This good good GAL and its just ME
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nuts.. here we go again...
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bro... i heard....Originally posted by nightyoung:gosh. today i was so broken down ....
after i came back from the trip...
dun worry u are not alone. i always look forward to CNY but this yr...as the days come closer to CNY, i get sad. the memories are starting to flood me...and its not a good thing.
i miss her.
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Everything will be ok...Find things to do and occupy yourself...Then u will start to forget it...Originally posted by Dodobirdie:bro... i heard....
dun worry u are not alone. i always look forward to CNY but this yr...as the days come closer to CNY, i get sad. the memories are starting to flood me...and its not a good thing.
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Take a break... maybe meetup during CNY?
I'll be lonely this CNY again... dun ask me why... -
onz...u arrangeOriginally posted by stupidjoe:Take a break... maybe meetup during CNY?
I'll be lonely this CNY again... dun ask me why... 
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for the past few days.. we keep very close intouch with each other...
so close that i even see her with him together. my heart was shattered that day... after that.. the following day, she called and asked me out coz we are celebrating her good friend's bday and i know the person.. so we went happily celebrating...
she asked me to went back to the house and got the present coz the good friend of hers will be leaving for the new year.. and i meet her coz she got OT..
she asked me whether i was free on CNY and i agreed..
i still cared about her although i still thought that they will be together.. and i bought her fav.. prawn stick from old chang kee coz i know that she will be starving while waiting for our friend.. and we actually chose a present for her friend.. the fun part was she was actually tending a shop there and besides it was the another shop that sells those huggable cute sand pillow.. the good good gal went over a while to tend the shop for a while and our friend, our bday gal comes and pick the sand pillow..
we paid for it and waited our friend to close the shop... and we stayed in the shop for a while before we head down to the KFC for dinner..
i was just very happy to see her again.. and i asked her out on the CNy year too.. and the week after CN"Y. Monday.. she somehow agreed.. she asked me monday go where.. i said chinese new year..walk walk and see movie and happy.. she just smiled and agreed somehow.. -
is she with him or not?
if so, looks like you're back to square one again... -
cheers!!Originally posted by Dodobirdie:onz...u arrange -
its still a question.. i dont knowOriginally posted by the Bear:is she with him or not?
if so, looks like you're back to square one again... -
heart goes out to you dude... don't end up a floormat again...Originally posted by nightyoung:its still a question.. i dont know
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Nightyoung, maybe it's time for you to sit down n ask urself what u really want, n pull ur act together. I have seen pple going ard in circles but u are one of the few who can bring pple to go round in circles with you, lookin at the no. of posts in this forum...Originally posted by nightyoung:i am... and i will walk away on 31st dec.. to be exact 1st jan 2005
morning..
All your previous 'self' promises of a clean break, puttin things behind u etc. (see previous pages e.g. Pg 51). Have u forgotten all about them? Now it seems, u are realli back to square one again.
Move on n stop lookin back. What is urs, is urs. What isn't, no point wasting ur time. Time shld be spent to look for what is urs n not to snatch or wait for what isn't.
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com'on nightyoung.. u have to change ur mentality.. u have to have more self-esteem.. more respect for urself.. u cant juz let one girl control ur life.. it doesnt make sense n is tiring on u.. i was like u yrs back.. but i have gradually changed my approach.. to invest my commitment into various things.. not juz on r/s n girls.. it's not worth it.. there's alot more things in life den girls.. wat's more only one girl.. com'on.. jolt urself up.. i dun mean to be offensive but put it bluntly.. it's getting tiresome n pathetic.. move on positively.. if she's not giving u a clear sign to get together.. dun wait any longer.. u have done so for far too long..
u know pple here r supportive of u.. but tt's juz tt much we can do.. the rest is all up to u..
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i admit i was in too deep again....
this morning i send her a msg and i was keep waiting for her reply... i called her during lunch time and she didnt answered.. so i sms her and she replied..
i suggested we go temple but she said she wanted to cut hair.. so..as usual i met her at orchard and we wanted to get her hair cut.. today she was very cheerful... i was so happy to see her that way. but before that she got 'angry' with me for not replying her sms fand keep her waiting... and i really got questioned marks sometime.. the other two days before.. she also got 'angry'
coz i didnt pick up her call the first time but the second.. her 'angry' was just some remarks and got me wondering why... haha..anyway..
