Saving ur virginity
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Is it hard to control lust? I mean, can't we save ourselves for our wedding night? Girls, is this hard? For guys...do u think u can tolerate a no-sex relationship? What if ur girlfriends are real conservative that they practically believe that premarital sex is a sin?
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some are curious
while some think tat its no big deal
cos love shld be jus tat.. love
why stop it for a piece of tissue known as the hymen? -
My bf and me come to an agreement on how 'far' we should go...and no intention of having it before wedding. Think to save one's virginity, ones always must know what he/she is doing and in clear state of mind no matter how high he/she is...At least that's what we have been practising..
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yeah...Originally posted by Cute_Dreamer:My bf and me come to an agreement on how 'far' we should go...and no intention of having it before wedding. Think to save one's virginity, ones always must know what he/she is doing and in clear state of mind no matter how high he/she is...At least that's what we have been practising..
tats wat me and my gf is doing too...
i mean when you love someone, you would respect her privacy and her chasity...
traditional but hey, it works for me...
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it should be easier for gals than guys to control...
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how can a guy be a virgin when we can simply go toilet n wank it off...hehe..as wat the previous poster haf sae...it will be easier for gal to maintain a virgin than a guy can~
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Sex can be a wonderful gift if it is act of expression of love and cherishment for each other
too bad....... not many have that kind of intention -
Originally posted by Beatriz:Is it hard to control lust? I mean, can't we save ourselves for our wedding night? Girls, is this hard? For guys...do u think u can tolerate a no-sex relationship? What if ur girlfriends are real conservative that they practically believe that premarital sex is a sin?
i love my girlfriend more than sex. -
sex and marriage have as much to do with each other as turkey and bananas.
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why should they control?Originally posted by BrUtUs:it should be easier for gals than guys to control...
why can't they just have sex as they feel like?
It is an infantile superstition of the human spirit that virginity would be thought a virtue and not the barrier that separates ignorance from knowledge. -
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I believe limitations must be set. I don't think it would be right for someone to have sex, break up...then have sex again...and break up again...so on and so forth. That'd be quite demoralizing, don't u think?
But then again, it is a matter of principle and culture.
A couple can have sex...who's stopping them anyway? But won't it be more exciting if two can discover the wonders of lovemaking during their wedding night?
Unwanted pregnancy cases are rampant. Some resort to adoption, and worse, abortion. If this so happens to some, do u think it will put ur mind to rest? Ur conscience will torture u for the rest of ur life. And that won't be easy.
Sex is one of the spices in life. It should not be taken advantaged of. It's the physical and emotional bond of a man and a woman who TRULY love each other. -
By the way, virginity is not only a piece of tissue.
What I was trying to emphasize is self-worth, self respect and dignity.
This isn't about being judgemental of those who chose to engage in premarital sex...we learn from them in fact. Believe me, not many of them will encourage u to engage in it. The "been there, done that" people can help us rethink of the things that we r bound to do.
Dignity doesn't only come from traditions. -
But won't it be more exciting if two can discover the wonders of lovemaking during their wedding night?
only if you feel that Ignorance is Bliss -
A good relationship need not have sex as part of it.
I think this is very true : "you can be a non virgin anytime you want but you can be a virgin anymore once you lost it" -
might as well just be friendsOriginally posted by X-men:A good relationship need not have sex as part of it. -
If we think of ignorance as bliss?
Sure being a virgin doesn't mean being ignorant about it. Two people can find deeper meaning to what sex is all about when they waited for the right time. We have to admit that we value something more if we worked hard to attain it.
Having sex here and there serves no purpose, rather it merely speaks of physical satisfaction. -
i think its more to knowing wat urself is doing lor. as couples, u also haf no idea which will realli end up being ur other half rite? if every bf, u also make luv... den which one will be the ultimate one? not possible to keep on doing it until u met wif the one which will be ur other half rite? so y not keeping it until u realli found ur other half? wat's wrong for keeping ur best for him? i will onli do it wif my husband-to-be...
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define self-worthOriginally posted by Beatriz:By the way, virginity is not only a piece of tissue.
What I was trying to emphasize is self-worth, self respect and dignity.
This isn't about being judgemental of those who chose to engage in premarital sex...we learn from them in fact. Believe me, not many of them will encourage u to engage in it. The "been there, done that" people can help us rethink of the things that we r bound to do.
Dignity doesn't only come from traditions.
everyone's value of ones self is different
some see it as wealth, some as being popular, while others deem self-worth as feeling good about themselves.
so u can see tat it is not possible
and besides, wats so undignified about showing ur love in ur own way to the person u love?
not tat the gal or guy is loose
its jus their way of expressing the love they have
it may not be the right way in ur eyes
but hey, who's to judge?
bottomline is,
as long as there are no regrets, then there is no problem
cos my virginity is mine
and it is my right to give it to whoever i deem fit
it may not be the correct person, but its my choice
hope tat i am not being too harsh here
jus bringing in some opinion of mine for a different viewpoint
of course at the end of the day
to each his/her own
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X-men, i agree 2 wat u haf said....
A good relationship does not need 2 have sex 2 be part of it!
My bf and i are still virgins~ sad 2 sae,not many couples can maintain tat virginity..
we haf many things to keep us occupied rather den juz sex~
yah lah..21st century..open minded..sex not a big deal..
u can sae i'm traditional..heck care...
as long as WO DUI DE QI ZI JI DE SHENG TI~~ -
sigh.. this is getting so old... seen over 5 threads abt this dumb debate.. forget it la.. go screw around la, sooner u screw, sooner get desease, sooner die la.. rid us of another pest. sheesh.
*cranky*
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Yes, we see self-worth differently...but do u think we will see self-worth thru having sex with every person that we go out with? Is it really hard to wait?
I believe there are still people out there who give value to their chastity. And I'm glad that there's pretty much in this forum.
But then again, to each his/her own, right?
Why dumbdumb, what kind of statement is that? You want to die soon to suffer less? Don't worry, when u get herpes or other STD's, u'd be 6 feet below the ground sooner than u can imagine. Ur rushing to ur grave, right? -
i get self worth points with each girl i sleep with*LOL*
there are worse ways to die. -
I've had people tell me that virginity is a virtue.
They are all virgins. -
bravo!!!Originally posted by -=|nN0c3Nt=-:i think its more to knowing wat urself is doing lor. as couples, u also haf no idea which will realli end up being ur other half rite? if every bf, u also make luv... den which one will be the ultimate one? not possible to keep on doing it until u met wif the one which will be ur other half rite? so y not keeping it until u realli found ur other half? wat's wrong for keeping ur best for him? i will onli do it wif my husband-to-be...
#applaude#