This good good GAL and its just ME
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ur a lucky guy nightyoung
if i count the amount of times i missed to jio a gal as my gf
from sec sch til now i think i missed about 5-6 times
Better strike while the iron is hot.
If i were i you i'll do everything. inc. murdering the bf =X (j/k)
Pop it to her asap
its now or never ^^ -
Lucky? Dun know... today we went out together to watch mid night movie .. she bought her sister along.. no problem anyway we were happy together..Originally posted by SibeiSuayKia:ur a lucky guy nightyoung
if i count the amount of times i missed to jio a gal as my gf
from sec sch til now i think i missed about 5-6 times
Better strike while the iron is hot.
If i were i you i'll do everything. inc. murdering the bf =X (j/k)
Pop it to her asap
its now or never ^^
As the show finished at 3am... we walked back to our house...
she says tomorrow can go out and eat together.. tomorrow lunch with her sister too... got buffet coupons
I thought today was the day but it was not..... i really dun know what i am doing now... how come she still seeing me... what happen to his bf.. i never hear her saying anything about him.. but i still saw the pic on her phone...
Maybe she thought bringing her sis.. she would not feel so bad about seeing me behind his bf's back?
I don't know..... feel like raising the white flag again
Another solution is to continue like this and this 31st dec..... i will tell her no matter what? since it will be a year on that day..... 31st dec...
Wow... i can really hold onto a year before i really say?
rather confused.. but just now when with them.. i talked to her sis too.. and i always make a point to talk to this good good gal and look into her eyes.....
what is happening to me?
is god making fun of me?
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You sure a very good and patient guy.... I really did not read all the 7 pages... but read the 1st , 2nd and last page so just try to share my prespective with you all ...
I think she is still seaching for what she want in a guy...
Properly the reason why she go out with you .. try all the different things is also to search for the feeling inside her...
You know woman all talk about feel one... no logic one.
There could be something that she is looking for that is not in you ... but and the sametime she feel that you are a very nice persons...
(The heart and the mind not in sync.. so very difficult)
If you truly love her and want her to be happy.... focus on help her find it what she is looking for... and you would find what you want to eventually...
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Today we went out again!!
Two days in a row, we were together, along with her sis.
We went to down town east coz they say they want to eat the $10 buffet.
Sakura opening.. that's why.. we queued for one hour before we went in..
While queing, she was standing infronf of the guy like jumping queue.. so i told her..she about to cut queue. maybe i didn't speak clearly.. she heard her bf's name.. and started to like .. see where and where......
Can see that although she's with me.. she's still thinking of him..
We had a great lunch cum dinner there..... eat and eat.. wow she really can eat...
Still find that i don't really understand her.....
anyway.. we had a great time together and with her sis.
Hmm.. later we meet another friend... and she said she had to goto the office.. where his bf works ...... to meet him i supposed and i sent her sis back.
When her sis.. doze off in the bus and almost dozed to my shoulders..
i was reminded of how this good good GAL used my shoulders for support and sleep in the bus on new year's day.. so real... i amlost mistook her as the Good good gal for a second.
The feeling was so .......
so different... i used to walk her to her house and now her sis.......
i still can't bring to tell her and everytime like that i can't tell and its deeper and deeper inside my heart.. maybe we are only suitable for brother and sister kind of relationship... maybe... i still womder what love is in the end...
now have to wait for the chance.. either the time i leave for overseas or the end of this year..... 31st dec.....
Now i feel i shouldn't make her difficult since she got bf...... its time to get out i think or i am wrong?
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perhaps to avoid a disapointment by being rejected or losing her as ur gd fren.. and to avoid being guilty.. let her be with her bf first..till when shes single again?
me too have problem start to have nothing to talk about when we went out.. was with another friend so that makes the 3 of us to watch movie. me and our friend kept talking she was quiet. and seems anti social..
i was buying something in carefour and she simply walk off.. kinda rude eh?
anyway things arent too good,she said that shes very stress with school work..
today helped her format her laptop supposely she should be coming to my home with her laptop at 7,something happen at her workplace and she need to stand in for a collegue.In the end i got to collect it for her and bring home to format. saw her logs with a friend mentioning that she was excited seeing the guy she like in school on friday.. weLL.. although i know about it, but im still disappointed.. Felt stupid collecting the laptop from her around 7+ and return it to her at her home,brought all the way back for her.. and it was 2am close to 3. am i stupid? felt cheap.. doing all the slave work.
i actually stared into the blank this afternoon thinking, is she really my friend, or shes just bring grateful that im so good to her when she has no friends, or she enjoys the previlge she have from me. else she will simply avoid me since she doesnt like me at all..
no idea whats happening suddenly felt lost.. life is meaningless.. hope i can die this moment.. sigh~
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just to add on: sorry bro hope you dont mind me adding my story.. if you do i'm more than willing to stop anything on myself just got too carried away, sorry!
