This good good GAL and its just ME

• *Lord Kang*

  16 Jan 05, 02:21

  Originally posted by Gackt247:

  thru.. but it tends not to last.. tt's of course u r in2 one nite stands kinda thing.. anyway.. there r girls who do appreciate good guys.. the problem is being tt most good guuys dun make themselves prominent enough.. tt's y girls dun seem to be near them all the time.. u know la.. girls generally wouldnt approach a guy first..

  The another side thing about life..Haha..Is the 21st century already..Man and women are equal mah..Who cares about who make the first move..Haha..There is this chinese saying "Man go after woman has a mountain in between..Woman go after man has sand in between.."Wouldn't that be easier for everyone??
• Gackt247

  16 Jan 05, 02:24

  but there r still alot of females who r either shy or still have the mentality of guy-go-1st.. but if girls approach guys.. tt'll be alot simpler..
• *Lord Kang*

  16 Jan 05, 02:30

  Originally posted by Gackt247:

  but there r still alot of females who r either shy or still have the mentality of guy-go-1st.. but if girls approach guys.. tt'll be alot simpler..

  haha..Ya lor..But some guys will find it very intimidating when girls make the first move..Haiya..Why humans are so contradicting some times??
• Gackt247

  16 Jan 05, 02:37

  Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:

  haha..Ya lor..But some guys will find it very intimidating when girls make the first move..Haiya..Why humans are so contradicting some times??

  if females can be more open-minded.. y can t men.. n tt's y there r guys n gals still conservative too..
  
  i would like girls to come upfront rather den i approach them.. more interesting..
• *Lord Kang*

  16 Jan 05, 02:42

  Originally posted by Gackt247:

  if females can be more open-minded.. y can t men.. n tt's y there r guys n gals still conservative too..
  
  i would like girls to come upfront rather den i approach them.. more interesting..

  haha..I guess all the guys over here will like the girls to be more upfront ah..But sad to say, that not the case always..
• Gackt247

  16 Jan 05, 02:48

  yep as i said.. alot of girls still conservative. expecting guys to make the 1st move.. though i'm fine wif tt too.. doesnt matter.. as long as there's chemistry.. anything can hap..
• starExcaliblur

  16 Jan 05, 10:47

  It depends, if the girl u like makes the 1st move, it does make things easier as u don't hv 2 guess whether she likes u or not, then u can progress from there
  
  But if the girl u dun like makes the 1st move, u will avoid her like crazy n tat will break her heart, thus, 98% of the girls seldom make the 1st move unless success guarantee
  
• SBS3624G

  16 Jan 05, 10:49

  Then we will have to see and act according to circumstances. There are no guide-lines that apply for everything.
• nightyoung

  16 Jan 05, 12:36

  yesterday.. she called me but i didnt answered... then i sms her to find out ..
  
  she wants to ask me out.. but i replied that i was going to my friend's bday..
  this time i didnt ask her along.. then she said.. wow bring gf alone dun bring her.. haha
  
  of coz she jokes.. i joke too and said that i like the day of her bday too then she replied asking me is that i like the day but not the person??
  
  haha.. i replied i liked the bday gal.. then after i sent another msg to her saying that i like anyone who's the bday person that day.. haha
  
  yesterday wanted to contact her while i was going back but i kept under control..
  
  we didnt meet since last post x'mas.. miss her though
• stupidjoe

  16 Jan 05, 14:21

  tats the way to go, nightyoung.
  
  It's painful but worth the effort in times to come.
  
  We'll always cheer u on!!!
• Gackt247

  16 Jan 05, 16:12

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  yesterday.. she called me but i didnt answered... then i sms her to find out ..
  
  she wants to ask me out.. but i replied that i was going to my friend's bday..
  this time i didnt ask her along.. then she said.. wow bring gf alone dun bring her.. haha
  
  of coz she jokes.. i joke too and said that i like the day of her bday too then she replied asking me is that i like the day but not the person??
  
  haha.. i replied i liked the bday gal.. then after i sent another msg to her saying that i like anyone who's the bday person that day.. haha
  
  yesterday wanted to contact her while i was going back but i kept under control..
  
  we didnt meet since last post x'mas.. miss her though

  it's good tt u attempt to keep it as platonic as possible..
• Gackt247

  16 Jan 05, 16:18

  Originally posted by starExcaliblur:

  But if the girl u dun like makes the 1st move, u will avoid her like crazy n tat will break her heart, thus, 98% of the girls seldom make the 1st move unless success guarantee
  

