R we that open minded???
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i think he meant b4 u 2 were together maybe?Originally posted by NeonTetra:if she loves me then why she sleeps with my best friend??? -
wah... i am open minded. but i have no idea how will i react when i find out my gf was raped before... but i'll dump her if she slept with my close fren. If she does love me, why would she slp with my friend?Originally posted by ^MaRcUs^:Guys, You can say 1001 times that u luv her and so on...
but what if she tell you one fine day that..
1) she's being rape before /
2) she have slept with one of ur close friend before/
3) she used to sleep around.....
will u still tell her: "I Luv U dear, no matter what"......or...
"well, actually the two of us really cannot click together"
keke..what will u do?
and Girls, same thing happened to u....
what will ur reaction be? (of coz ur bf cannot be raped hor..take it he raped someone be4...2) and 3) same)
keke
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i see......hhmm....Originally posted by dumbdumb!:i think he meant b4 u 2 were together maybe? -
It is linked of cos. But the reaction is different.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:hmm.. i see.. ..
btw. i can't see yr thread.
but acceptance is linked to open mindedness, don't you think?
and i did define love. read above
Open mindedness is viewing things in general. Acceptance of issue which have yourself involved in the sceneis a very personal view and opinion. -
WAY TO GO EVILCLOWN !! YOU ARE BACK !!!Originally posted by Evil Clown:
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i pity you...
you will never know true loveOriginally posted by dumbdumb!:love IS a trade, you love someone because there is something in that person that appeals to you, and you feel good when the same love is given back.
if not its called one sided love, and that kinda shiat always ends bad.
human love is never unconditional. if you think that is even remotely possible, its really silly. even one sided love, how long can it last? 1 year before you lose hope and interest? love is a trade. crudely put.
now you are contradicting yourself homie, first you say love is without reason, now you say love has reason, so which do you want? -
one sided love never true love.Originally posted by the Bear:i pity you...
you will never know true love -
if this so called love without reason is called true love, i don't need it. cause it will usually lead to only one sided love. its only blindness.Originally posted by the Bear:i pity you...
you will never know true love
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that is why, love has reasons reason cannot understand...
love just is.. warts and all.. it takes a brave person to love... coz the only type of love there is, is the type where you go in, full-on, 100%, and damn the consequences!
only that is of value.. others are just trade..Originally posted by dumbdumb!:if this so called love without reason is called true love, i don't need it. cause it will usually lead to only one sided love. its only blindness. -
Can't believe that Evil clown actually broke the flow of my post.
Especially with my great conclusion.
To evil clown
piak! piak! -
hahaha...Originally posted by dumbdumb!:good question.. honestly i would be shocked. and honestly? i duno what will my reaction. i cannot simply say "love without reason" and all that bull. i doubt anyone would be calm straight away and take it like nothing happen. that isn't love, thats blindness. maybe true love, would consider it, think things thru, if the gal/guy regrets it, turn over a new leaf, looks over the past, and move on. thats a diff issue. not simply just "dear... i slept with your best friend" "so? i still love you, i don't care" thats a friggin lie. lol no one would be calm straight away.
Frank and honest guy! -
Hahahaha...Originally posted by Christy:1) she's being rape before /
Ans: I think the guy will just dump her.
2) she have slept with one of ur close friend before/
Ans: He will dump her
3) she used to sleep around.....
Ans: Think most people fool around often now.
3 simple questions and i have lots of arguements hor...NOT GUYS!
dun believe? quote u a potential ans k....
for Female:
Q 1)"Dear, It is not an act that many can accept, but i see that as past. what most importantly is u changed!, and i will be behind u honey!"
Q 2)"Dear, its very alarming to hear u slept with her, and my heart broke instantly....I truly love u alot and u did this to me...but I am glad u are frank to me....One more time thats it k........"
Q 3)"As your woman, i really cannot accept that u have been sleeping around...Am I not good enough?..........ok...give u a last chance........"
See? I think most girls, after some sweet talking by BFs will sure be soft hearted one.....but how about the guys??
Q1)"how can u let that happened? told u many time to dress up more conservely wor...see now...cannot let others know! I dun wanna ppl to know i married someone who's been raped be4........"
Q2)"U bitch! there's no way i can accept that u slept with my bro!"
Q3)"U are really loose, cheap, BITCH!"
i agree that Love is not totally blind..
if it is Blind, it applies more to the ladies....
for guys are mostly more...."da nan ren"
but to me, past is not that important...
what matters most is now and future rite?
who dun make mistakes?
most important is he// she turn over a new leaf rite?
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thank youOriginally posted by ^MaRcUs^:hahaha...
Frank and honest guy! -
Originally posted by ^MaRcUs^:
Hahahaha...
i agree that Love is not totally blind..
if it is Blind, it applies more to the ladies....
for guys are mostly more...."da nan ren"
Don't agree to almost all of it.
but to me, past is not that important...
what matters most is now and future rite?
who dun make mistakes?
most important is he// she turn over a new leaf rite?
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[quote]Originally posted by ^MaRcUs^:
Guys, You can say 1001 times that u luv her and so on...
but what if she tell you one fine day that..
1) she's being rape before /
Probably feel sorry for her... But if it doesn't really affect her for now, I'll just keep my mouth shut?
2) she have slept with one of ur close friend before/
Hmm... While she's with me or what? If when she wasn't with me, I'll ASK.... "So how good is he in bed?"
If while she's with me? I'll ask "Why?"
3) she used to sleep around.....
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if you truly love her, all these shouldn't matter..
true love is unconditional.. it's hard for someone who has not experience unconditional love to love unconditionally.. yes human emotions will get in the way, but it's a choice not to be affected by it.. is it possible? yes, it is.. has it been done before? yes,
it has been..
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*double post*
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The ego lah. Some men just cannot accept that (too many) other men have slept with their girlfriends before. Sure we're open minded - as long as it doesn't happen to us! But if you love someone & you want the relationship to work out, love would overrule your ego.
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ego and pride.. eeeevil...Originally posted by choco B:The ego lah. Some men just cannot accept that (too many) other men have slept with their girlfriends before. Sure we're open minded - as long as it doesn't happen to us! But if you love someone & you want the relationship to work out, love would overrule your ego.