This good good GAL and its just ME
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Originally posted by stupidjoe:back to square one...
can't be helped for some people, they just prefer it that way -
GEt a new babe..This Is LIFE, REALITY man!!! Not some Cinderella movie happy ever after....
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Wah, after so long this thread still active?
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For three consecutive days, we met..
On friday, she met me and we walk in the park.. we chat and she slept on my laps.. just like the old days.. we chat and chat.. and after that while going home.. she seemed to wants to come to my house.. so i invited her over.. at about 1.30am.. we sneaked in to my house as the rest of the ppl were sleeping.. we stayed in my bedroom.. and i showed her my bedroom and computer and stuffs.. then she seemed to want to ly on my queen sixe bed.. so i allow her to do that.. but i was sitting on the chair of course.. tryng to take a short nap.. when my mum opened the door.. that moment was very.. embrassing for her and for me.. maybe.. anyway.. after a short while we left the house and left for supper.. and i send her back..
on sat, we went to orchard for movie .. dinner... and while waiting for the movie to start..we entered into a posh restaurant,, as we had already taken dinner.. we just ordered drinks.. after that.. we went to the movie..
we chose the wrong show.. the movie must have scared her out of her wits.. of coz i was there for her.. after the movie.. actually we suggested to have another show but its too late so went for a drink.. and chat again... the friend status just allow us to chat so much.. so much without any pressure on me..
and yes.. while going back.. in the bus.. i kept watching her sleeping.. like the old days... i was thinking.. am i bear to leave her after the 5 things are done? tomorrow we are planning to goto the library and movie .
I dun know why this week we meet up for 4 days out of 7 days..
Yes .. i still love her.....
i send a good nite sms to her and she replied thanking me for accompany her and a beautiful night with her..
then i replied good. things don't happened twice in life so i enjoyed being with you today.. etc
I think the above sentence is a hint i might just leave her one day after the 5 things are done -
so long essay
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dear all,
i need some advise.
met this gal, getting along very well. starting to like her. might even go further with her(as in relationship). but yesterday my ex just dropped by my place to pass me something. when i saw her i felt all warm and fuzzy inside. and i know that i still love her.
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OLD NEWSPAPER!!!...Get the point yet???Originally posted by Dodobirdie:dear all,
i need some advise.
met this gal, getting along very well. starting to like her. might even go further with her(as in relationship). but yesterday my ex just dropped by my place to pass me something. when i saw her i felt all warm and fuzzy inside. and i know that i still love her.
advise pls.
Just stay with your current gal...u be more grateful. Past is a past. -
Yeah...last time i encounter this b4 (almost same scenario, she slept in my bed...etc.) ...and the best part is we still frens even she at UK and im at Malaysia with this china college chick i know.Originally posted by nightyoung:For three consecutive days, we met..
On friday, she met me and we walk in the park.. we chat and she slept on my laps.. just like the old days.. we chat and chat.. and after that while going home.. she seemed to wants to come to my house.. so i invited her over.. at about 1.30am.. we sneaked in to my house as the rest of the ppl were sleeping.. we stayed in my bedroom.. and i showed her my bedroom and computer and stuffs.. then she seemed to want to ly on my queen sixe bed.. so i allow her to do that.. but i was sitting on the chair of course.. tryng to take a short nap.. when my mum opened the door.. that moment was very.. embrassing for her and for me.. maybe.. anyway.. after a short while we left the house and left for supper.. and i send her back..
on sat, we went to orchard for movie .. dinner... and while waiting for the movie to start..we entered into a posh restaurant,, as we had already taken dinner.. we just ordered drinks.. after that.. we went to the movie..
we chose the wrong show.. the movie must have scared her out of her wits.. of coz i was there for her.. after the movie.. actually we suggested to have another show but its too late so went for a drink.. and chat again... the friend status just allow us to chat so much.. so much without any pressure on me..
and yes.. while going back.. in the bus.. i kept watching her sleeping.. like the old days... i was thinking.. am i bear to leave her after the 5 things are done? tomorrow we are planning to goto the library and movie .
I dun know why this week we meet up for 4 days out of 7 days..
Yes .. i still love her.....
i send a good nite sms to her and she replied thanking me for accompany her and a beautiful night with her..
then i replied good. things don't happened twice in life so i enjoyed being with you today.. etc
I think the above sentence is a hint i might just leave her one day after the 5 things are done
You and I have really same fate i guess ahahah... -
Today we met again.
it was in the afternoon.. and we went to woodlands .. we wanted to go for movie and libary as planned yesterday.. and i was right everytime.. this week she so free because her bf is not in Singapore.. that's why i get to see her 4 consecutive days..
i went to woodlands first after she said that she needs to do some housework.. so i said i will wait for her at Woodlands. I was trying to get my sis-in-law bday present.. and i went ahead.. after i bought it.. i met my sis-in-la coincidentally and passed the present to him.
It was raining heavily, and i went back to the mrt near our house and waited for her.. so that we can go together.
we went shopping as usual but this time she persuaded me to get some clothes for myself as she knows that i dont have much casual clothes in my wardrobe.. and yes we always look like couple and always being mistaken as one.. but its ok..we both knew that its not.