  If one is open-minded n mature enough.. u'll still treat the girl as a fren.. but tt i would say is at a relatively high-level.. at least in sg society.. i tink most pple will shun them like a plague.. only a minority group will not take it to heart n still treat their rejected admirers as frens..
• *Lord Kang*

  16 Jan 05, 17:26

  Thats a good start nightyoung bro..Almost 1 month never see her will make everything seem more easy..
• jay_rocks

  16 Jan 05, 17:36

  crap crap crap around!! lets get crapping on & hit 2k post
• Gackt247

  16 Jan 05, 18:08

  Originally posted by jay_rocks:

  crap crap crap around!! lets get crapping on & hit 2k post

  crap?? we r counting on u..
• nightyoung

  16 Jan 05, 21:18

  she gave me a surprise call today... and ask how am i.. and thought i had forgotten about her.. we had a good chat.. and she reminded me about that night... where i cooked for her.. omg. why did she reminded me? that was the night i told her i like her... that was the first kiss to her cheeks last time round..
  
  omg.. and she said she wants to go chinatown with me.. haha for new year and i agreed. and i told her we meet before new year...
  
  but somehow i think we are just good friends... i dun long for anything more..
  
  
• Dodobirdie

  17 Jan 05, 00:07

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  she gave me a surprise call today... and ask how am i.. and thought i had forgotten about her.. we had a good chat.. and she reminded me about that night... where i cooked for her.. omg. why did she reminded me? that was the night i told her i like her... that was the first kiss to her cheeks last time round..
  
  omg.. and she said she wants to go chinatown with me.. haha for new year and i agreed. and i told her we meet before new year...
  
  but somehow i think we are just good friends... i dun long for anything more..
  
  

  only to lose something then do we understand its value and only then do we start to treasure it.
  
  i wish u took my advise
  
  anyway my pass is back to haunt me.
• *Lord Kang*

  17 Jan 05, 00:26

  Originally posted by Dodobirdie:

  only to lose something then do we understand its value and only then do we start to treasure it.
  
  i wish u took my advise
  
  anyway my pass is back to haunt me.

  humans are like that one mah...Only after lose it then know its importance..
  
  Ur past is back to haunt u??Then everything still alright or not??
• nightyoung

  17 Jan 05, 02:32

  Originally posted by Dodobirdie:

  only to lose something then do we understand its value and only then do we start to treasure it.
  
  i wish u took my advise
  
  anyway my pass is back to haunt me.

  hey.. i took your advise... didnt i?
  haha
  
  what's up? Past is past.... let the today be past and tomorrow be today..
  
  buried your past here... write a thread and bury deep down here..
• the Bear

  17 Jan 05, 02:35

  hey.. look forward.. if you keep looking back, you're not going to see what's in front of you and probably will walk into a lamp-post
  
  sounds corny but apt..
  
  
• Boo777

  17 Jan 05, 10:21

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  she gave me a surprise call today... and ask how am i.. and thought i had forgotten about her.. we had a good chat.. and she reminded me about that night... where i cooked for her.. omg. why did she reminded me? that was the night i told her i like her... that was the first kiss to her cheeks last time round..
  
  omg.. and she said she wants to go chinatown with me.. haha for new year and i agreed. and i told her we meet before new year...
  
  but somehow i think we are just good friends... i dun long for anything more..
  
  

  At last... u finally got it.
  
  So gals.... so who says the MEN dun get it. We'll get it... eventually. Just give us some time.
  
  But Nightyoung, both of u can remain as good friends, put her in ur waiting list loh, while u hunts for a new prey. The jungle is waiting for u man!!
• jay_rocks

  17 Jan 05, 15:33

  Originally posted by Gackt247:

  crap?? we r counting on u..

  me? why?
• sleepycat

  17 Jan 05, 21:04

  time for self-confession..................
  
  i like bad boysssssssssssssss..................!
  
  so nightyoung pal, been a month since u last saw her? time to party?
  
• the Bear

  17 Jan 05, 21:05

  bad boys?
  
  damn.. there goes my big chance
  
  

  Originally posted by sleepycat:

  time for self-confession..................
  
  i like bad boysssssssssssssss..................!
  
  so nightyoung pal, been a month since u last saw her? time to party?
  

• Dodobirdie

  17 Jan 05, 22:58

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  hey.. i took your advise... didnt i?
  haha
  
  what's up? Past is past.... let the today be past and tomorrow be today..
  
  buried your past here... write a thread and bury deep down here..

  a thread? siaoz ah