Some ONS problems... can help?
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i think your friend is suffering big time from addiction to sex..
get her mind off it.. spend time with her and distract her to do something else.. she'll break down some day.. -
the thing is, she has an addiction, guys will feed her addiction. somemore she look quite pretty. but pretty or not, guys would voluntary to feed her addiction anyway. sometimes i find myself getting turn on by her also.....Originally posted by sillyme:i think your friend is suffering big time from addiction to sex..
get her mind off it.. spend time with her and distract her to do something else.. she'll break down some day..
but i don't think she can accept lesbian relationship with me and a normal relationship with her bf... -
i know its not right of me to think of something like that. but then again, i would rather her become a bisexual than having sexual relationship with her ex.
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i think it's more impt to make her to find self-respect and self-identity..
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Tell her don't go down that road. If she has sex with her ex, she had better plan for the likelihood that her bf will find out. When he does, it's going to open a giant can of worms.
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i don't know. her current bf is good to her. dotes on her, loves her very much. she don't need to have input, she get tender loving care. she just need to reciprocate to him, and all's well.
but she easily change her mind, fickled-minded.
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It's hard to help someone who doesn't know what he/she wants in the first place. If she thinks the sex is what she wants then should break it off with her bf. But sex is not everything, she can always DIY.
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so the problem is she don't know what she wants lor.. maybe she need to get away and do some reflection..
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Yeah, reflection is good.
Tell her sex isn't everything. If she wants some sexual release, there are always other things to do... because after all, it's just tension that she wants to get rid of right? -
She's a BIACH !
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u got to go down hard on her, bring her to a quiet location and give her a thorough dressing down. if she cry, continue to whack her....
left right center....maybe after all this crying will wake up, else, u just have to buy her condies...that's the next best and impt thing u can help her liao...
If all else fails, u can ask her to look for me. -
Foolishness is one of Love ultimate cosmic lesson to undergo. Its ok if you are naive, because like a lamb, you can be brought back to safety lands with guidance. Foolishness in relationship isn't like what it is in real life - blinded and totally shut from assistance - they don't even feel the need to help for one.Originally posted by winky:Some problems that is going to be sexually related BGR.
Current situation:
Female lead is attached.
Proposed situation:
one of the female lead's ex (the one she loved the most) were chatting the other day. suddenly, they were on the topic of masturbation. then went on further to talk about their fantasies and such. soon, they even made an appointment on when they are gonna help each other masturbate.
Problems:
1) Is she betraying her current bf?
2) She still carries a torch for this ex, but she knows the sexual activity will not lead to them getting back to before. (ie, she's a willing partner and requires no string attached). The problem is the guy had an ONS since they last had sex (the girl and boy broke up sometime ago, but he was the last bf she had before she is attached). The girl hasn't had any sex with the current bf before because she doesn't like him enough to do it.
3) She don't know whether to stay with someone who will love her more than she love him or to just engage herself in sexual activities with her ex (someone she loves more than the guy would love her) with no status (as a gf) or whatsoever.
what do you think?
As if face with face with the demon itself. She would be mortally wounded by her own foolish flames and return disfigured and maimed.
I) A big YES - she is betraying her current boyfriend and what she is doing, she is consciously, willingly and on her own accord, acting upon her decision.
II) + III) She wants to linger with her past, at COST, without gaining a single thing. She will only realise and learn only when she have lost much and panic sinks in. I may not know her, but I am sure she is either...
- Bad early enviromental influence - e.g. family whole life quarrel, dad/mum flirt, exposure to ill-bearing environment relating to love, relationship and sex.
- She is inferior as a person. e.g. Poor outlook of life, not positive as a note, attract partners that doesn't treat her well.
- (Astrology) possible affliction in 8th house.
P.S: As a friend, do what you must to save her. If all fail - let experience take over the teaching instead.
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HI ALL!! How to check value of E-Z link card online ar?..
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Hey brother, u very out of point leh....Originally posted by megatron:HI ALL!! How to check value of E-Z link card online ar?..
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Hey Friend, Can check online meh??? How har can tell me or not???Originally posted by megatron:HI ALL!! How to check value of E-Z link card online ar?..
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Hi pinkjo, aiyah, If i know how to checked E-Z link card online, I wont need to ask all the jiejies N korkor here oredi rite? wat say U teach me to check,,mayb hold hands n like so romantic hor...Originally posted by PinkJo:Hey Friend, Can check online meh??? How har can tell me or not???
I like your originality...
I like ur originality too... -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:I may not know her, but I am sure she is either...
