This good good GAL and its just ME
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bro nightyoung Glad that you have finally wake up from your long long sleep... guess you are walking towards the light of enlightenment... Keep it up!!!
sis sleepycat Hey! Where have you been? I'm doing fine here... hopefully to secure a job after next week's 2nd round of interviews. Btw, work hard but play hard as well! Cheers!
Btw... this is the 1000th reply!!!
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Originally posted by sleepycat:
hei i dun think i want to get attached just yet.
yo nightyoung dude & all pals here.. hope the weeks have been good and the days blessed for you all.. been a lOoooOong while since i last posted and though not writing much these days, i'm still reading what's here regularly..
[b]birdie: nice that u're hitched now! hope u r well-caged now and amply fed.. haha! cherish d gal & be a good bird..
well... that's all.. sorry nightyoung that i'm going on and on here and using your space to catch up.. i miss chatting u guys.. geeee.. am happy that X'mas is here, Dec is near and life is very good thus far..
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Originally posted by sleepycat:
Yesterday.. went out with her .. very happy.. we just talk more and more.. and i knew that she gonna meet her bf afterwards.. she told me too.. in my heart..
yo nightyoung dude & all pals here.. hope the weeks have been good and the days blessed for you all.. been a lOoooOong while since i last posted and though not writing much these days, i'm still reading what's here regularly..
[b]nightyoung: though u don't sound like u're out of d pit but at least i sense that u're all ready to climb upwards and OUTwards.. since the moment you've sent your heart again to the knife not long ago, these days must have passed like some darkest hours for you. however, before the rainbow appears, there's always the storm that never seems to end.. so if you can't help but get drenched, then just hang on and be still. u need not initiate to leave nor decide to stay.. it seems to me that it's best for your soul and heart to merely react now and be at rest with what's going on. of course, it's always best to engage your mind but that's if u have enough courage to follow reasons/logic and abandon feelings/emotions. whatever it is, strengthen your inner self and stay calm.
birdie: nice that u're hitched now! hope u r well-caged now and amply fed.. haha! cherish d gal & be a good bird..
Lord Kang: still feeling almost angry/ disappointed with your ex who's a tad too focused on her bf? this sounds healthy to me that at least u're no longer disillusioned by emotions and have started seeing her as just another being. cheers!
wise(stupid)joe: how do u do? passed d interview/s? found d job?
bear: back in sg?
well... that's all.. sorry nightyoung that i'm going on and on here and using your space to catch up.. i miss chatting u guys.. geeee.. am happy that X'mas is here, Dec is near and life is very good thus far.. [/b]
we went shopping.. abit and bought her a new pair of shoes.. the third thing i gonna do for her since she dun want to learn tennis and dun need a Hep B jab.. we are just so happy together.. after that i went for my friend's bday celebration and she accompanied me there.. we supposed to meet today again.. but she's too tired.. so i told her to rest well.. and ..
i still love her but i guessed that its completely over and i am getting out .. Yeah.. friends .. yes.. she will be my good friend forever -
Originally posted by stupidjoe:
Thanks!! i think i am really trying to get out this time..
[b]bro nightyoung Glad that you have finally wake up from your long long sleep... guess you are walking towards the light of enlightenment... Keep it up!!!
sis sleepycat Hey! Where have you been? I'm doing fine here... hopefully to secure a job after next week's 2nd round of interviews. Btw, work hard but play hard as well! Cheers!
Btw... this is the 1000th reply!!! [/b]
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just called her just now.. she sms me after she woke up.. we chat for about an hour... so long... i feel i like her more and more while i trying to get out...
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the thread still going strong nice. like my didi
. i also like to meet the gers. anyway i not advise u not to care abt him and go find other guys. there are lots of them for u. beware of the things to llok out for like eg. like computing style, making of pnuematics.. etc. and last of all changi got alot of them for u. dun need to reply mi 
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wise(stupid)joe: hey all the best pal! let your wisdom & talent shine thru during the interview this week! muz update here if there's any good news! i'm working really hard here and i've been amazingly enjoying my work of late and this hardly happens in the past...
birdie: y dun u wana get caged yet? not sure abt the owner or still longing for the blue blue sky? and yep, i rem the dozen of sotb...
nightyoung: just be careful... -
she sms me out of the blue and wants to meet me coz her handphone batt is flat and she left her charger at her workplace.. omg.. she said she haven eaten anything for the day and i felt bad.. then we chat for a while and she game me a box of chocolate and i send her to her house and she said she gonna have dinner after that.. coz of her wisdom tooth.. and while leaving we just smiled at each other..
i wanted to almost hug her but controlled.. -
I changed my mind.
