This good good GAL and its just ME
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I dont give suggestions but choice, its his life he can choose to live in whatever way he wanted.Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:So wat is ur point??U like go one big round still end up with no answer...haha
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Saw this at the other topics in sgforum..Thought that it was rather meaningful..Read it and see whether does it means anything to u..Enjoy..
Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all repaired their boats and left.
Love wanted to persevere until the last possible moment. When the island was almost sinking, Love decided to ask for help. Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said, "Richness, can you take me with you?" Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."
Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel, "Vanity, please help me!" "I can't help you Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat." Vanity answered.
Sadness was close by so Love asked for help, "Sadness, let me go with you." "Oh....Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"
Happiness passed by Love too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her!
Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come Love, I will take you." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that he even forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went his own way.
Love realizing how much he owed the elder and asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who helped me?" "It was Time," Knowledge answered. "Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?" Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, "Because, only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is." -
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Got a surprise call from her this afternoon..she asked me whether i want to have lunch together... as she's nearby my work place and will knock off at 1pm.. i suggested she come to my workplace as i was busy that time and there's a shopping mall nearby.. i asked her to give me a call when she reached there.. at about .130pm i reached there.. and i didn't see her.. at first when i called her her phone was off... then some time later.. she replied me that she got something urgent to attend to...
when i called her up.. she said that she wanted to see me coz she wearing the pretty dress i bought for her and wanted me to see it.. then she said can't already as she got to attend to her friend.. got some thing impt.. she said she will treat me lunch the next time and said that she dotes me the most.. of coz .. i say its ok for me.. then i was alone in the mall.. later i meet my friends to KTV.. wa .. keep thinking of her..esp.. the song that my friend sings that i was with her that time..... sighed...
Err.. no hard feelings,, just that i REALLY want to complete what i promise her.. except the last one whether she want or not is up to her.. The last one i promise her is to marry her...
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This was not part of the promise u told us about...And u urself told us that u two are the best friends in the world...So isn't that abit off??Originally posted by nightyoung:Got a surprise call from her this afternoon..she asked me whether i want to have lunch together... as she's nearby my work place and will knock off at 1pm.. i suggested she come to my workplace as i was busy that time and there's a shopping mall nearby.. i asked her to give me a call when she reached there.. at about .130pm i reached there.. and i didn't see her.. at first when i called her her phone was off... then some time later.. she replied me that she got something urgent to attend to...
when i called her up.. she said that she wanted to see me coz she wearing the pretty dress i bought for her and wanted me to see it.. then she said can't already as she got to attend to her friend.. got some thing impt.. she said she will treat me lunch the next time and said that she dotes me the most.. of coz .. i say its ok for me.. then i was alone in the mall.. later i meet my friends to KTV.. wa .. keep thinking of her..esp.. the song that my friend sings that i was with her that time..... sighed...
Err.. no hard feelings,, just that i REALLY want to complete what i promise her.. except the last one whether she want or not is up to her.. The last one i promise her is to marry her... -
yes i know that...... that was the last time we two at espanalade.. but.. right now... its not part of the 5 promise.. and yes. we are best friends in the worldOriginally posted by *Lord Kang*:This was not part of the promise u told us about...And u urself told us that u two are the best friends in the world...So isn't that abit off?? -
Yesterday, I chatted with the gal who's my good good friend now. After so many yrs... she seems so mature n contended with her husband now. I nv thought she could be tat happy. Btw, she's giving birth to a bb boy in a week's time.
Sometimes, I really think to myself... why didn't I let myself go cos of her for that painful 5 yrs... if only I noe that she could be a happier lady now... I should have already been a "freeman" many yrs back...
this is my experience n I hope u learnt something from here, bro nightyoung. ~~~
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ok.. advice accepted...Originally posted by stupidjoe:Yesterday, I chatted with the gal who's my good good friend now. After so many yrs... she seems so mature n contended with her husband now. I nv thought she could be tat happy. Btw, she's giving birth to a bb boy in a week's time.
