Saving ur virginity
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without a doubt to the above highlighted statementOriginally posted by Beatriz:Yes, we see self-worth differently...but do u think we will see self-worth thru having sex with every person that we go out with? Is it really hard to wait?
I believe there are still people out there who give value to their chastity. And I'm glad that there's pretty much in this forum.
But then again, to each his/her own, right?
Why dumbdumb, what kind of statement is that? You want to die soon to suffer less? Don't worry, when u get herpes or other STD's, u'd be 6 feet below the ground sooner than u can imagine. Ur rushing to ur grave, right?
there are lots of gals and guys out there who do
i am one of them
and tats why i gave it the one i loved (cos she was my ex)
no regrets wat so ever
i admire u for ur steadfastness
u are one awesome gal
regards and have good wholesome fun
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I am glad u seem to accept my opinion, Whiteillum. I truly appreciate that.
I have nothing against people who do it before getting marriage but I wish it's possible to save it. I'm not a Saint and I have no right to judge others.
I have watched friends who ended up pregnant and becoming single parents. I think break-ups would be much more painful if two people have already shared such intimacy.
A friend of mine had sex with her 2nd boyfriend and she later discovered that he was married and his wife was pregnant.She broke up with him and that pervert tried to blackmail her, saying he would tell the world about what they did (Due to rage, I did everything to have him fired in the company that he was working at). She had sexual relationship with her 3rd boyfriend and they broke up because of some religious matters. She told her 4th boyfriend that she's no virgin anymore and he suddenly stopped seeing her and he never returned her calls after the revelation (and to think that dumb guy was no virgin himself!). Finally I had to tell her to give herself a year or two to stay single and focus on other things but she told me that she has a longing none of her friends can satisfy. She was subtly saying that she wants such intimacy. I believe this cycle will continue and there's nothing much I can do. It's her life.
I know this situation has also happened to some. And it is so pathetic. It's such a pity some young women getting hooked to this cycle and suffer more.
If u love someone, show him/her that you do. But that doesn't mean that he/she doesn't love u if he/she refuses to have sex with u. -
I believe in a no-sex relationship. The girl would prob be fed up that im so conservative. hahaOriginally posted by Beatriz:Is it hard to control lust? I mean, can't we save ourselves for our wedding night? Girls, is this hard? For guys...do u think u can tolerate a no-sex relationship? What if ur girlfriends are real conservative that they practically believe that premarital sex is a sin? -
sex is not a measure of loveOriginally posted by Beatriz:I am glad u seem to accept my opinion, Whiteillum. I truly appreciate that.
I have nothing against people who do it before getting marriage but I wish it's possible to save it. I'm not a Saint and I have no right to judge others.
I have watched friends who ended up pregnant and becoming single parents. I think break-ups would be much more painful if two people have already shared such intimacy.
A friend of mine had sex with her 2nd boyfriend and she later discovered that he was married and his wife was pregnant.She broke up with him and that pervert tried to blackmail her, saying he would tell the world about what they did (Due to rage, I did everything to have him fired in the company that he was working at). She had sexual relationship with her 3rd boyfriend and they broke up because of some religious matters. She told her 4th boyfriend that she's no virgin anymore and he suddenly stopped seeing her and he never returned her calls after the revelation (and to think that dumb guy was no virgin himself!). Finally I had to tell her to give herself a year or two to stay single and focus on other things but she told me that she has a longing none of her friends can satisfy. She was subtly saying that she wants such intimacy. I believe this cycle will continue and there's nothing much I can do. It's her life.
I know this situation has also happened to some. And it is so pathetic. It's such a pity some young women getting hooked to this cycle and suffer more.
If u love someone, show him/her that you do. But that doesn't mean that he/she doesn't love u if he/she refuses to have sex with u.
but a measure of committment to those who view it the right way
its not a game but unforunately, many of today's youth think tat way
it is only for the prepared and for the committed
and definitely, any guy who tells the gal "if u love me, sleep with me"
shld be shot... twice... -
no way! Studliness is a VirtueOriginally posted by Icefalcon:I've had people tell me that virginity is a virtue.
They are all virgins. -
Studliness? A virtue? Hmmm...
There are studs out there who bedded every woman they lay their eyes on. But that doesn't mean they're cool, nice or smart. Some, are in fact, losers!
So any studs around here?
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sorry, i don't sleep around. i plan to keep myself pure till wedding night.Originally posted by Beatriz:Yes, we see self-worth differently...but do u think we will see self-worth thru having sex with every person that we go out with? Is it really hard to wait?
I believe there are still people out there who give value to their chastity. And I'm glad that there's pretty much in this forum.
But then again, to each his/her own, right?
Why dumbdumb, what kind of statement is that? You want to die soon to suffer less? Don't worry, when u get herpes or other STD's, u'd be 6 feet below the ground sooner than u can imagine. Ur rushing to ur grave, right? -
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*phew!* i had kept my virginity well....
*seriously* i think i'll have trouble looking for the right guy in future already since so many are virgins now tt i've found out... anyone gonna despise me? after going thru so much sexual life and now i've decided to stop but the guys i met are still the same so much into them and i of coz i stop having contacts wif them...
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dun cry.. u will always have friends like me who are into good clean funOriginally posted by wendy81:
*phew!* i had kept my virginity well....
*seriously* i think i'll have trouble looking for the right guy in future already since so many are virgins now tt i've found out... anyone gonna despise me? after going thru so much sexual life and now i've decided to stop but the guys i met are still the same so much into them and i of coz i stop having contacts wif them... -
u may look trouble looking for those guys who r not into those.....but i belif there r still nice guys around. it all depend on fate.Originally posted by wendy81:
*phew!* i had kept my virginity well....
*seriously* i think i'll have trouble looking for the right guy in future already since so many are virgins now tt i've found out... anyone gonna despise me? after going thru so much sexual life and now i've decided to stop but the guys i met are still the same so much into them and i of coz i stop having contacts wif them... -
I hope u don't mind me asking this, wendy...but have u had contacts with guys or ur really a virgin? if either of the two, do u have regrets?Originally posted by wendy81:
*phew!* i had kept my virginity well....
*seriously* i think i'll have trouble looking for the right guy in future already since so many are virgins now tt i've found out... anyone gonna despise me? after going thru so much sexual life and now i've decided to stop but the guys i met are still the same so much into them and i of coz i stop having contacts wif them...
keep ur head up and don't go out with guys who appear to have good intentions yet have plans on bedding u. Trust me, u will know those types. -
No boobs, no ass, no waistOriginally posted by Evil Clown:
what's the fucking point dude? -
Originally posted by AzRaeL:
No vulgar words here please.
No boobs, no ass, no waist
what's the fu[b]cking point dude?[/b]