I was rejected .....cuz of my damn figure
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hey dude.. we are of the same boat.. haha
i also very skinny... also like tat... it takes time to gain some weight like wad i am doing now... eat wad i suppose to eat.. no skipping of meals or wad ever lo... eat healthy den can liao... and do more work outs... wads more important is your health man !! -
some girls like guys with a abit of meat not musclesOriginally posted by Mel Carter:Do you think girls like boys with big chest and big biceps ??? I mean look big size rather than me look so weak and small ...Girls please contribute plsss like what kinda guys do you like I mean figure or built ...
like teddy bear a little plumb that type so its nice to hug
not all like big chest and biceps
but you should tell her that if spend rest of life together skinnier better
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chey...you are skinny?i tot u are fat so you were rejected....dun worry maybe you can find other girls who like skinny guys one day...just wait and im sure that your dreams will come true.....
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Thin??? U are thin then like that.. How bout me?? i am FAT!!! thin also don wan, fat also don wan... haiz.. wat can we do??
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there are pills that make u gain weight
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wanna stead when nvr even see ur face b4?? dunno u in real life?
sry for my rude opinion.. to me she sounds lyk a despo who jus take any guy who is "presentable" -
I'm eternally slim too at 55Kg and 1.71m. Don't feel so bad about yourself. She ain't worthy of your love if she's just going for your looks. What has you being skinny got to do with security? She afraid other girls might wanna pick you up?
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[/b]I recently met a girl on the internet and we get along on the phone very very well and we chat non stop you know [/quote]
Listen mate, I seriously doubt people can really connect with others over the internet and hit off a relationship, it does not make sense to me. You should not have taken it seriously, next time don't take it seriously, I believe if you want to find someone, do it in person, or go clubbing or something, as long as its not a chat thing only. You never know who is at the other end, next time it may be some cannibal freak who says he is who "she" is.She says I am too skinny and she got no sense of security being with me .......
Well most guys here are skinny, so its all right if you can blend in with the crowd. If your in a foreign country with big men then you should worry. But the feeling of security a woman gets does not just come from size and physical brawn, security comes in a lot more other forms: Money, Grace and attitude as well as charm. Examples, money is self explanatory for most of us I think. Grace/Charm can also give a woman security, for example when your walking with her along a road, you should act gentlemanly and walk with her keeping your body between her and the road, while your both on the pavement. Its simple things like this which reflect grace and character, that can also provide a woman with security.I know I am skinny and I am only 51 kg you know I feel so inferior of myself for being so skinny I wanna cry
If your 24 years old, 1.75 cm tall and only 51 kg, you are underweight, you should be at least 70 kg. So you should eat more carbohydrates or protein shakes to be more leaner. Its easy, just try it.But how can I gain weight no matter what i eat i am still so skinny like a stick
No mate, its not WHAT you eat, its HOW MUCH you eat that decides your weight. You really need to stuff yourself, you've got at least 20 kilos you need to gain. So you've got to do what Eddie Murphy did in Nutty Professor.
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Do girls really go for looks ???
Sadly, like most of us, YES. Girls do go for looks, but you must bear in mind that looks forms only a part of who we all are. However, looks are important, so is character, and while character is important so are looks, they come together. Both features one can change, so you have to work on it, everyone needs to work on something to be more perfect, even though it is harder to achieve.
Final words for you Mel: Keep looking until it becomes hopeless and then give up. The thrill of the chase will give you contentment, but soon the adrenaline will wear out and you will become dark and sinister. Trust me. But take care. -
aiyo.. don wori la.at least u are not fat rite? hmm, i tik eating supplements help rite? if not, try eating those fatty food like fatty meat, junk food...Originally posted by Mel Carter:I recently met a girl on the internet and we get along on the phone very very well and we chat non stop you know ..We exchange picture she is not bad looking and she says I am good looking in the pic ....And one day we decided to meet , ha ha this thing happen she seems very disappointed but kept quiet but I can tell ....She agreed to be my GF on the phone and well ...you know.....She says I am too skinny and she got no sense of security being with me .......Oh no what have I done wrong please can anyone tell me ? I know I am skinny and I am only 51 kg you know I feel so inferior of myself for being so skinny I wanna cry ..She really broke my heart that time ....It still hurts now help Do girls really go for looks ??? But how can I gain weight no matter what i eat i am still so skinny like a stick
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No you've done nothing wrong.Originally posted by Mel Carter:I She says I am too skinny and she got no sense of security being with me .......Oh no what have I done wrong please can anyone tell me ?
