This good good GAL and its just ME

• nightyoung

  15 Oct 04, 00:41

  Originally posted by stupidjoe:

  totally agree with bro dodobirdie... tats wat I used to do many yrs back...

  but did you contact her??
• stupidjoe

  15 Oct 04, 00:43

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  but did you contact her??

  yes... I still did contact her... as a good friend of course...
• nightyoung

  15 Oct 04, 00:48

  Originally posted by stupidjoe:

  yes... I still did contact her... as a good friend of course...

  i mean how is it possibe.. what about the things that happened in the past?
  its still a shadow... you know what i mean...
• stupidjoe

  15 Oct 04, 00:57

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  i mean how is it possibe.. what about the things that happened in the past?
  its still a shadow... you know what i mean...

  yup... it will always be a shadow in yr heart... but well... like everyone said... u got to let it go... n like wat I've said... if u luv her, u will want her to be happy all her life... we should help her search for happiness instead of clinching onto her...
• nightyoung

  15 Oct 04, 01:01

  Originally posted by stupidjoe:

  yup... it will always be a shadow in yr heart... but well... like everyone said... u got to let it go... n like wat I've said... if u luv her, u will want her to be happy all her life... we should help her search for happiness instead of clinching onto her...

  yes.. i always told myself that.. but when emotion overrules.. game is tough
• stupidjoe

  15 Oct 04, 01:23

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  yes.. i always told myself that.. but when emotion overrules.. game is tough

  u juz got to try n do it... make it a habit to treat her as a good friend... good for her n u as well...
• lolsuck

  15 Oct 04, 01:25

  omg u still dwelling over it..
• nightyoung

  15 Oct 04, 01:29

  Originally posted by lolsuck:

  omg u still dwelling over it..

  2 more mths and its a year...
  
  i told you guys before.. i can be in this for 2-3 years..
  and on the third year.. maybe i've seen too much and forget......
  
  i hate it.....
  
  and everytime when i say "i like u" to a gal.. she will become attached somehow later.. and i continued... and continued just like now...
• nightyoung

  15 Oct 04, 01:30

  maybe gay is good for me? hahaha
• stupidjoe

  15 Oct 04, 01:33

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  2 more mths and its a year...
  
  i told you guys before.. i can be in this for 2-3 years..
  and on the third year.. maybe i've seen too much and forget......
  
  i hate it.....
  
  and everytime when i say "i like u" to a gal.. she will become attached somehow later.. and i continued... and continued just like now...

  try mixing more with other gals n guys for outing... u may bring her along if u want as well... make this a healthier relationship (gd friend type)... hope it can help u in some way or another...
• stupidjoe

  15 Oct 04, 01:34

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  maybe gay is good for me? hahaha

  good... u will hv my full support for this... ~~~
• Blueskyz

  15 Oct 04, 01:47

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  maybe gay is good for me? hahaha

  I do hope you meant it as a joke cos I have friends who did that after failures in relationships and I don't think it's worth it.
  
  Cheer up my friend, you are not the only one go thru all these.
  
  I'm going thru it now and I know it's really hard but for my case, it's really hopeless.
  
  
• nightyoung

  15 Oct 04, 07:55

  Originally posted by Blueskyz:

  I do hope you meant it as a joke cos I have friends who did that after failures in relationships and I don't think it's worth it.
  
  Cheer up my friend, you are not the only one go thru all these.
  
  I'm going thru it now and I know it's really hard but for my case, it's really hopeless.
  
  

  joke..... but it occurred to me.. its good to me how fortunate woman are.. got so many guys caring about her.....
• ahmike

  15 Oct 04, 09:43

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  2 more mths and its a year...
  
  i told you guys before.. i can be in this for 2-3 years..
  and on the third year.. maybe i've seen too much and forget......
  
  i hate it.....
  
  and everytime when i say "i like u" to a gal.. she will become attached somehow later.. and i continued... and continued just like now...

  hahaha ...same like me lah bro ... but mine worst. THEY GET MARRIED!!! 3 girls i like all married after i told them i Luv them.
  
  
  
  i been cursed.... OMG
• Dodobirdie

  15 Oct 04, 16:15

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  2 more mths and its a year...
  
  i told you guys before.. i can be in this for 2-3 years..
  and on the third year.. maybe i've seen too much and forget......
  
  i hate it.....
  
  and everytime when i say "i like u" to a gal.. she will become attached somehow later.. and i continued... and continued just like now...

