, not many of them will encourage u to engage in it.

The "been there, done that" people can help us rethink of the things that we r bound to do.
Dignity doesn't only come from traditions.
define self-worth
everyone's value of ones self is different
some see it as wealth, some as being popular, while others deem self-worth as feeling good about themselves.
so u can see tat it is not possible
and besides, wats so undignified about showing ur love in ur own way to the person u love?
not tat the gal or guy is loose
its jus their way of expressing the love they have
it may not be the right way in ur eyes
but hey, who's to judge?
bottomline is,
as long as there are no regrets, then there is no problem
cos my virginity is mine
and it is my right to give it to whoever i deem fit
it may not be the correct person, but its my choice
hope tat i am not being too harsh here
jus bringing in some opinion of mine for a different viewpoint
of course at the end of the day
to each his/her own