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Its ok.. you can add your stpory here.....Originally posted by lolsuck:just to add on: sorry bro hope you dont mind me adding my story.. if you do i'm more than willing to stop anything on myself just got too carried away, sorry!
i think you are a great help to her... maybe she treat you as her best friend?
Frankly speaking..... I am also like you...i am always there for her... from Jan-July..
Its only when we celebrate her bday... then after that i bought lots of gifts for her... then she started seeing memore..... i don;t know whether she is repaying me or love me? or what..
she is confused also.. she once told me dun know we were more than friends...... -
Yup... married late last year...Originally posted by nightyoung:Har.. she's married already???
she said she love you?? why like that?
You didn't say you love her??
She love me but the pressure is mounting onher by her parents as the guy is damn rich...
I told her after she started to ask me... tats when she has started to be with her bf.. her current hubby tat is... -
Bro nightyoung, hope you have a nice ending soon... like those in fairy tales... I will support you... if u need a person to tok to, u may look for me... since I'm outta job now and got time for some chatting.
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my thoughts,
Love is no charity. If you see someone you love/really like, go for it. This crap about ‘true love doesn’t mean being with the person but wishing the best for them’, this is the worst advice anyone can give. What are we running here, the community chest? Do you want someone you really care to be having another guy’s baby? So if she means so much to you, go grab her.
I miss out on one lady that means the world to me and now I have to live with the fact that she Mrs ‘….’ instead of Mrs Kwek. How would you like that? -
Sounds like the good girl bad boy syndrome.
Based on the previous posts...do you think such relations end well?
Let her know, if she really values you as you seem to think, she will know what to do, otherwise, stop being her emotional crutch and move on. -
I sms her today morning...... she didn't reply me.....
i was more or less flipping my phone to check for any new message.. -
plan to wait and hold and tell her on the 31st night.....
actually one year....... wow how romantic.....
go see stars after that.. etc
but really dun know whether if she going to be married or not..
She like the idea of having a family early...... i can't give her that
i just started working only -
she sms me today... so happy to recieved her sms..
thought she wasn't going to send me ..
been waiting since yesterday morning.. today finally got it -
what was the contend? how things go?
i promise not to try and make her my gf again, infact i was already planning for her bday which is in oct..
plan to treat her to some romantic place for food,than to esplanade to relax.. follow by some favorite blue roses of hers.. and her favorite mobile phone where shes dreaming to have.. than ask for another chance.. since i never done it face to face before.. but if im were to be rejected.. she wil not longer trust me since i broke the promise.. oh god.. help -
Hi... Think I am going to be like you down the road in a few years time... Haha... Not sure whether to give up a girl I like after she has rejected me... Think such relationships will never have happy endings one!!!
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mine is stuck like that
A likes ME i Likes B
and its stuck like that... being like and to like both feeling suxks. -
wow..... 2 more min and i wil break away from the cycleOriginally posted by lolsuck:mine is stuck like that
A likes ME i Likes B
and its stuck like that... being like and to like both feeling suxks.
... that is one day without contacting her...... -
it juz nv ends...
trust me..
it juz nv -
Same boat same pplOriginally posted by BaByBoY:it juz nv ends...
trust me..
it juz nv -
another day without contacting her......
wish to call her a few times today but failed to do so
think she must be with her bf
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Maybe we should exchange our msn identities... All of us in same boat... Got someone to talk to also better... Haha!!!
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Sure man!Originally posted by Superdude2004:Maybe we should exchange our msn identities... All of us in same boat... Got someone to talk to also better... Haha!!! -
Got my hair cut!!
very short.....
to comemorate that we can't be together...
let her be... and i will always be a brother to him...