You know what Nightyoung, if you love someone u should never give up. Continue doing all these things for her and maybe one day she will finally realise that the person that loves her the most is beside her all these while and love you back.
In fact, the more abuse you suffer for her the more it shows you really love her. So please, dun give up and just be friends with her. Carry on like this.
If you stop already what entertainment is there left for us?
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she like the song Zhui Dong Ting by Wang Zu Ming..Originally posted by Himbo:I changed my mind.
You know what Nightyoung, if you love someone u should never give up. Continue doing all these things for her and maybe one day she will finally realise that the person that loves her the most is beside her all these while and love you back.
In fact, the more abuse you suffer for her the more it shows you really love her. So please, dun give up and just be friends with her. Carry on like this.
If you stop already what entertainment is there left for us?
wish to dedicate to her..
and yes she says she wants to get married at 25.. and i really want to marry her... -
Originally posted by sleepycat:
i dun know how.. is like i getting deeper and deeper each time..
[b]wise(stupid)joe: hey all the best pal! let your wisdom & talent shine thru during the interview this week! muz update here if there's any good news! i'm working really hard here and i've been amazingly enjoying my work of late and this hardly happens in the past...
birdie: y dun u wana get caged yet? not sure abt the owner or still longing for the blue blue sky? and yep, i rem the dozen of sotb...
nightyoung: just be careful...
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guess we can't say too much for now... I can only say... let nature take its course... like wat Forrest Gump said... "Life is Like a Box of Chocolate... You Never Know What You Are Going To Get..."Originally posted by nightyoung:i dun know how.. is like i getting deeper and deeper each time.. -
yes i agree.. i never been so deep and never been like this before..Originally posted by stupidjoe:guess we can't say too much for now... I can only say... let nature take its course... like wat Forrest Gump said... "Life is Like a Box of Chocolate... You Never Know What You Are Going To Get..."
oh my god..
this time is really like what sleepycat had said.. -
Originally posted by sleepycat:
dun think i want to be caged just yet. this time ard at least i get to choose the owner.
[b]wise(stupid)joe: hey all the best pal! let your wisdom & talent shine thru during the interview this week! muz update here if there's any good news! i'm working really hard here and i've been amazingly enjoying my work of late and this hardly happens in the past...
birdie: y dun u wana get caged yet? not sure abt the owner or still longing for the blue blue sky? and yep, i rem the dozen of sotb...
nightyoung: just be careful...
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so when u wanna return me the drinks?
put place put time then all the other bros here can come along. -
well i think u should have hugged her loh..Originally posted by nightyoung:she sms me out of the blue and wants to meet me coz her handphone batt is flat and she left her charger at her workplace.. omg.. she said she haven eaten anything for the day and i felt bad.. then we chat for a while and she game me a box of chocolate and i send her to her house and she said she gonna have dinner after that.. coz of her wisdom tooth.. and while leaving we just smiled at each other..
i wanted to almost hug her but controlled.. -
see how....Originally posted by Dodobirdie:well i think u should have hugged her loh.. -
Yes, if you want to marry her then carry on like that. Doesn't matter if she treats you like shit. Just take it and sacrifice more and more for her. If she tell you to eat shit, just eat shit. Some day she will realise how much you love her. Please carry on and keep us updated about how she abuses you.Originally posted by nightyoung:and yes she says she wants to get married at 25.. and i really want to marry her...
If you love her, then you must accept everything about her, even if she only treat you like a spare tyre you must accept it and be happy. No matter how she make use of you, you must continue to do all these things for her. -
she going to get marry ar? hope she invite u to her wedding. all the best to her and her bf
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why all ur post here sound so sacarstic ar??Originally posted by Himbo:Yes, if you want to marry her then carry on like that. Doesn't matter if she treats you like shit. Just take it and sacrifice more and more for her. If she tell you to eat shit, just eat shit. Some day she will realise how much you love her. Please carry on and keep us updated about how she abuses you.
If you love her, then you must accept everything about her, even if she only treat you like a spare tyre you must accept it and be happy. No matter how she make use of you, you must continue to do all these things for her. -
Lord Kang: still feeling almost angry/ disappointed with your ex who's a tad too focused on her bf? this sounds healthy to me that at least u're no longer disillusioned by emotions and have started seeing her as just another being. cheers!
well... that's all.. sorry nightyoung that i'm going on and on here and using your space to catch up.. i miss chatting u guys.. geeee.. am happy that X'mas is here, Dec is near and life is very good thus far.. [/b][/quote]
haha..think u all got it wrong..she is not my ex..she was my very good friend that i liked for quite some time..Yeah..starting to see things as it should be in the first place already..Enjoying my life indulging in my newly acquired entertainment..haha..But still wishes there is someone out there for me now..haha... -
is that true??Originally posted by Himbo:Yes, if you want to marry her then carry on like that. Doesn't matter if she treats you like shit. Just take it and sacrifice more and more for her. If she tell you to eat shit, just eat shit. Some day she will realise how much you love her. Please carry on and keep us updated about how she abuses you.
