This good good GAL and its just ME
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a tool???Originally posted by stupidjoe:If I'm not wrong...
She always give in to her bf n do lots of things for him...
In you, she sees the balance of having u to give in to her n care for her... she is juz trying to seek console from u... however, tat doesn't mean luv... u r juz a tool... wake up my friend...
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this is what we have been telling you all these many many pages!!Originally posted by nightyoung:you mean i am a spare tyre?
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but.. i have to walk away.. like what you said??Originally posted by the Bear:this is what we have been telling you all these many many pages!!
i will do on the 31st dec..
will do...
2 more things
a picture i draw
and a tatoo of her name on my left arm.. -
one of the dumbest things to do is to tattoo the name of a girl who is not going to be your wife on yourself...
you were told...Originally posted by nightyoung:but.. i have to walk away.. like what you said??
i will do on the 31st dec..
will do...
2 more things
a picture i draw
and a tatoo of her name on my left arm.. -
Cold hard truth is... yes... a sparetyre, tool, "value-added" friend but nv ever as a bf kind...Originally posted by nightyoung:you mean i am a spare tyre? 
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pls.... tattoo is not a wise thing to do now... once done.. it can nv be erased... wat if u met a gd gd gd gal next time... how will she feel if she see this tattoo???Originally posted by nightyoung:but.. i have to walk away.. like what you said??
i will do on the 31st dec..
will do...
2 more things
a picture i draw
and a tatoo of her name on my left arm.. -
someone out there will surely say why can't a boy and a girl be just purely friends?
I shall not comment from a guy's point of view....
As a girl, i think i really had to agree that when we meant friends, we mean it!!! sometimes, no matter how hard we tried, there is just no chemistry... not the kind that we wanted to hug with, to kiss with, to bed with... BUT just the kind that we talk with, laugh with, hang out with........FRIENDS!
a good good girl should not be take advantage of others... if i knows that someone is so deeply in love with me but i can only treat him as friend, i will be very honest and let him know how i feel (that i dun love him) and it's entirely up to that guy if he wishes to contiune such a friendship with me....and one simply thumb rule... we are just friends, no more than friends... and he should not be expecting anything things from me like i will love him after 10, 20, 30 years..... if that's the case, it's a torture to be his "friend"!!!
Your this so-called "good good girl" is not treating you as friend at all... she is just taking advantage of you, of your love to her... if you think that i'm pointing the fingers at her, then let's point it at you! She had made it clear that she had chosen her bf... she just treating you as her friend! Stop doing stuff for her and expecting her to be touched and love you in return! She does not need it! No body will be touched just becos of an sms saying how much you missed her! she have a bf to help her to repair the vcd! she wanted her bf to tattoo her name more than you! just a simply line: SHE DON"T NEED YOU! -
Today.. i just bought her a piece of swiss roll and left it at her door step.. the thought of her not eating breakfast makes me not good..
so i did that again..
she sms me why so i good today.. but i didnt reply.. maybe i knew the answer -
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you doesn't have to do that... like what i say... perhaps her bf had already brought her something more nice... OR cooked for her the nicest breakfast OR is bringing her out for breakfast, lunch and dinner....Originally posted by nightyoung:Today.. i just bought her a piece of swiss roll and left it at her door step.. the thought of her not eating breakfast makes me not good..
so i did that again..
she sms me why so i good today.. but i didnt reply.. maybe i knew the answer
Even her bf did not do any of these things, SHE wish it's her bf MORE THAN IT'S YOU! -
What we should really do is to ban him. He's just posting all these in the hope of getting encouragement from anyone out there. By denying him any hope then can we wake him up to the crude reality of life.
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i understand..that's why i plan to walk away on the 31st decOriginally posted by v gal:you doesn't have to do that... like what i say... perhaps her bf had already brought her something more nice... OR cooked for her the nicest breakfast OR is bringing her out for breakfast, lunch and dinner....
Even her bf did not do any of these things, SHE wish it's her bf MORE THAN IT'S YOU! -
okay.. i dropped that idea..Originally posted by the Bear:one of the dumbest things to do is to tattoo the name of a girl who is not going to be your wife on yourself...
you were told... -
Ya...A spare tyre...Maybe thats what u have been to her long ago...She 'use' ur love for her to compensate the loss in her relationship...Maybe she did it without noticing herself or maybe she just find u as a subsitute...It is not for us to judge...So why keep urself in this mess...Get out already...31 Dec is still quite far away...Even though it may seem short to u, but u will still get urself deeper into it...
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i really want to get out this time...
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u say you want to get out but you are not making any serious effort. the moment she called you you will rush out. how to get over if you continue to be like this? it is either you make things clear wif her, or you stop contacting her and stop letting her contact you.Originally posted by nightyoung:i really want to get out this time...
that's the only way out. not to ask you to be selfish, but sometimes we need to save ourself first.
i.c.y -
just send her a sms in the afternoon.. and she replied.. omg i missed her although we just met on sunday night..
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sighedOriginally posted by icyprincess:u say you want to get out but you are not making any serious effort. the moment she called you you will rush out. how to get over if you continue to be like this? it is either you make things clear wif her, or you stop contacting her and stop letting her contact you.
that's the only way out. not to ask you to be selfish, but sometimes we need to save ourself first.
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see...get our point??U want to get out but u dun seem to be making effort to make that happen...Time to be really make ur words come true...Change ur hp no. and delete away all her contacts...Originally posted by nightyoung:just send her a sms in the afternoon.. and she replied.. omg i missed her although we just met on sunday night.. -
i seriously do not know what's wrong wif u lor...evone in here is telling u the same thing...do you think you are being very romantic and selfless by hanging on to this? let me tell you this: if someone likes you, she wud have told you so long ago. you have held on to this for far too long already. she doesn't see you as being romantic or selfless, she sees you as someone stupid to do her bidding all the time, she knows your intention and yet she knows she has no plan on giving you what you want. she is having her cake and eating it too...you get what I mean? She might not be as innocent as you think she is...in fact it is totally wrong to continue to do this to you when she already has a bf, it is unfair to both her bf as well as you...Originally posted by nightyoung:sighed
leave her. dun wait until 31st dec. i know what will happen on that day cos i have been thru this before...i promised myself i wud leave my ex crush after my florida trip but instead it dragged on for a few more months before I finally had the courage to let him know how I felt and finally let go after he rejected me. so tell her how you feel if it will make you feel better but accept the fact if she rejects you.
Time to move on le. There are better girls out there who deserve your devotion. You can't see them because you can only see her.
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I msg her this morning and she mms me her new hairxtyle..
while waiting for the bus and in the bus, i keep opening the picture msg box.
asked her whether she's free tonight after her lesson,,, no reply yet.
maybe its wrong to asl her out again.. -
FCUK OFFOriginally posted by nightyoung:I msg her this morning and she mms me her new hairxtyle..
while waiting for the bus and in the bus, i keep opening the picture msg box.
asked her whether she's free tonight after her lesson,,, no reply yet.
maybe its wrong to asl her out again.. -
i wish i can forget everythingOriginally posted by F Takumi:FCUK OFF -
i wish i can forget everything, you're not me.. you dun know how i feelOriginally posted by F Takumi:FCUK OFF
maybe you can tell me what to do..ha ha -
she replied.. dun think so UOriginally posted by nightyoung:I msg her this morning and she mms me her new hairxtyle..
while waiting for the bus and in the bus, i keep opening the picture msg box.
asked her whether she's free tonight after her lesson,,, no reply yet.
maybe its wrong to ask her out again..
now i realized i am in the trap of cycle once again