Some ONS problems... can help?
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Some problems that is going to be sexually related BGR.
Current situation:
Female lead is attached.
Proposed situation:
one of the female lead's ex (the one she loved the most) were chatting the other day. suddenly, they were on the topic of masturbation. then went on further to talk about their fantasies and such. soon, they even made an appointment on when they are gonna help each other masturbate.
Problems:
1) Is she betraying her current bf?
2) She still carries a torch for this ex, but she knows the sexual activity will not lead to them getting back to before. (ie, she's a willing partner and requires no string attached). The problem is the guy had an ONS since they last had sex (the girl and boy broke up sometime ago, but he was the last bf she had before she is attached). The girl hasn't had any sex with the current bf before because she doesn't like him enough to do it.
3) She don't know whether to stay with someone who will love her more than she love him or to just engage herself in sexual activities with her ex (someone she loves more than the guy would love her) with no status (as a gf) or whatsoever.
what do you think?
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if you need answers to these, i don't think any explanation will ever suffice...
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Originally posted by winky:Some problems that is going to be sexually related BGR.
Current situation:
Female lead is attached.
Proposed situation:
one of the female lead's ex (the one she loved the most) were chatting the other day. suddenly, they were on the topic of masturbation. then went on further to talk about their fantasies and such. soon, they even made an appointment on when they are gonna help each other masturbate.
Problems:
1) Is she betraying her current bf?
2) She still carries a torch for this ex, but she knows the sexual activity will not lead to them getting back to before. (ie, she's a willing partner and requires no string attached). The problem is the guy had an ONS since they last had sex (the girl and boy broke up sometime ago, but he was the last bf she had before she is attached). The girl hasn't had any sex with the current bf before because she doesn't like him enough to do it.
3) She don't know whether to stay with someone who will love her more than she love him or to just engage herself in sexual activities with her ex (someone she loves more than the guy would love her) with no status (as a gf) or whatsoever.
what do you think? 
Recommended solutions to problems 1,2,3.
1. yes
2. ain't worth hurting current bf for someone not commited to meaningful relationship.
3. stay with boyfriend who loves her..ultimately the other guy will tire of the girl and move on for other younger girls..then the original girl will be left with nothing. -
The girl already has the answers. Just hoping someone thinks the same way as her. Do the right thing!
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come on, if u say "The girl hasn't had any sex with the current bf before because she doesn't like him enough to do it. "Originally posted by winky:Some problems that is going to be sexually related BGR.
Current situation:
Female lead is attached.
Proposed situation:
one of the female lead's ex (the one she loved the most) were chatting the other day. suddenly, they were on the topic of masturbation. then went on further to talk about their fantasies and such. soon, they even made an appointment on when they are gonna help each other masturbate.
Problems:
1) Is she betraying her current bf?
2) She still carries a torch for this ex, but she knows the sexual activity will not lead to them getting back to before. (ie, she's a willing partner and requires no string attached). The problem is the guy had an ONS since they last had sex (the girl and boy broke up sometime ago, but he was the last bf she had before she is attached). The girl hasn't had any sex with the current bf before because she doesn't like him enough to do it.
3) She don't know whether to stay with someone who will love her more than she love him or to just engage herself in sexual activities with her ex (someone she loves more than the guy would love her) with no status (as a gf) or whatsoever.
what do you think?
den y r they together now?
and if u say "they even made an appointment on when they are gonna help each other masturbate"
den y breakup?? -
i tink its not your problem.... why botherOriginally posted by winky:what do you think? 
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they are together because the current bf treats her very well. she don't dislike him, nor love him a lot.Originally posted by Jaws:come on, if u say "The girl hasn't had any sex with the current bf before because she doesn't like him enough to do it. "
den y r they together now?
and if u say "they even made an appointment on when they are gonna help each other masturbate"
den y breakup??
her ex and her broke up because of some things that happened between them. but the girl still loves the guy, a little. the guy most probably don't love the girl anymore, and the girl knows it herself. -
well, its rather obvious y i bother about it, isn't it?Originally posted by skeujin:i tink its not your problem.... why bother -
i dnt get you....Originally posted by winky:well, its rather obvious y i bother about it, isn't it?
r u the narrator or part of the cast... -
It's stupid la....just like guys going to pros...a moment of pleasure...Originally posted by winky:they are together because the current bf treats her very well. she don't dislike him, nor love him a lot.
her ex and her broke up because of some things that happened between them. but the girl still loves the guy, a little. the guy most probably don't love the girl anymore, and the girl knows it herself.
what for? might as well learn to love ur current bf? if in need, DIY la..dun let ur "ex" has the best of both world. -
ya hor.....Originally posted by energizer:It's stupid la....just like guys going to pros...a moment of pleasure...
what for? might as well learn to love ur current bf? if in need, DIY la..dun let ur "ex" has the best of both world.
the more conversations the girl had with the ex, the more she finds that the person she talking to now is not the same ex she once was so deeply in love. he seems to have change a lot. he used to be a nice guy, who didn't indulge in ONS (at least in her opinion, he was like the perfect guy), that was y she missed him, still love him a little...
but now, as they talked for the past few days, she finds that the image she protrait him as is not that perfect ex-bf anymore. in her view, he has changed from an angel to a semi-demon kind of state.
should i try to stop her from the meeting? cos its rather urgent, deadline due soon.