  10 mths? are u sure? and u are like this? i just came out of a 4 year relationship 6 mths ago and i'm in better state then u.
  
  all my ex are my good friends now. because i'm a strong believer in friendship. its never easy in the beginning but once u put emotions aside it gets easier.
  
  all those memories? we'll we talk abt them every now and then and we laugh abt it and enjoy the memories. but thats abt it.
  
  remember, if u love that person, u will want to make that person happy. it doesn't mean that she must be yours. imagine this. for the rest of her life, as long as u want her to be happy, she will forever be close to u, to look for u for comfort when she is sad, to look for u to make her happy when she is down, and to entertain her when she is bored.
  
  lets say u have 10 of this kinda girls, u will be too busy to have ur own gf. hahaha....just saying only.
  
  in regards to saying 'i like u' y dun u try this. action speaks louder then words. alot of times u dun need to say anything u already know wat the person is thinking and such. just go with the flow. sometimes saying i like u is like taking a short cut. but it doesn't always end where u want.
• blizt3r

  15 Oct 04, 20:26

  Erm is it worth it to hold on to something which does not belongs to u ? But if you do not hold on, how do you know it doesnt belongs to u someday ... Hold on there(but not too tight) you still got chance until the day she got married but she aint only the tree in the forest
• *Lord Kang*

  15 Oct 04, 21:27

  Originally posted by blizt3r:

  Erm is it worth it to hold on to something which does not belongs to u ? But if you do not hold on, how do you know it doesnt belongs to u someday ... Hold on there(but not too tight) you still got chance until the day she got married but she aint only the tree in the forest

  So wat is ur point??U like go one big round still end up with no answer...haha
• nightyoung

  15 Oct 04, 23:47

  she msg me just now .. and ask me whether i free to catch a movie..
  
  we chat alot and she said she not so free till 01 dec.. so i msg her dun forget me and she say never .. and i also reply back..
  
  perharps we are best friends (male and female friends) in the world
• *Lord Kang*

  16 Oct 04, 00:11

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  she msg me just now .. and ask me whether i free to catch a movie..
  
  we chat alot and she said she not so free till 01 dec.. so i msg her dun forget me and she say never .. and i also reply back..
  
  perharps we are best friends (male and female friends) in the world

  hope u really feel that way...yeah??
• nightyoung

  16 Oct 04, 00:17

  Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:

  hope u really feel that way...yeah??

  Yes.. already listed 5 things to do.. but need her help
  
  1) Repair her VCD player
  2) Meet her on every Thu
  3) Go to doc with her for Hep B Jab
  4) Learn tennis together
  5) Wants her to be happy
  
  That's all i asked for...... not too much right?
• *Lord Kang*

  16 Oct 04, 00:20

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  Yes.. already listed 5 things to do.. but need her help
  
  1) Repair her VCD player
  2) Meet her on every Thu
  3) Go to doc with her for Hep B Jab
  4) Learn tennis together
  5) Wants her to be happy
  
  That's all i asked for...... not too much right?

  As long as u don't go beyond wat a good/best friend will do for one another..I guess it is still ok..But u urself must be clear of the relationship u are having with her..If u say u two are best of friends..Then stick to it..Don't repeat ur old "mistakes" again..
• nightyoung

  16 Oct 04, 00:21

  Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:

  As long as u don't go beyond wat a good/best friend will do for one another..I guess it is still ok..But u urself must be clear of the relationship u are having with her..If u say u two are best of friends..Then stick to it..Don't repeat ur old "mistakes" again..

  I will... yes my lord....
• *Lord Kang*

  16 Oct 04, 00:27

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  I will... yes my lord....

  haha..no lah..for ur own good mah..damn..is another boring weekend again..haiya..cheer up ppl..
• nightyoung

  16 Oct 04, 00:36

  Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:

  haha..no lah..for ur own good mah..damn..is another boring weekend again..haiya..cheer up ppl..

  wish you a nice weekend!!
  
  Cheer up!!
  
• sleepycat

  16 Oct 04, 15:17

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  Yes.. already listed 5 things to do.. but need her help
  
  1) Repair her VCD player
  2) Meet her on every Thu
  3) Go to doc with her for Hep B Jab
  4) Learn tennis together
  5) Wants her to be happy
  That's all i asked for...... not too much right?

  .... get a shield guard for your heart!!!
  
  can amend item 5? Want myself to be happy