Sometimes, I really think to myself... why didn't I let myself go cos of her for that painful 5 yrs... if only I noe that she could be a happier lady now... I should have already been a "freeman" many yrs back...
this is my experience n I hope u learnt something from here, bro nightyoung. ~~~
maybe i was a bit stuborn all along.. really this time after i did all those 5 things.. i ,... will lead my own life and she's my best friend forever.. -
glad u felt that way..I guess sometimes people cannot let go is because they thought that nothing will change between them..The sudden break up make people lost and so tend to hold onto something familiar..Originally posted by stupidjoe:Yesterday, I chatted with the gal who's my good good friend now. After so many yrs... she seems so mature n contended with her husband now. I nv thought she could be tat happy. Btw, she's giving birth to a bb boy in a week's time.
Sometimes, I really think to myself... why didn't I let myself go cos of her for that painful 5 yrs... if only I noe that she could be a happier lady now... I should have already been a "freeman" many yrs back...
this is my experience n I hope u learnt something from here, bro nightyoung. ~~~ -
duplicated...sorry...
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msg her just now..1 hour ago but no reply.. expected.. but just dun feel well after that..Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:glad u felt that way..I guess sometimes people cannot let go is because they thought that nothing will change between them..The sudden break up make people lost and so tend to hold onto something familiar.. -
being a best friend is not to hold so tightly to her..u are still holding so tightly to her..Is just that she never reply..What does it matters to u so much when u say both of u are just best friends??Originally posted by nightyoung:msg her just now..1 hour ago but no reply.. expected.. but just dun feel well after that.. -
if u know that by msging her and her not replying u are goin to feel this way then y even msg.Originally posted by nightyoung:msg her just now..1 hour ago but no reply.. expected.. but just dun feel well after that.. -
Juz think to yrself positively tat she muz be very busy now... she may be watching a movie, battery flat, didn't hear the msg, left her hp at home, blah blah blah...Originally posted by nightyoung:msg her just now..1 hour ago but no reply.. expected.. but just dun feel well after that..
u can still send her sms, no probs. But wat I think u should do now is NOT to expect any reply from her... if she did reply, good, if no, it's ok.. tat should be the mindset tat u hv to develop rite now... got it? ~~~ -
should not have any expectations right?
nightyoung, are you really expecting anything at all? -
She replied me saying that she's busy.. and apologize.. she also said that she want to get her hair done and i offered to accompany her..
then here we go.. we went to Bishan.. but she told me that she will be having dinner at night. she also asked me what gift should she get .. then i said.. wallet, belt ,... pen etc..
then she said belt .. we agreed.. we do it in a way that while she's doing her hair.. i go get the present.. i also bought a battery and earphone as well.. she said she wanted it..
Actually she dun have to tell me.. i long have guessed it.. when he called..
Yeah,., its was his bf's father bday.. i told her i knew it.. haha.. of course i knew it all along. sleepycat was right.. and so is lord kang, dodobirdle, all right.. but she was smiliing very happily.. and very happy.. i was glad to know,,
she passed me the bag of things i got for her.. and she said she meet me tonight so that i return the stuffs to her.. her bag is too big.. she said
in the train we chat.. talk and smiled.. and she saw the old uncle and tell me that lte offer seat to him.. but the old uncle refused saying that its only one stop..
so i sent her back to towards jurong east mrt and bid farewell.
in my eyes.. i think his bf is really fortunate to have her and i hope his bf treats her well... very well... and she's the most happiest gal in the world..
she suffered too much when young.. i just cant bare to see her cry again.. yes .. i love her... no doubt heartbroken umpteen times.. no doubt miss her lots of time.. we never leave each other.. but as long she's happy i dun care -
wait a minute...
sorry to smash your "pretty picture"...
there's her, there's her guy.. where do you fit in the "never leave each other"? -
err... it means i always there for her.. no matter what happen..Originally posted by the Bear:wait a minute...
sorry to smash your "pretty picture"...
there's her, there's her guy.. where do you fit in the "never leave each other"?