We went to shop to shops and finally we settled down in a restaurant and had our early dinner.. she always eat a bit more than me and i always like to dine with her.. over these four days.. i realized that i like her even more and more .. like to being with her more and more.. to a stage where i really dun care whether she got bf or not.. i just want to be with her and spent our time together. i felt sad everytime coz i knew i will leave her after the 5 things are completed and i cant help it.. my heart hurts and i keep telling myself.. just be happy now with her.. so i cheered up.
After that she said that she didn't had a chance to catch a movie in Woodlands so we went up to see the traliers. She knew that i can't watch movie with her coz i had to go back early for bday dinner.. then while we were watching the tralier, my phone rang and the dinner was called off.. they already dined and told me to go ahead with the dinner. A bit sad and happy.. after that we bought the tickets for a movie and went shopping again.
After a few shops we decided to head to the library to relax and wait for the show to start.
We read some magazines and i turned my watch a bit faster than the usual time.. when she asked me what time is it, i told her the time and she's very excited and we dashed out of the library.. halfway there.. i told her to look at the time on her phone and we laughed..
we sneaked some food stuffs in and we eat and enjoyed the movie.. [Celluar] nice one.. catch it!! we enjoyed the movie and after that we left to the night market and bought some stuffs back.. and yes.. she was making a phone call to her bf.. i knew his number as well.. that moment... my heart really sank.. i cant help it.. at that every moment.. when she called her bf or when they sms.. my heart just sank.. i got no total control over it.. just stare in daze for a while .. and after that told myself i just want to be with her.. that's all.. maybe to a stage she got a bf now.. maybe husband, maybe she got children that time... but i know .. after i completed the 5 things, i will go. i cant help but feel sad about leaving.. but i just cherish the time with her everytime...
while going back, we chat and recap about what we did on 31st Dec to dawn and yes she asked what the first movie we saw and i replied correctly.. i fished out the 2 tickets I bought the last time and gave the other half to her (Signfies ending soon).. i told her to keep well.. coz that one couldn't be brought with money.. the ticket title "Paycheck" dated jan 10... wow time files and i am still crazy over her.... cant help..
The last message in this thread will be the time i completed the 5 things and i will add
[her name], I love you.
Like what snowbear said.. i love her too much that i had to walk away
then i will not touch this thread anymore
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same... tough luckOriginally posted by ahmike:Yeah...last time i encounter this b4 (almost same scenario, she slept in my bed...etc.) ...and the best part is we still frens even she at UK and im at Malaysia with this china college chick i know.
You and I have really same fate i guess ahahah... -
Don't be so sad..U will find someone some day..May not know when, but there will always be someone out there for u..
If u really love someone, u want her to be happy..Hope that she will be someone that loves her the way u loved her..And u will not stop her from doing that..But if u stopped her from doing so, this shows that u don't love her anymore..
Love is not about possessing..U can always use another way to show ur love for her..Let her be part of ur memory even though u can't have her...So let it go easily..Let it be a happy memory instead of something that will hurt u whenever u think about it... -
bro nightyoung, reading yr posting seems to bring me back to the past again...
Anyway, I strongly believe time will ease the pain in you (although not immediately). You lost her but won her over as yr great great friend.
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wat are the five things??
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read my previous post..Originally posted by icyprincess:wat are the five things??
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today i just sms her and she sms me back.. morning.. afternoon and night time..
i just keep thinking about her and she's like part of me already.. part of my life.. -
u will not be able to walk away.Originally posted by nightyoung:today i just sms her and she sms me back.. morning.. afternoon and night time..
i just keep thinking about her and she's like part of me already.. part of my life.. -
what should i do then??Originally posted by Dodobirdie:u will not be able to walk away. -
i mean... you should continue with the new gal..Originally posted by Dodobirdie:dear all,
i need some advise.
met this gal, getting along very well. starting to like her. might even go further with her(as in relationship). but yesterday my ex just dropped by my place to pass me something. when i saw her i felt all warm and fuzzy inside. and i know that i still love her.
advise pls. -
thats the thing. if u can tell me that, y cant u do it ur self?Originally posted by nightyoung:i mean... you should continue with the new gal..
she is older then me. -
things are different... i love her so much.. she's my first..Originally posted by Dodobirdie:thats the thing. if u can tell me that, y cant u do it ur self?
she is older then me.
i mean the first gal that i love so much... -
ya..how could u say she is ur first when the two of u never officially be together..if u and her end up being friends forever..are u going to stay single the rest of ur life??Originally posted by nightyoung:things are different... i love her so much.. she's my first..
i mean the first gal that i love so much... -
wats so diff? i also love my ex wat.Originally posted by nightyoung:things are different... i love her so much.. she's my first..
i mean the first gal that i love so much... -
there's a possibility.. i got no interest in other gals... no one except her.Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:ya..how could u say she is ur first when the two of u never officially be together..if u and her end up being friends forever..are u going to stay single the rest of ur life?? -
tats a whole lot of crap....of cos u have no interest in other gals wat...u in love wat...dumb answer.Originally posted by nightyoung:there's a possibility.. i got no interest in other gals... no one except her.