Sex Drugs
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Try talking to him. If talking doesn't help. Then dun let him have wat he wants. Dun gib him sex for maybe a week or so & see how it goes?Originally posted by `wAwA`:nah it wasnt u...
i was juz being too confused.. tatz all..
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i'd tried tat.. i avoid sex wif him for like a week plus. den he juz take off my shorts in de morning n juz pump me away.. though i said no.........Originally posted by bjork:Try talking to him. If talking doesn't help. Then dun let him have wat he wants. Dun gib him sex for maybe a week or so & see how it goes?
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goodness! Are u living in with him? Dear, are u happy being together with him?Originally posted by `wAwA`:i'd tried tat.. i avoid sex wif him for like a week plus. den he juz take off my shorts in de morning n juz pump me away.. though i said no......... -
no im not living wif him.. onli go over his place during fri, sat, sun..Originally posted by bjork:goodness! Are u living in with him? Dear, are u happy being together with him?
its like when we wake up.. but still lying on bed nua.. he will juz take off my shorts........ when i said no.. no mood..
happy? erm.. alright la.. basically minus de sex part still can make it la..
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if its me i would have kick or pinch his dick real hard, dress up & walk out of his place. I will look back at him and _I_Originally posted by `wAwA`:no im not living wif him.. onli go over his place during fri, sat, sun..
its like when we wake up.. but still lying on bed nua.. he will juz take off my shorts........ when i said no.. no mood..
happy? erm.. alright la.. basically minus de sex part still can make it la.. 
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wah.. fierce...Originally posted by bjork:if its me i would have kick or pinch his dick real hard, dress up & walk out of his place. I will look back at him and _I_
if onli i can react like ya..
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Wawa... i read your thread, i guess u also want to enjoy the sex wif your bf too, not that u dowan sex wif your bf rite? But your bf not cooperating, so u very confused, rite?
Tell u wat, you must be more firm, cannot always be so submissiv to your bf wan. When your bf want to have sex wif u, u can just play along wif him, take off clothes also can, oral also can, but just STOP when he goes for penetration. When oral dat time also DUN LET HIM CUM. purposely make him very uncomfortable, must be firm and reject him!!! Tell him to give u foreplay if he want to carry on. If he really luvs you, he'll soften and give you wat you need. But if he doesn't love you, he'll just continue to FORCE HIS WAY into you..... machiam like RAPING YOU. That's when i strongly suggest u should reconsider your relationship, better still leave him immediately.
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ni ke yi de. Must be firm. Its ur body ur choice u have every right to reject anybody that treat it brutally.Originally posted by `wAwA`:wah.. fierce...
if onli i can react like ya.. -
yea... understand.. but we together like very long liao leh.... abit -.-""Originally posted by kurai:Wawa... i read your thread, i guess u also want to enjoy the sex wif your bf too, not that u dowan sex wif your bf rite? But your bf not cooperating, so u very confused, rite?
Tell u wat, you must be more firm, cannot always be so submissiv to your bf wan. When your bf want to have sex wif u, u can just play along wif him, take off clothes also can, oral also can, but just STOP when he goes for penetration. When oral dat time also DUN LET HIM CUM. purposely make him very uncomfortable, must be firm and reject him!!! Tell him to give u foreplay if he want to carry on. If he really luvs you, he'll soften and give you wat you need. But if he doesn't love you, he'll just continue to FORCE HIS WAY into you..... machiam like RAPING YOU. That's when i strongly suggest u should reconsider your relationship, better still leave him immediately.
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haiz.. y am i so cham?
wif him i've long forgotten the feelin of orgasm...
n he lidat treat me somemore...
maybe self masturbation is an alternative?
or maybe i go out find a fling to 'gek' him
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more like to satisfy yourself...Originally posted by `wAwA`:or maybe i go out find a fling to 'gek' him
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Originally posted by `wAwA`:no.. drugs on me.. not on him..