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Stop herOriginally posted by winky:ya hor.....
the more conversations the girl had with the ex, the more she finds that the person she talking to now is not the same ex she once was so deeply in love. he seems to have change a lot. he used to be a nice guy, who didn't indulge in ONS (at least in her opinion, he was like the perfect guy), that was y she missed him, still love him a little...
but now, as they talked for the past few days, she finds that the image she protrait him as is not that perfect ex-bf anymore. in her view, he has changed from an angel to a semi-demon kind of state.
should i try to stop her from the meeting? cos its rather urgent, deadline due soon. -
Not exactly...?Originally posted by Justy:The girl already has the answers. Just hoping someone thinks the same way as her. Do the right thing! 
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Originally posted by winky:should i try to stop her from the meeting? cos its rather urgent, deadline due soon. You have every rights to stop her. Just like you've got every rights to extend the deadline.
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Originally posted by winky:
Some problems that is going to be sexually related BGR.
Current situation:
Female lead is attached.
Proposed situation:
one of the female lead's ex (the one she loved the most) were chatting the other day. suddenly, they were on the topic of masturbation. then went on further to talk about their fantasies and such. soon, they even made an appointment on when they are gonna help each other masturbate.
Problems:
1) Is she betraying her current bf?
Depending how how she sees it, how her bf sees it and how the general public sees it? Generally speaking... It's a YES.... Would you believe me even if I tell you it's a 'no'...?
2) She still carries a torch for this ex, but she knows the sexual activity will not lead to them getting back to before. (ie, she's a willing partner and requires no string attached). The problem is the guy had an ONS since they last had sex (the girl and boy broke up sometime ago, but he was the last bf she had before she is attached). The girl hasn't had any sex with the current bf before because she doesn't like him enough to do it.
What problem? They BROKE OFF now, didn't they...? Whether he has ONS or not is probably not very much of her concern and even if she don't have sex with her current bf...? Nothing much to do with him too yup...?
3) She don't know whether to stay with someone who will love her more than she love him or to just engage herself in sexual activities with her ex (someone she loves more than the guy would love her) with no status (as a gf) or whatsoever.
what do you think?
Does it matter what do I think...? It's her CHOICE...? She wants SEX and PLEASURE... Or just someone to stay with and who will probably love her for quite a while...? Either situation there's a chance that she might get hurt.... Just that probably one is a longer term investment as compared to the other...? -
I think... the gal shld juz move on, cherish someone who love her(her current bf), put the past behind..... coz if the bf finds out about it, den itz all over...
unless if she doesnt care abt current bf, den she shld start waking up coz, if u wanna flirt, dun go serious!! poor guy (current bf)
so if 1 day your gf doesnt wan to hav sex wif u, guys u know the reason liao..... -
Winky...dont go?Originally posted by winky:well, its rather obvious y i bother about it, isn't it?
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Originally posted by Xcert:Winky...dont go?
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i guess the ex is totally interested in ur body onli lor... pls pardon mi for being frank to u...
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dont go, rather you give someone appreciates you, love you, care for you.Originally posted by skeujin: -
she's my best pal. she stood by me when i had breakups, i stood by her when she had hers. she sometimes can get too impulsive and forget about long term stuff. i'm like a reminder for her.... u know. her advisor...Originally posted by Xcert:Winky...dont go? -
latest headline from her sms inbox:
"u horny s*ut just woke up need to get banged liao--- guess 2day is a cock up again. u want can go fu ck sm other guys these few days. just wear protection." her ex
i don't know how she can stand that....
don't ask me what she said to him before that, she refused to tell me, but i can guess.
sometimes i think she is hopeless....... what can i say/scold/tell her to make her wake up. ran out of lines liao. -
i think even if the girl is kissing other guy , it's considered betray liao.
anyway if i am her current bf , i surely even woulden accept she is talking dirty with other guys . -
i wanna faint liao.......
she reply him and he sent another even more sick sms to her:
"today knock off very late. u dun haf to wait 4me only mah. sure haf other choices. i wanna know all e details if anything happen."
then i probe her about what they talk about last night. she told me he wanted to know about all the things she and anyone else did (as in sexual intimacy). it seem to turn him on..... she was a little shock now. cos i told her its her fault now that her ex think of her as a sl ut, cos she keep giving the idea by wanting to carry out a secret sexual relationship with him.
she like wanna cry now, so i stopped telling her off. let her digest the info slowly, so she can understand what will she become if she goes on like this. i feel sad for her as well. sigh...