- Bad early enviromental influence - e.g. family whole life quarrel, dad/mum flirt, exposure to ill-bearing environment relating to love, relationship and sex.
some sort..... quite true
- She is inferior as a person. e.g. Poor outlook of life, not positive as a note, attract partners that doesn't treat her well.
not very true. she doesn't attract just partner who treats her bad, but its more like she likes the 'bad boys' better.... don't ask me why..
- (Astrology) possible affliction in 8th house.
8th house is it scorpio? she is.
P.S: As a friend, do what you must to save her. If all fail - let experience take over the teaching instead.
[i]finally, she overcome it. she told her ex to stop liao. after he said those hurtful sms to her, "horny sl ut", "fu ck other guys", i also cannot stand it when i saw those sms. i told her, even if she very desperate she still has a bf, what for reduce herself to a sl ut? if she does it with him, her reputation all gone. and he is not going to marry her if anything happens. at least her bf would.
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double post.
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still trying to check if poss to check EZ link card online? But JiesJies & kor kor here so buzi wz their "Adult" problems, or rather their own sexually addicted problems N say it's their friends one....
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Your early environment consitute heavily to your attitude and behavior towards love. She can't even see through this point of him and even considered his 'proposal' of a non-committment sexual relationship with him TOGETHER with the fact that she loves to fall for 'bad guy' (in definition, guys who treat her like dirt, don't appreciate or abuse her in some form) - this shows that she don't really love herself, as much and her family influence is probably towards the negative side.Originally posted by winky:I may not know her, but I am sure she is either...
- Bad early enviromental influence - e.g. family whole life quarrel, dad/mum flirt, exposure to ill-bearing environment relating to love, relationship and sex.
some sort..... quite true
- She is inferior as a person. e.g. Poor outlook of life, not positive as a note, attract partners that doesn't treat her well.
not very true. she doesn't attract just partner who treats her bad, but its more like she likes the 'bad boys' better.... don't ask me why..
- (Astrology) possible affliction in 8th house.
8th house is it scorpio? she is.
P.S: As a friend, do what you must to save her. If all fail - let experience take over the teaching instead.
finally, she overcome it. she told her ex to stop liao. after he said those hurtful sms to her, "horny sl ut", "fu ck other guys", i also cannot stand it when i saw those sms. i told her, even if she very desperate she still has a bf, what for reduce herself to a sl ut? if she does it with him, her reputation all gone. and he is not going to marry her if anything happens. at least her bf would.
Cheers
Our partner is but mirror of ourselves. We attract mates from the characteristic that we demostrate. Therefore from the kind of partner we are with - it shows the (not neccessary conscious, sometimes its unconscious) side of you.
She is a scorpio? Scorpio tend to undergo some tedious and intense relationship in their lives. Highly sexual, emotional and extremist in relationship. Anyway, gald that she managed to live pass this period. From what I see here, this guy's behavior is so repulsive and bast@rdy - without him in her life, she would be much happier.
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How har, megatron kor kor, u manage to find out how to check online?? hold hands romantic meh.. i think sharing small small umbrella more romantic leh...Originally posted by megatron:Hi pinkjo, aiyah, If i know how to checked E-Z link card online, I wont need to ask all the jiejies N korkor here oredi rite? wat say U teach me to check,,mayb hold hands n like so romantic hor...
I like ur originality too...
Megatron kor kor, those jie jies and kor kors very funny hor, they do already then they ask and regret.. why they don't ask first before they do har.. like in my school, i ask teacher can go toilet or not first before i go mah.. if i never ask hor, teacher will scold me one leh... -
What! Her boyfriend would marry her? I doubt it if he knew what she had been up to...... Please be kind and tell him what sort of girl your friend is..... he deserves better!Originally posted by winky: -
can those two stop toking abt the ez-link card thing? -
my god bear u spoke my heart....Originally posted by the Bear:if you need answers to these, i don't think any explanation will ever suffice...
juz do wat u wan and dun regret...as u said...the ger dun need any strings attached...
seems like she juz wana hv sex...then go ahead...and live wif tis piece of history.... -
Hmmm.... isn't this a place where we voice our thoughtsOriginally posted by -=|nN0c3Nt=-:
can those two stop toking abt the ez-link card thing?
Then hor, the pictures relevant to the case meh??
Anyway har... megatron kor kor, i called them leow, cannot check online lah... must go to the machines or counters to check lah... they not so high-tech yet... Then again har... there's no right or wrong to this case lah... it's just how comfortable the parties involved are... it's like... errrmmm..... driving a car ?? the driver knows he can handle the wheels, others may think that he is reckless, the Traffic Police will arrest him for not keeping to the speed limit... the whole idea is not getting caught for your action and as long as you don't cause harm to others... right????... wow.. so happy i'm getting smart... kekeke....