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i ask her will she forget me.. and she said never the last time.. -
well, let's just see how this goes if you find yourself a girlfriend...
i'll bet she'll not be pleased to hear this
Originally posted by nightyoung:err... it means i always there for her.. no matter what happen..
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i ask her will she forget me.. and she said never the last time.. -
har... so how?Originally posted by the Bear:well, let's just see how this goes if you find yourself a girlfriend...
i'll bet she'll not be pleased to hear this -
i'm so glad to hear that u are taking it this way. its a start. and it gets better from now on. u are putting it down.Originally posted by nightyoung:She replied me saying that she's busy.. and apologize.. she also said that she want to get her hair done and i offered to accompany her..
then here we go.. we went to Bishan.. but she told me that she will be having dinner at night. she also asked me what gift should she get .. then i said.. wallet, belt ,... pen etc..
then she said belt .. we agreed.. we do it in a way that while she's doing her hair.. i go get the present.. i also bought a battery and earphone as well.. she said she wanted it..
Actually she dun have to tell me.. i long have guessed it.. when he called..
Yeah,., its was his bf's father bday.. i told her i knew it.. haha.. of course i knew it all along. sleepycat was right.. and so is lord kang, dodobirdle, all right.. but she was smiliing very happily.. and very happy.. i was glad to know,,
she passed me the bag of things i got for her.. and she said she meet me tonight so that i return the stuffs to her.. her bag is too big.. she said
in the train we chat.. talk and smiled.. and she saw the old uncle and tell me that lte offer seat to him.. but the old uncle refused saying that its only one stop..
so i sent her back to towards jurong east mrt and bid farewell.
in my eyes.. i think his bf is really fortunate to have her and i hope his bf treats her well... very well... and she's the most happiest gal in the world..
she suffered too much when young.. i just cant bare to see her cry again.. yes .. i love her... no doubt heartbroken umpteen times.. no doubt miss her lots of time.. we never leave each other.. but as long she's happy i dun care
i remember a couple of months back i met my ex for dinner and a movie. then she just briefly mentioned that she wanted to bubble tea. i asked as though i was dao and ran off to get it for her at taka. bought her fav drink and ran back.
she really thought i was acting dao but when she knew and saw the bubble tea that smile on her face is unforgettable. and she was so happy for the whole day. when i saw her like dat i was so happy.
today i was watching tv. on channel 8 was showing this chinese movie. man i felt like either shooting my tv or throwing it out my balcony. cos for the next few weeks they will be showing movies that me and my ex used to just buy the vcds and watch them at hm thru the weekends. -
Hey.. thanks for all the advice.. Yeap... some times things that happened .. you can't forget.. till now.. i still have the chocolate sitting in front of my pc..Originally posted by Dodobirdie:i'm so glad to hear that u are taking it this way. its a start. and it gets better from now on. u are putting it down.
i remember a couple of months back i met my ex for dinner and a movie. then she just briefly mentioned that she wanted to bubble tea. i asked as though i was dao and ran off to get it for her at taka. bought her fav drink and ran back.
she really thought i was acting dao but when she knew and saw the bubble tea that smile on her face is unforgettable. and she was so happy for the whole day. when i saw her like dat i was so happy.
today i was watching tv. on channel 8 was showing this chinese movie. man i felt like either shooting my tv or throwing it out my balcony. cos for the next few weeks they will be showing movies that me and my ex used to just buy the vcds and watch them at hm thru the weekends.
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just msg her.. wanted to pass her the stuffs.. no reply...
forgot to add that.. today she keep observing me...
keep looking at me.....
esp.. when she told me that the present is for his bf's dad...
isn't she considerate? I just love her -
ok i read it all from the beginning till now...one thing i have to say: good luck....all the best boy
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Originally posted by beavan:ok i read it all from the beginning till now...one thing i have to say: good luck....all the best boy