If you love her, then you must accept everything about her, even if she only treat you like a spare tyre you must accept it and be happy. No matter how she make use of you, you must continue to do all these things for her. -
sms her today.. called her .. in the end we sms each other..
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Written by: RobbiethestudAnderson
What a question to ponder! I have tried writing this essay many times and have realized that this is a very difficult topic. “Is it possible to love someone too much?” If you look at the question you first must define what love is and what it means to you before you can determine if it is actually possible to love someone too much.
The Webster Dictionary defines love as “profoundly tender, a passionate affection for another person”. In my opinion, to love someone is to care not only about them as a person but also about their well being. You can love a person even if that individual does not feel the same way about you, or if the person just doesn’t understand why you are feeling this way toward him or her. It’s like when you’re a little kid and your parents tell you all the stuff not to touch, not to do, and they keep on reminding you over and over again. They’re reminding you constantly, not to get on your nerves, but because they don’t want you to get hurt. They love you, and because of this strong feeling of love, they want to make sure you are safe.
To love someone is to have such strong feelings, so deeply felt that your life would not be complete or the same without them. You would do anything in the world to be with them and you will do absolutely everything for them because it feels good and right. This reminds me of a song by Canadian artist Brian Adams Everything I do I do it for you. He sings of a strong love in this song. A love that everything he does makes him feels so good and it feels so good because he is doing everything for her, the one he loves. The same feeling is described in the poem The Faultless Painter. In this poem there is a man named Andrea who will do anything for this girl whom he loves very much, but this feeling is not mutual. He makes promises, paints pictures and gives her the money to give to her lover because of gambling debts. This is what he means when he says: “I’ll work then for your friends friend, never fear” “More gambling debts to pay” “While hand and eye and something of a heart are left me, work’s my ware, and what’s it worth? I’ll pay my fancy”
His fancy is his love for her for a little while.
Sometimes love means that for every waking moment you want to be with that person, having them by your side. When youÂ’re in love everything you do feels better and easier because there is someone there with you and for you. Some people may say that being there every waking moment is too much but if it feels good and right then why not? You may not be doing anything but as long as you are with them it feels right. In the poem The Faultless Painter we see examples of the feeling of love. Love can make you do things you wouldnÂ’t normally do. In the poem the painter just wants the girl to sit with him for half an hour holding hands, he also says with her love, his paintings would be better and make more money that he could spend on her.
“Should you let me sit here by the window with your hand in mine and look half hour Fiesole, both of one mind, as married people use, quietly, quietly the evening through, I might get up tomorrow to my work cheerful and fresh as ever”
“If you should sit her thus by me every night I should work better, do you comprehend? I mean that I should earn more and give you more.”
Also when you are in love, when your loved one is hurt you hurt. When she or he is in pain you are in pain. You are in pain because sometimes there is nothing you can do for them. It is hard to see someone you love hurt or in pain.
In conclusion I would like to say that I do not believe that it is possible to love someone too much. Love is something everyone feels at one time or another in their lives. Benjamin Franklin once said “If you would be loved, love and be loveable”.
It seems much too difficult to fully love someone so I must say that it is impossible to love someone too much. Since love is unique for everyone how is one able to love too much?
I think love makes someone a better, more complete person. Thus it seems unreasonable that anyone in love, regardless of how much; can be too much in love.
And remember
“It is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all”. -
i called her this afternoon to have a short chat and she's ok now.. her tooth is better now... no more pain...
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she called me in the afternoon to wish me Happy Deepavali.. our the phone conversation ends 6 min later after we suggested to meet each other.
she wanted to meet my niece.. as we thought its only for a short while so its ok.. then we met and talk and.. we went to the block and sit and talk.. then we went 7-eleven choosing the drinks we want.. so happy to be with her again... of coz my niece was already back home.. after that i suggested we go to yishun central.. then we went to temple.. then drift to Northpoint...
at northpoint we shop around.. and she bought a new dress coz she said she like auntie.. haha.. the sales gal mistook us as couples.. and she went back to the toliet and have the new dress put on.. we smiled and very happy today although today is deepavali. like our new year..
she said she never been so crazy before.. dress home clothes then bought a new dress and change at the shopping mall..
after that she said she wants to go home and have a rest then we go out again..
OMG.. what is happening.. we just look like couples... but i know we are impossible......
i am still hanging on to the 4th and 5th thing to do...