Can you accept a non virgin wife?
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u looking for love or u looking for chastity in marriage?Originally posted by NeonTetra:virginity is not merely physical..its condition of the heart. i would prefer one with thr right heart..because most likelt tt is accompanied by her chastity. -
both..Originally posted by setokaiba:u looking for love or u looking for chastity in marriage?
if she love me, she will keep it for me. somehow they r inter-related.
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First of all, nope I dun mind at all, and in fact I would prefer my wife to be quite experience in terms of sexuality...
Too green or a virgin, well the guy will have a tough time "coaching" her and it will take her a long long time to get those inhabits off...which means, maybe no oral, no this no that for a long time...until she slowly opens up.....
Virgin so wat...how long a tight ger can remains tight? -
you go around calling others idiot when virgin is concern.Originally posted by the Bear:i'm going to be brutally frank...
you're an idiot...
Your weak point maybe
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Wat if the one u love is not anymore?Originally posted by NeonTetra:both..
if she love me, she will keep it for me. somehow they r inter-related. -
unless its given to me. if not i will forget her past.Originally posted by setokaiba:Wat if the one u love is not anymore? -
so if its not given to u then u will forget her past rite? tt means u will accept her for who she is lo. then y tok abt all these non-related things?Originally posted by NeonTetra:unless its given to me. if not i will forget her past. -
watever...y u so keen to know my preference?Originally posted by setokaiba:so if its not given to u then u will forget her past rite? tt means u will accept her for who she is lo. then y tok abt all these non-related things? -
i am not keen to noe it. I am just stating a fact tt true love shld consider this at all.Originally posted by NeonTetra:watever...y u so keen to know my preference? -
why not?
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Reading this thread, I am quite shocked to know that the modern day Singaporean man is still quite obsessed about the viginity issue.
It's so conservative, and it's strange to me as the users in this forum are also quite young.
Honestly guys...virginity should not be an issue when you choose to marry someone. Marriage is based not on virginity, but a mutual respect and understanding of each other. If you are going to judge the ladies on virginity, then I feel you are living in the wrong century. -
Maybe the question can be asked to gals instead....
Will you accept a non virgin husband?
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Definitely.Originally posted by cooleo:Maybe the question can be asked to gals instead....
Will you accept a non virgin husband? -
yeah! I totally agree with u!Originally posted by Jeannie:Reading this thread, I am quite shocked to know that the modern day Singaporean man is still quite obsessed about the viginity issue.
It's so conservative, and it's strange to me as the users in this forum are also quite young.
Honestly guys...virginity should not be an issue when you choose to marry someone. Marriage is based not on virginity, but a mutual respect and understanding of each other. If you are going to judge the ladies on virginity, then I feel you are living in the wrong century. -
no man.. it had nothing to do with the subject.. it had everything to do with the mentality of weird70s...
go read his post and realise what kind of crap he just posted... and if he believes in what he has written, goodness! i wonder if he has enough brainpower to breathe!Originally posted by F.O.S:you go around calling others idiot when virgin is concern.
Your weak point maybe -
yep sure
I can accept a non-virgin wife -
just curious, do you think your parents would accept a non-virgin daughter-in-law? I mean, of course most of u can, on account of love. But wat about your parents' approval? This is an asian society after all. Parents' views still hold some weight.
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anyone who lets their folks have a say in their choosing their own life partner does not deserve to get married..
and their parents do not deserve to have children...Originally posted by kurai:just curious, do you think your parents would accept a non-virgin daughter-in-law? I mean, of course most of u can, on account of love. But wat about your parents' approval? This is an asian society after all. Parents' views still hold some weight. -
or third best, fourth best or even more.... if they have done it more then onceOriginally posted by damz83:I don't think itz very easy to find a virgin around these days... so why not just settle for second best instead. -
u mean ur parents will go and find out if ur wife-to-be next time is a virgin or not?Originally posted by kurai:just curious, do you think your parents would accept a non-virgin daughter-in-law? I mean, of course most of u can, on account of love. But wat about your parents' approval? This is an asian society after all. Parents' views still hold some weight.
even if they do, can just bluff them that she is...
if a guy's parents forbid the two of them to be together just because she's not a virgin and the guy listen to his parents, then he's a f**king idiot... luckily it's a blessing for the girl as she dun have to marry a mummy's boy... -
yes. i realize the futility of being religious in the bar forum. i only see the present state and the future because i believe whatever past can be cleansed and nullified.Originally posted by hope1:Can you accept a non virgin wife? -
i think u missed my point. Of course i also agree that it's u who marry your wife, not your parents, so they should not control your life. But parents as they are, it's perfectly normal for them to express their opinions of their doaughter-in-law, or they wouldn't be parents afer all! As for whether a person should be swayed by his parents' opinions is a case-to-case basis of whether wife more important or parents more important. -BUT- my whole point of the question is just to see how many parents of this age is still stubborn on the chastity issue.Originally posted by the Bear:anyone who lets their folks have a say in their choosing their own life partner does not deserve to get married..
and their parents do not deserve to have children...
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still got non virgins nowadays ?
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To each his own. I still feel that virginity does have a bearing on one's character. If a guy can't accept the fact that his girl is not a virgin, he should not force himself to do so just because the people around him hold the view that virginity is irrelevant.Originally posted by Jeannie:Reading this thread, I am quite shocked to know that the modern day Singaporean man is still quite obsessed about the viginity issue.
It's so conservative, and it's strange to me as the users in this forum are also quite young.
Honestly guys...virginity should not be an issue when you choose to marry someone. Marriage is based not on virginity, but a mutual respect and understanding of each other. If you are going to judge the ladies on virginity, then I feel you are living in the wrong century. -
Why don't someone post a "Can you accept a non virgin Husband?"