This good good GAL and its just ME
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what happens if she says she wants to be my friend and i just say cant right??Originally posted by icyprincess:dunno wat u tinking man...tink u r stubbornly holding on to sth that is not urs...get together with this girl, ask her wat she really wans, since u both so close shud be easy to ask rite? if she not sure, stay off her for a while until she is sure of wich one she wans.
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normal friends do not behave that wayOriginally posted by nightyoung:what happens if she says she wants to be my friend and i just say cant right??
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today at about 9.30 pm.. she sms me and said she's upset and is downstairs..
i just came back from shopping centre with my family and i rushed down to meet her...
the way she dressed.. i thought she just acme back.. but she said she almost wanted to go out..
its her bf friends.. telling her do something that's not logical.. and we chat.. in the park.. and we talked.. after that she got better.. then she talked about work life and cried a bit.. but i console her again.. shortly after that we went to the coffeeshop and eat her dinner.. my supper..
then she called her bf.. and said she called him after that.. but.. so i asked her.. whether her bf knows me about she said yes.. then when i asked he doesn't mind? then she smiled
she's happy again.. i always like to see her smile.. she asked me where do we go on the 31st dec.. she suggested to watch 2 movies in a row..
and we made a promise to go out together till dawn like the last time...
that day.. i will tell her again that i really want to marry her .. everything
of course.. along with the 2 more things i haven do yet..
but 31st dec will end .. i hope so..
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close friends? very very close oneOriginally posted by the Bear:normal friends do not behave that way -
i dun think she treats me like boyfriend. . we didnt kiss.. we didnt hug.. just the 2 of us alone most of the timeOriginally posted by the Bear:question...
if she has a boyfriend, why the hell is she treating you like her boyfriend? -
but how can she come to you with her soul when she goes to another as her boyfriend?Originally posted by nightyoung:close friends? very very close one
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ok... think there's no way u will get out of this if things are not sorted out. Tell her tat u really luv her n see wat's her response. It can be anytime from now till 31 Dec. Know u won't give up till an affirmative reply has been given by yr gd gd gal.
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it ain't about huggin' and kissin'...
it's about her coming to you with her hopes and fears and then going off with her boyfriendOriginally posted by nightyoung:i dun think she treats me like boyfriend. . we didnt kiss.. we didnt hug.. just the 2 of us alone most of the time -
it has to be 31st dec.. how it started how it will end.. i guessed so.. in my opinion she wont leave him coz.. she's the faithful sort and doesn't think changing and changing bf is good.. although they quarrel all the time and there are still some good memories for them.. but i should leave her .. isnt what everyone is telling me? 31st dec will be the day..Originally posted by stupidjoe:ok... think there's no way u will get out of this if things are not sorted out. Tell her tat u really luv her n see wat's her response. It can be anytime from now till 31 Dec. Know u won't give up till an affirmative reply has been given by yr gd gd gal.
that day.. after that 1st jan.. i think i wont celebrate new year again.. -
31 dec should be a meaningful day ar..Why she is not keeping her bf company and go out with u instead??If it was me, i will spend that day with my loved one ar..
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maybe i already reserved my time for her in a way.. that's why when she calls me i am available and .. i stay near her..Originally posted by the Bear:it ain't about huggin' and kissin'...
it's about her coming to you with her hopes and fears and then going off with her boyfriend
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maybe her bf busy on that day... her bf bday today but she didnt celebrate with him.. but celebration took place 2 days agoOriginally posted by *Lord Kang*:31 dec should be a meaningful day ar..Why she is not keeping her bf company and go out with u instead??If it was me, i will spend that day with my loved one ar.. -
maybe you should have watched the show on channel 5...
about the dude obsessed with the girl he "loves" but who used him...
so much so he committed murder or something like that.. or is trying to own up to a murder she committed..
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bear.. you certainly echoed what i told our pal abt a week ago.. but his eyes are blinded and his ears, deafened. His emotions and desires have taken over his mind.Originally posted by the Bear:it ain't about huggin' and kissin'...it's about her coming to you with her hopes and fears and then going off with her boyfriend
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hmm?? what i did just now was wrong??Originally posted by sleepycat:bear.. you certainly echoed what i told our pal abt a week ago.. but his eyes are blinded and his ears, deafened. His heart and desires have taken over his mind.
I think i did wrong again.. i sms her today saying that.. although i am busy i still miss her all these whiles...
then she replied.. oh.. really touch. cry liao. take care.. really missed the crazy days... something like that..
i really dun know what stage i am in already.. i just rushed to see her when she sms me just now -
i wont kill or anyone her but if i can die to save her .. i willOriginally posted by the Bear:maybe you should have watched the show on channel 5...
about the dude obsessed with the girl he "loves" but who used him...
so much so he committed murder or something like that.. or is trying to own up to a murder she committed..
please.. i can see you heading that way.. -
you will not.. but you may end up being used and thrown away by her...Originally posted by nightyoung:i wont kill her
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why she wants to do that.. i dun think she willOriginally posted by the Bear:you will not.. but you may end up being used and thrown away by her... -
be naked-honest to your soul, is she really worth your peace of mind?Originally posted by nightyoung:hmm?? what i did just now was wrong??
I think i did wrong again.. i sms her today saying that.. although i am busy i still miss her all these whiles...
then she replied.. oh.. really touch. cry liao. take care.. really missed the crazy days... something like that..
i really dun know what stage i am in already.. i just rushed to see her when she sms me just now
it's a waste of time, effort and self-esteem to compromise so much and stoop so low in the name of love.
if there's any sanity and consciousness of your own self-worth left somewhere in you, you'd not wait till 31st Dec. You'll break loose of the bondage and walk away like a man, bravely dignified & independently proud. -
If I'm not wrong...Originally posted by nightyoung:why she wants to do that.. i dun think she will
She always give in to her bf n do lots of things for him...
In you, she sees the balance of having u to give in to her n care for her... she is juz trying to seek console from u... however, tat doesn't mean luv... u r juz a tool... wake up my friend...
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ya..Somehow agree with u on that..She may be close to u becoz u have something that make up the missing part between herself and the bf...Originally posted by stupidjoe:If I'm not wrong...
She always give in to her bf n do lots of things for him...
In you, she see the balance of having u to give in to her n care for her... she is juz trying to seek console from u... however, tat doesn't mean luv... u r juz a tool... wake up... -
yup... cos I gonna b4... almost identical to wat bro nightyoung is experiencing now...Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:ya..Somehow agree with u on that..She may be close to u becoz u have something that make up the missing part between herself and the bf...
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I guess almost everyone had this experience of being a "Sparetyre" once...Haha...But bro nightyoung must wake up soon...Falling deeper with each single day...Cannot imagine when he hit the bottom..He will have a harder time climbing out...Originally posted by stupidjoe:yalor... cos I gonna b4... almost identical to wat bro nightyoung is experiencing now... -
now?? but i promised her i wont forget on the 31st dec..Originally posted by sleepycat:be naked-honest to your soul, is she really worth your peace of mind?
it's a waste of time, effort and self-esteem to compromise so much and stoop so low in the name of love.
if there's any sanity and consciousness of your own self-worth left somewhere in you, you'd not wait till 31st Dec. You'll break loose of the bondage and walk away like a man, bravely dignified & independently proud. -
you mean i am a spare tyre?Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:I guess almost everyone had this experience of being a "Sparetyre" once...Haha...But bro nightyoung must wake up soon...Falling deeper with each single day...Cannot imagine when he hit the bottom..He will have a harder time climbing out...