We shared our food and drinks and we head down the shopping mall for the hair cut.. too bad the hairdresser was'nt around so we continued shopping and she decided to buy new year food and i bought a pair of shoes..
while walking .. we chat and laughed..... just so happy..
when we arrived at carrefour, we got ourselves a trollry and start to shop for the stuffs.. during the shopping.. her phone rang.. and her friend called.. maybe its him i dun know.. i didnt asked... doesnt matter as long the shopping is happy... i always enjoyed shopping groceries with her.. it reminded me of our first time where we shopped in the supermarket and played there..
after that we carried lots of things and walked wanting to get a cab but in the end we ended up walking back to orchard with the bags of grocery and i was perspiring and she laughed... we rested a while for the drinks and she said it was a very romantic thing to cross the road and some more we got so heavy stuffs with us.. and it was the first time in our entire life. .. buying groceries and travelling against the traffic and crossing roads..
and i sent her home...
when we were back, we unpack the stuffs into her fridge and i just stayed there for a while before moving off...
after that i sms her and she sms me back saying tha Fm 933 got nice song and i listened and sms her..As i was using the internet radio i knew what song was coming up next and i sms her.. after she sms me saying that she going to be asleep.. i sms her the next upcoming song again.. maybe there were too much love songs there.. the song happened to be 'Wo Ai ni' by SHE.. well.. the song titles says it all.. but i just msg her the 'Wo Ai Ni by SHE' and noted her reply.. yes.. we are going out again for movie and with her friend too..
now thinking back.. i was indeed back.. coz i was like taking advantage of everything .... and i really want to be with her...... i think i had lost my semses somehow....
the worst thing is.. whenever they break off.. we will be very happy together and after a while.. maybe i wasnt persistence enough i just let go and let them to be together again.. somehow..
perhaps its the curse.. when i dont see her so often they got separated when i love her deep and like her so much they will be together...
this time will history repeat itself i wondered and i ...... love her
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I swear she's making use of u again...
Let me ask u a ques...
If her bf is ard, do u think she will look for him or u....
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From wat i see.. u wont si3 xin1 easily.. in tt case.. though is not wat everyone will encourage to do.. but i guess.. since u really cannot get her out of ur love life.. go for her.. pursue.. dun give in to her bf.. tt guy.. her ex.. watever.. is either i dun have her.. or u do.. no where in between.. or u'll continue to be miserable.. make ur choice NY..
Be a man..be decisive.. do wat ur heart tells u.. since ur brain is too weak to rein u( no offence intended.. juz being frank)..
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you love her...
again the question comes up again...
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i meant "u dun have her".. not i..
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Face the truth...
Face yrself... -
com'on pple.. i tink it has come to a point tt coaxing him to draw a clear line separating him n tt girl is almost as possible as not making SGPORK into delicious ba kwa(yummy :mrgreen
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so i guess we should allow him to consider go all out n get her once n for all..
at least its another form of ending.. though not one we(including me) would encourage.. -
okay.. who volunteers to go beat the crap out of her bf?
just kidding...
let's go out and talk this over drinks one of these days... maybe i go talk to her and scare some sense into her? (again kidding
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but heck... hey NY, COURAGE!!
sheesh!
either way... you're gonna need that...
outright ask her to be your girl instead of the other dude...
or walk away...
but courage!
don't "grandmother grandmother mother mother" about it!! -
Weiwei.. bear.. dun make him drunk ok.. go easy on the booze..Originally posted by the Bear:okay.. who volunteers to go beat the crap out of her bf?
just kidding...
let's go out and talk this over drinks one of these days... maybe i go talk to her and scare some sense into her? (again kidding )
but heck... hey NY, COURAGE!!
sheesh!
either way... you're gonna need that...
outright ask her to be your girl instead of the other dude...
or walk away...
but courage!
don't "grandmother grandmother mother mother" about it!!
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We went out today again... about 6 times a week .... somehow its more frequent and this time....
and ... actually we are meeting another friend for movie but she cant turn up..
so i meet her and we go for hair cut.. after that i was asked to took picture of her new hair style and so that she can send to her friends.. and she mentioned the friend who intro to her..
we were like somehow crazy.. taking photos from the toliet outside to dustbin area and the shops and the aquarium and its a happy time..haha
after that we rush to plaza sing for dinner and took the train to woodlands for movie.. wow.. haha
some how i just say weird things too like being together with her in ten years time.. and what age she lives and if she's not around i will be lonely etc..
gosh my cough comes and i am having flu.. so not good to stay close to her somehow i told myself.. but i just cant do that..
after the movie... we shop a bit before heading back home...
while going back home, i asked her which photo she likes and i set her picture as my phone wallpaper and she says as you wish..
gosh.. i was pretty obvious today.. i think so.. and i think i cant start to get mood swing when another guy, her friend called him....
I actually wanted to accompany her and her family to pay a respect to her late Dad but she told me she wont call me coz she saw me this way..
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damn... did you tell her already??
GIRL!! I WANNA BE YOUR GUY!! NOW AND ALWAYS!!
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not yet.. i wanted to let her heal and tell her on Vday but somehow i was losing controlOriginally posted by the Bear:damn... did you tell her already??
GIRL!! I WANNA BE YOUR GUY!! NOW AND ALWAYS!!
do that man, do that!!