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Y not u try K? Ketamine..... $45 per gram it may make u
N not oblivious to the pain ^ ^ .if he is really pushing the limit, break up better, there r better guys out there who is gentle n caring... i believe most guys in this forum r nice guys . if u need the drug can look for mi but advising u, dun touch drugs...... its bad for u 
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but seriously people.. will u all break up ya gf or bf juz bcoz he or she is bad in bed?
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Does he luv u at all??Originally posted by `wAwA`:my bf seems uninterested in foreplay..
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respect yourself...
stay away from drugs, and all those other things...
respect yourself enough not to use someone else to "gek" him...
and he must respect you too...
one of the basic tenents of a relationship...
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he may not be sick of u but he is used to having only himself satisfied from having sex with u... maybe he is addicted to it and just want to have it... i think it is still best for u to have a heart to heart talk with him so that he really knows. u must be daring to tell him all of your feelings and dont just keep quite when he insist that you are ready when u are not. u have to make him willing to communicate with u and not just drive his idea through. if he still shows this kind of unwilling to communicate attitude, i think it is quite pointless to let him have his way coz it will only worsen the situation. got to be firm and not let him have his way until he is willing to listen to u, even though if it may mean a breakup. u can imagine if more serious things pop up next time, will he listen to u??? but if he really wants to break with u due to this, just break lor not worth keeping liao coz he really dont care for your feelings at all by making u feel like a sex slave...Originally posted by `wAwA`:yeah.. u r kinda right.. but the prob is he is not like tat last time..
so does it mean he's sick of me or waD?
so what if u are with him very long liao does that give him the right to just pull down your shorts and pump u... THIS IS RAPE OK!!! do u think this is the way a guy will treat his beloved??? no respect for u coz u didnt protect yourself, never thought of your feelings. i really wanna scold him... ruin all the men's reputation... i suggest that u keep a distance from this 'bf' of yours. stop going to his home or else next time all u will be meeting him will be his home and nowhere else coz he can get what he only wanted from u there. go other places and never his home. be firm kick his dick and wake him up if he do this again. what do u think he treating u as??? a machine to satisfy himself??? i think u need to ask yourself is this the kind of relationship u want. sex and nothing else seems to be on his mind. dont take into consideration of the duration u all have been together. more impt is what u want, a bf that respects u for who u are or a bf that dont treat u like a human at all. -
i wonder if u overdose what will happen...
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die? yea.. y not?Originally posted by dumbdumb!:i wonder if u overdose what will happen...
heard can die wan -
don't give in to despair
please?Originally posted by `wAwA`:die? yea.. y not? -
sex is impt and more so when you are married cos you have him/her as a life time partner. imagine yourself not satisfied in this area...will you cheat on him sooner or later?? I think the qns is definitely a resounding yes!
if you're having these minor problems now and you are not able to resolve it with him, how then may i ask that you be able to resolve it when (if this is gonna happen ) you guys are finally together forever leh?
be wise, not sorry and don't contribute to the divorce rating. think girl, think!
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oh yes, basically you need not even think of having sex drugs if he can solve it for you. sex, love making IS about TWO person and not only him or you. it takes both organs to cum together.
remember, no drugs also can get your O one. maybe even multiple Os if done right. get it?
i seriously think your current bf is not worth the effort anymore. he's immature, selfish and inconsiderate. i pray he'll change in the near future and discover the real pleasures of love making.
tell him to jerk himself off the next time. basically, its lust that is in him. i don't see any love in your replies about your relationship with him.
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wat ur bf is doin is as good as rape, just that u didn't fight back. as long as u said no, and he continued, it is rape.
Conclusion: ur bf is treating u like a sex machine, he doesn't care about ur feelings, all he wants is to satisfy himself using u.
Solution: dump him, 1yr+ of relationship is nothing, find some1 better -
he being a d*ck, u must stand up for your happiness n tell him wats wrong wif him, leave his when he dun listen. if he truly cares he will change... be strong..
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Tat's rape!!!!!!!!Originally posted by `wAwA`:i'd tried tat.. i avoid sex wif him for like a week plus. den he juz take off my shorts in de morning n juz pump me away.. though i said no.........
Wat kind of BF is tat!!!!!!!!!!!
I'll dump him straight and tell him to screw himself!