Look on the brighter side. At least you dont need to slim down.
Lots of people would want to be skinny and only 51kg.
You cant please everyone.
Maybe she'd feel better if you looked like Moses? (not the biblical Moses)
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i was once 98 when i was 15 but i am 188 cm
now i am 83++ but 191... too fat cannot
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u can have someone better.. someone who will love u for who u are and not cos of ur looks!
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wow lau i envy u sia skinny....come out wit me i teach u hw to be fat
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aiya anyway forgt abt tat girl lar....some go for looks 1... one day she will kana reject by someone cos her looks aso...is v realistic ....tis goes same to guys...who choose girls for figure wat
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nw still got those haven meet become gf bf fashion around ahhh???mus met 1 mah.....hw to be gf over pone...aiyo..kaoz..
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I would not say the girl is shallow or superficial. I am a firm believer of Darwin's theory about evolution - selective breeding amongst healthy beings. The girl you are talking about is just demostrating the natural primitive behaviour necessary for genetic survival in our world which has and will always be shaped by evolution of our human species.
Standing at 1.76m and weighing only 51 kg, I think you are in need of some mass gaining to look better. Your height is fine and mass can be gain through very traditional and common methods of eating and exercising.
Unlike me, only 1.67m and 60 kg, there are really hardly any easy methods for me to be nearer to the sky.
So if after reading this and you are still feeling sore over your failed attempt at finding a mate, then you are a weak-minded loser who does not qualify to compete in the evolution race. So start working out from today onwards. -
Frankly,51kg on 176cm is damm skinny...I know of gal models around your height but 4-5kg heavier than you but they are gals, you are a guy!You really need to work really hard in the gym in eat lotsa stuff.
Ideal weight for your height is 72-75kg.I'm 1.79 and my weight is around 78-80kg.
Ask you something-is your hips width the same as your shoulder width? -
51kg for a guy is really really light..moreover u stand at 1.76m, even worst, like a bamboo............
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aiya can one lar.....
wana fat takes 1 hour....wana slim down takes more time n $$$ -
Hey guy... im oso skinny mah.. erm.. wait a min.. is 184CM 70KG counted as skinny anot? Ok lah.. i was once a skinny guy b4 lah..
after going to poly.. i kept having 5 meals a day, chicken rice.. chicken cutlet.. noodles.. potatoes.. eggs... Eat high carbohydrate meals... jus eat.. dun care about the fats u are going to accumulate.. after u got fat enuff.. then go train as hard as u can. i was about 58KG in June.. and now im alreadi 70KG liaoz.. So work hard... JUs bomb ur body with carbohydrates!!! at least eat 3 potatoes aday.. haha.. jus my suggestion -
I didn't ask the question to put you down .... Was just asking, cause guys are normally thin, until they start working or when they start going to their 30's. Anyway, i think someone else has already said it, go down to a GNC store and get a big-a s s bucket of weight gainers. One of my friends actually did that, and he is trying not to gain too much weight nowOriginally posted by Mel Carter:I am 24 yrs old and look thin ok ..you happy money now
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hey, I'll suggest you eat healthly and go on a exercise program......that way you'll be able to gain mass, not fat.....
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hehe.. dont worry. u are not too thin, she is too fat.Originally posted by Mel Carter:I recently met a girl on the internet and we get along on the phone very very well and we chat non stop you know ..We exchange picture she is not bad looking and she says I am good looking in the pic ....And one day we decided to meet , ha ha this thing happen she seems very disappointed but kept quiet but I can tell ....She agreed to be my GF on the phone and well ...you know.....She says I am too skinny and she got no sense of security being with me .......Oh no what have I done wrong please can anyone tell me ? I know I am skinny and I am only 51 kg you know I feel so inferior of myself for being so skinny I wanna cry ..She really broke my heart that time ....It still hurts now help Do girls really go for looks ??? But how can I gain weight no matter what i eat i am still so skinny like a stick
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yea, i don't believe in internet romances. I think it's pretty sad that our younger generation are making friends online rather than in real life. People normally speak and behave differently online. Someone told me she is more real online, but what is real ?Originally posted by www:hehe.. dont worry. u are not too thin, she is too fat.
anyway, u ought to grow up a bit from these online going-stead stuff.
And the more you are into "virtual world" communication, the more isolated you are from the real world. -
Then next time,when you become much bigger and you see her on the streets,if she tries to be friendly with you(as you look much better now),tell her to FU-CK OFF!!!