I was rejected .....cuz of my damn figure
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I recently met a girl on the internet and we get along on the phone very very well and we chat non stop you know ..We exchange picture she is not bad looking and she says I am good looking in the pic ....And one day we decided to meet , ha ha this thing happen she seems very disappointed but kept quiet but I can tell ....She agreed to be my GF on the phone and well ...you know.....She says I am too skinny and she got no sense of security being with me .......Oh no what have I done wrong please can anyone tell me ? I know I am skinny and I am only 51 kg you know I feel so inferior of myself for being so skinny I wanna cry ..She really broke my heart that time ....It still hurts now help Do girls really go for looks ??? But how can I gain weight no matter what i eat i am still so skinny like a stick
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being SKINNY is not ur fault...Originally posted by Mel Carter:I recencently met a girl on the internet and we get along on the phone very very well and we chat non stop you know ..We exchange picture she is not bad looking and she says I am good looking in the pic ....And one day we decided to meet , ha ha this thing happen she seems very disappointed but kept quiet but I can tell ....She agreed to be my GF on the phone and well ...you know.....She says I am too skinny and she got no sense of security being with me .......Oh no what have I done wrong please can anyone tell me ? I know I am skinny and I am only 51 kg you know I feel so inferior of myself for being so skinny I wanna cry ..She really broke my heart that time ....It still hurts now help
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Originally posted by Mel Carter:I recencently met a girl on the internet and we get along on the phone very very well and we chat non stop you know ..We exchange picture she is not bad looking and she says I am good looking in the pic ....And one day we decided to meet , ha ha this thing happen she seems very disappointed but kept quiet but I can tell ....She agreed to be my GF on the phone and well ...you know.....She says I am too skinny and she got no sense of security being with me .......Oh no what have I done wrong please can anyone tell me ? I know I am skinny and I am only 51 kg you know I feel so inferior of myself for being so skinny I wanna cry ..She really broke my heart that time ....It still hurts now help
eat more HEALTHILY, excercise more. next time you make online or SMS pals, don't meet up too hastily. let the relationship grow stronger first. -
Well , I can say she don't deserve for your love. She is looking for guys with good look. infact she is not as good as you think she is. Just forget about her and look for someone who will appreciate you more.
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i dunno...
how can one reject someone because of figure or anything??
take heart... look elsewhere?
it may sound like sour grapes but if she cannot accept you as you are, she's probably shallower than a puddle on a hot day
be well yah? and hope you find someone who will accept you for you -
No matter i eat I still weight the same and excerise I think I am a gonner.......sigh ....anyways thanks you people are so kind I felt it in my heartOriginally posted by boy in blues: eat more HEALTHILY, excercise more. next time you make online or SMS pals, don't meet up too hastily. let the relationship grow stronger first. -
well den i very fat den i qualify lah.
Hey man u r wat u r!
Dun change for anyone coz it's not worth it -
*me* buy 10 bowls of pig trotter for the skinny guy
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hey dude,
u can gain weight la.............i used to be 48kg u know!!!!!!! My frens teased me for my size......too small.......now im 62kg......not very heavy either but at least much more prsentable now. I think suppers can help......im serious........more tea breaks too -
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skinny better than fat lo! this shows tt u got high metabolism, tt is gd! invest in protein shakes lor, everyday drink protein shake and go gym for hardcore weights training, few months later sure put on weight, and weight in the form of muscles not fats! dun listen to bad advices take tidbits and fatty food, they onli provide cabohyrdrates fats and glucose which i think ur body burn very fast, so onli way is weights training to put on muscles lor.
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haha...some gal often like to xian this and tt...say u too skinny of too fat. u muz be in either one of them. then some also go for looks. this is not surprising.since u met one tt is like this, then dun be too serious in the relationship. who knows, she might leave u for a better guy some time later. someone better in terms of looks or figure. ya, but still cannot say dun haf nice gals. juz that they are quite rare. for this, u will need good judgement to tell but anyway, maybe u haf found one, u will discover that her type dun suit u. ya, so muz haf careful consideration. some gals however also go for other uncommon qualities, such as a music inclined one would most probably fal for another one that is talented in music or some sorts. so u should know urself wad are ur strong qualities. sigh* sooooooooo mani considerations, i think 90% of pple would most probably make the wrong choices in their lives.
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what for need 2 gain fat??since we all know one cannot judge a book by its cover... she just mind with ur thin figure(not that thin is better than fat meh??
) that represents that she is not mature enough....just 4get about her and i think u sure can find someone better than her....cheers up man..... -
How old are you Mel Carter?
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i got a great idea 4 u, nxt time when u meeting up gal wear more cloth. -
Don't worry about this girls you just met, she is superficial. She didn't want to be your girl friend because you are to skinny that just shows how lame this person is.
But however if your weight will affect you in the future with your interactions with other girls, just go to your local health food store and ask for something called a mass gainer with lots of calories. A good one I recommend if they have it in Singapore is called "Maxi's weight gainer". It really does work, I was to small to play rugby and after about 4 months of taking it and doing weights I went from 76 to 92 kilos.
Also there is a book called "Body for life" written by a guy name Bill Phillips, or you can just check out the website www.bodyforlife.com, which might help as well. -
bmt will work wonders, seriously
not BMT (SAF)
Body Mass Treatment programme -
I am 24 yrs old and look thin ok ..you happy money nowOriginally posted by eutjin:How old are you Mel Carter? -
Take up hardcore bodybuilding! You can ask me about it if you have queries!Originally posted by Mel Carter:I recently met a girl on the internet and we get along on the phone very very well and we chat non stop you know ..We exchange picture she is not bad looking and she says I am good looking in the pic ....And one day we decided to meet , ha ha this thing happen she seems very disappointed but kept quiet but I can tell ....She agreed to be my GF on the phone and well ...you know.....She says I am too skinny and she got no sense of security being with me .......Oh no what have I done wrong please can anyone tell me ? I know I am skinny and I am only 51 kg you know I feel so inferior of myself for being so skinny I wanna cry ..She really broke my heart that time ....It still hurts now help Do girls really go for looks ??? But how can I gain weight no matter what i eat i am still so skinny like a stick -
yes please guide me ....what is your weight now ? thankssssOriginally posted by Doenitz:Take up hardcore bodybuilding! You can ask me about it if you have queries! -
Do you think girls like boys with big chest and big biceps ??? I mean look big size rather than me look so weak and small ...Girls please contribute plsss like what kinda guys do you like I mean figure or built ...
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U how tall?
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i am 1.76 m but somehow I find her very hypocrite cuz I told her I am like that on the phone but she says she don't mind anything and willing to be with me but after the first meeting that's it ......end of game ....She told me if you become big size then I go with you with a .......you know that kinda look ....eyes on the headOriginally posted by Kevin-1982:U how tall? -
cannot lah, how can she...haiz
u dun worry lah, cheer up and look out for new gals lor, she is not worthy of u.
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thankss sgboy for your kind words ....Like in Spanish they say " No vales la pena " Means you are not worth it ...I mean sheOriginally posted by sgboy2004:cannot lah, how can she...haiz
u dun worry lah, cheer up and look out for new gals lor, she is not worthy of u.