This good good GAL and its just ME
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well, heal, schmeal.. sounds like she's doing great...
what happens if she flies back into the arms of that guy again?Originally posted by nightyoung:not yet.. i wanted to let her heal and tell her on Vday but somehow i was losing control -
the longer you wait, the more you won't ask. believe me, i have been thru this before. you will feel better after asking.
i.c.y -
I agree with icy n bear.. get ur smelly socks together n get it done.. ok ok.. give u some time to muster ur courage n rid ur doubts.. this come V Day..
Suggestion.. book her on tt day.. make sure u date her on tt day.. arrange with her b4 hand.. juz in case her ex tries to get back to her..
NY.. u have to make up ur mind.. once n for all.. go for her or juz give up..
sheez..
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I seriously do not know what's wrong with him..I think he is just looking for excuse to dun need to ask, mebbe the girl will tell him herself? He said he won't meet the girl again after New Year, but now what has happened? And now that he has the opportunity that he has been waiting for for his whole life, he is dilly-dallying again...
My counsellor told me this yesterday: It is alright to postpone, but make sure you set a time to get it done for once and for all. Don't delay and put it at the back of your mind forever, it will only make you even more stressed...
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Agree 100%.. NY..can u stop being like my grandma anymore?Originally posted by icyprincess:I seriously do not know what's wrong with him..I think he is just looking for excuse to dun need to ask, mebbe the girl will tell him herself? He said he won't meet the girl again after New Year, but now what has happened? And now that he has the opportunity that he has been waiting for for his whole life, he is dilly-dallying again...
My counsellor told me this yesterday: It is alright to postpone, but make sure you set a time to get it done for once and for all. Don't delay and put it at the back of your mind forever, it will only make you even more stressed...
i.c.y
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i dun think he get his message over efficiently...
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how's this way?
hold her in a dance posture, like a waltz, dance around and dip, but plant a big passionate kiss on her... then tell her "i have always loved you.." when lips part...
how much more effectively and efficiently do you want?
Originally posted by dualplex:i dun think he get his message over efficiently... -
Not many guys are as romantic as this, and not many of them have the courage to do it, esp to a girl whom he has secretly liked for a long time...Originally posted by the Bear:how's this way?
hold her in a dance posture, like a waltz, dance around and dip, but plant a big passionate kiss on her... then tell her "i have always loved you.." when lips part...
how much more effectively and efficiently do you want?
The longer you keep the crush, the harder it is to tell the person you are crushing on...
i.c.y -
Be my shi fu can or not?Originally posted by the Bear:how's this way?
hold her in a dance posture, like a waltz, dance around and dip, but plant a big passionate kiss on her... then tell her "i have always loved you.." when lips part...
how much more effectively and efficiently do you want?
/me kao tao bear.. -
it'll either work terrifically well....
or...
get arrested for molest
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a better way: at your next outing... tell her in the face tt u want her by your side forever... Phones and hints are useless in this game...Originally posted by the Bear:it'll either work terrifically well....
or...
get arrested for molest -
they may interpret u as being a secretive perverted rat for using a lousy way to confess to them via hp..Originally posted by dualplex:a better way: at your next outing... tell her in the face tt u want her by your side forever... Phones and hints are useless in this game...
if u want indirect method.. da best is still the old fashion way of pouring ur heart out in a letter.. -
what do you think we have been telling him to do since the beginning of this thread?Originally posted by dualplex:a better way: at your next outing... tell her in the face tt u want her by your side forever... Phones and hints are useless in this game...
he just refuses to listen. if I can have a say, I would say just close this thread down cos the advice is mostly the same but he doesn't do anything close to the advise given...so wats the point of giving him advice??
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Anyway to get away from such a molest case?Originally posted by the Bear:it'll either work terrifically well....
or...
get arrested for molest -
in tis case... ets petition to the mods to shut it down nw....Originally posted by icyprincess:what do you think we have been telling him to do since the beginning of this thread?
he just refuses to listen. if I can have a say, I would say just close this thread down cos the advice is mostly the same but he doesn't do anything close to the advise given...so wats the point of giving him advice??
i.c.y
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harsh but true icy..Originally posted by icyprincess:what do you think we have been telling him to do since the beginning of this thread?
he just refuses to listen. if I can have a say, I would say just close this thread down cos the advice is mostly the same but he doesn't do anything close to the advise given...so wats the point of giving him advice??
i.c.y
we dun bear to be too blunt to him at times.. but reality is such tt it's harsh pitiless.. dilemma dilemma.. -
let's just beat some sense into him..
but mostly, he knows what to do, we're here as support -
can also do up a webpage baring your hearts to her... tat is if u r shy...
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when the soft approach doesn't work, it is only by using the harsh way we can beat some sense into him...Originally posted by Gackt247:harsh but true icy..
we dun bear to be too blunt to him at times.. but reality is such tt it's harsh pitiless.. dilemma dilemma..
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dun wait too long or else the window will close.Originally posted by nightyoung:not yet.. i wanted to let her heal and tell her on Vday but somehow i was losing control -
if the window is closed, he will re-open it... trust me....Originally posted by Dodobirdie:dun wait too long or else the window will close.
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she msg me in the early morning.... saying that she was very sad for the past few days but she seemed happy coz i treat her nice..and she said she need time to erase the memory hope i understand..
then i reply her to be happy.. later i msg her and asked if she wants to go overseas, me thinking of Batam -
(come on this is not a bar topic. so i will make it this reply more suitable in this forum)
go batam holiday good. later in the nite can go for piak piak with her. u happy right? make sure write a short story abt ur hoilda ar 
me like to read story 
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ok... good...Originally posted by nightyoung:she msg me in the early morning.... saying that she was very sad for the past few days but she seemed happy coz i treat her nice..and she said she need time to erase the memory hope i understand..
then i reply her to be happy.. later i msg her and asked if she wants to go overseas, me thinking of Batam
at least now u r doing something thru action.
a good initiative...
let's noe of her reply, ya? -
oh ya.. one more thing....
better try Mayang Sari resort of Bintan (Batam not tat nice... imho)...
the resort there is so unique and romantic...
higher chances of winning her heart there....
trust me, NY...