will u sign a pledge to remain a virgin till marriage?
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nice.. i like ur attitudeOriginally posted by dumbdumb!:not only churches la.. though the teachers are christians.. muslim teachers are applying this oso. i think its a good movement.
i mean all the teachers do is show the consequences, and show interviews of ppl regreting their decisions, hear their lifestory.
showing the students the reality of it, that no protection is totally 100% safe, it only takes 1% to make it a risky gamble.
you could be the unlucky 1%
what then? to abort is to kill. and blood is on your hands, on your conscience.
no one is saying sex is wrong and evil, and shouldn't hv sex.. just reserve urself for the one u marry and love, that way.. not much can go wrong. at least there is a feeling of security for both parties.
i signed it. no peer pressure. cuz i was the first to stand up
anytime i want, i can be like u all.. but u can never again be someone like me.
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i enjoy as a virgin .. i respect my future partner.
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Haha, Respect. Brother.Originally posted by antoh:i enjoy as a virgin .. i respect my future partner. -
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i signed it. no peer pressure. cuz i was the first to stand up
anytime i want, i can be like u all.. but u can never again be someone like me.
cool! like ur confidence!
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it is by Focus On The Family Singapore (FOTF), a Christian charity organisationOriginally posted by bus:
May I know where to sign the pledge to keep his/her virginity before marriage? I feel like doing so. -
just for relevance, this is an article in response to the report:
http://straitstimes.asia1.com.sg/columnist/0,1886,1141,00.html -
wat's the use? many people just sign it out of pressure...
imagine ur frens are all signing and u alone refuse to... wat will they think... many of them just have to sign it even if they aren't really sincere... -
i think its good for us to keep in mind tt sex after marriage is preferred not only bcoz of tradition, in-laws but also bcoz of health reasons.
but anyow, it is nice to be V. but even if u r not, does not matter. and there is no such rule as a person not a V commands less respect fr their partners. ppl dun lie to each other. honesty still best policy in relationships....(dun be like tt guy who hv aids and married his wife oso nvr tell her). that is BAD -
They are being self-righteous...Originally posted by Coco_Coco:hey... not sure if anyone has discussed this here before... but recently there has been a report on a people signing a pledge to remain virgins till they are married. it is initiated by Focus On The Family Singapore (FOTF), a Christian charity organisation. will u sign or not sign it? why and why not? any opinions???
Why should u want to sign such a document...do your parents ask u to sign anything when u were growing up?? They should be focusing on other things than young pple having sex...
Look at City Harvest's He Yao Shan...I had a fren from the church where cell group members prohibit her from having posters of pop idols..and guess wat they are showing her MTV in church...how many times have u seen these self-righteous pple not practise what the teach? So what u signed the document and have sex eventually before marriage? You gg to hell or u have to pay a fine? They are not moral police...if you are say in your twenties and doing well and able to take responsibility for your actions...wats the big deal having a little sex before marriage? Signing a pledge is way too simplistic an idea... Jesus Christ didnt make anybody sign any pledges did he?? So where the hell did these pple get the idea from? Well I will make them sign a pledge to mind their own blooody business especially when its something as personal as having sex...silly bunch of shit heads...... -
well i am not a virgin and so are my frens, we didnt sign one (thank heavens) and we are proud of that tooOriginally posted by cagelee131:my group of frens didnt have to sign one ---we are all virgins till marriage...and we are proud of that.
young adult these days are too liberal ...
I would like to think that having sex as a freedom of expression...
young adults these days are gd in expressing their sexuality..
thing is dat sex life plays an important role in any marriage..it could be too late to find out after marriage...just my 2 cents worth... -
how can anyone pledge for something that they dun have???? guess that answers e question huh?
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Hey... relax fren. It is afterall opened to public. Wats done is done. As long as we stand by wat we believe, nth can affect us much. Sign or not, its up to every individuals.Originally posted by sgforums.com:They are being self-righteous...
Why should u want to sign such a document...do your parents ask u to sign anything when u were growing up?? They should be focusing on other things than young pple having sex...
Look at City Harvest's He Yao Shan...I had a fren from the church where cell group members prohibit her from having posters of pop idols..and guess wat they are showing her MTV in church...how many times have u seen these self-righteous pple not practise what the teach? So what u signed the document and have sex eventually before marriage? You gg to hell or u have to pay a fine? They are not moral police...if you are say in your twenties and doing well and able to take responsibility for your actions...wats the big deal having a little sex before marriage? Signing a pledge is way too simplistic an idea... Jesus Christ didnt make anybody sign any pledges did he?? So where the hell did these pple get the idea from? Well I will make them sign a pledge to mind their own blooody business especially when its something as personal as having sex...silly bunch of shit heads......
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some ppl nvr sign but still keep their virginity b4 marriage while some who signed it may lose theirs the next day...
my point is whether to sign or not doesn't matter so long as u have the discipline...